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The significance of studying parent-child relationship

Very important, the parent-child relationship directly determines the future development of children.

Parents are children's first teachers. Good behavior, correct educational methods and harmonious family atmosphere are very important for children's psychological growth. Many parents don't really realize their responsibilities as parents and the importance of scientific family education to their children's academic success.

Many parents think that their children's learning quality is the result of school education, so they try their best to find a good school for their children and even spend a lot of money to send their children to key schools. Few parents blame themselves for their children's academic failure and the origin of their children's bad habits. Parents play a decisive role in the formation of children's character.

Family is the harbor and starting point of children's success, and parents are the mentors and assistants of children's success. They are responsible for children's physical and mental development. We should not only pay attention to children's intellectual development, but also pay attention to the cultivation of children's abilities in all aspects; Children should be taught not only to learn knowledge, but also to learn to be human.

On the road of children's growth, personality and behavior habits play a decisive role, and the formation of children's personality and behavior habits is closely related to the family. With the growth of age, many times, we will find that children are more and more like their parents, but no children will become more and more like teachers.

"Successful tutors make successful children, and failed tutors make failed children." In this sense, family education is the foundation of all other education, and parents play a decisive role in children's growth. How to evaluate the importance of parents in children's education cannot be overemphasized.

Children are shaped by family education. Many parents think that their own business is to let their children eat well, dress well and be healthy. Education is a school matter. In fact, no matter where the child is, it is always inseparable from the influence and education of parents, including every word at the dinner table, and the child will see it in his eyes and remember it in his heart.

Parents don't educate their children, and children may get worse; Parents don't educate their children in the right way, and children may become bad. Usually, behind the outstanding children become outstanding talents, there is always the shadow of a warm and harmonious family; Similarly, when a person forms an imperfect personality, factors full of conflicts and contradictions can also be found in the family.