Reflections on "Family Style-Lost Excellent Traditional Culture"

Professor Ceng Shiqiang's family style is explained by the traditional culture of China. Subtitles have two attributes, which define the content of the article from two angles. "Lost" means that it is rarely seen at present, so many viewpoints in this paper have almost disappeared in the current mainstream communication, although they come from traditional culture with a long history. "Excellence" shows that the concept promoted in the article is to remove the dross and retain the content screened out by the essence. It seems that Professor Zeng also thinks that the essence and dross coexist in traditional culture, and we need scholars who make the past serve the present to guide us to follow the good. This is my experience after reading this book, and I will taste the rigor and generalization of the title later in order to remember it.

This book * * * is divided into nine chapters, the structure follows the ancient style, focusing on the big picture and starting from the small. China culture stresses the same origin of family and country, and family style is the inheritance of China culture. "Home" is the smallest unit to inherit culture. Because it is small, it can resist risks and endure hardships. Family is a component that bears the significance of reproduction and cultural inheritance in the inheritance of life, so it can be endless.

The sage chose the road. When we take over the baton, we should understand our mission, be strict and self-disciplined, and hand it over to the next generation as completely as possible.

The book is about family tradition. The first step is to have fundamental rules for yourself, know how to advance and retreat, never admit defeat, never stop, and know how to hide. Take care of yourself first and then talk about the rest. In the second step, the couple work smoothly and live first. The third step is to put Zhu Dexiao first. Love parents, learn from parents, trust parents, and teach children in a way that respects their ancestors, teaching without harm. As for the "method" of educating the next generation, the answer isno. These three steps are explained in detail in the book. Teaching children is only incidental, and preaching is useless. Leading by example is the only way.

There is only one thing to be careful to say to children, the concept of marriage and love. In traditional culture, parents should teach their children family style before they face marriage. In this way, the family style can be combined with the inherited family to ensure the prosperity and long-lasting foundation of the family. After reading this paragraph, I really felt the "lost" part. From this point of view, the time to revive China's family style is only twenty years.

The last chapters of this book are about the cultivation of life skills. Skills are tangible and intangible and must be cultivated. Visible skills include diligence, responsibility, thrift and seriousness. The most precious thing is the invisible habit, which depends on one's conscience and the other's courage to admit mistakes. Invisible things are more powerful than tangible things.

Finally, Professor Zeng said, "Be flexible". Don't be rigid in life and study, and don't cling to what must be done. According to the constant adaptation and adjustment of the environment, this is the essence of China culture that I realized after reading this book-"Yi", which is also the most mysterious part of this book, but it is not long to read. I sell a pass here, and I suggest interested friends read the full text.