The principles and methods of interpersonal communication

1, adhere to the principle of equality: people get along with each other, the most basic principle is to adhere to the principle of equality, only respect each other, treat each other as equals, the other party is willing to continue to get along with.

2, adhere to the principle of compatibility: the principle of compatibility is to respect and different values of the people, the environment is changing, what happens. Not everyone has the same way of doing things, not everyone faces the same situation, the way to face the problem and the method will naturally be different. The only way to have a better relationship is to be tolerant of each other and understand each other.

3, to adhere to the principle of trust: mutual trust is like sincerity, is the cornerstone of human relations. Without mutual trust there will be no good interpersonal relationships. Standing in the position of others, to be friends with others, to believe in others, and with action to get each other's trust.

The following are interpersonal skills:

1. Be generous in your demeanor and consistent in your words and actions when interacting with others to make them feel pleasant and trustworthy.

2, remember people's names, encountered the initiative to greet, address should be appropriate, so that people feel valued, think you are polite people.

3, the tone of voice must be easy-going, give a person a sense of approachability, not proud, blind arrogance, let a person feel an unattainable look.

4. Focus on the charm of language: comfort the traumatized and encourage the failures. Praise those who are truly successful and praise those who are having difficulties.

5, decisive, assertive, spiritual, confident people are easy to stimulate the motivation of others to interact with others to gain the trust of others, resulting in a pleasant interaction with the charm.