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What should I do if there is a serious preference for boys at home?

Preference for boys is a particularly feudal and backward thought, which mainly exists in ancient and backward rural areas. Because of this unfair family education, it is easy to have a negative impact on children's growth and even destroy their spirit. Therefore, in recent years, more and more people have realized the negative consequences of son preference and started to give up this idea.

However, there will always be some people who, due to the deep-rooted influence, still prefer boys to girls and treat their children differently in the family. If you grow up in this family environment, you are really unlucky.

I remember that Su Mu in the fire drama "Everything is OK" was a typical mother who preferred sons to daughters. Therefore, Su Mingyu, who was treated unfairly, was severely traumatized and lacked love since she was a child, so that she was particularly competitive and emotionally indifferent in adulthood. Childhood trauma affected her life and haunted her like a nightmare.

When I watched this TV series, I felt that it was really unfortunate for her to live in such a family. But fortunately, she is very independent, she is very competitive, she is not willing to the status quo, and has been fighting against life. And because she didn't admit defeat, life finally improved.

So, if you can't decide your family environment, then decide your future. If you live in a patriarchal family, you must work harder and don't be discouraged, because your success is an effective way to get fair treatment. So, tell yourself that you must become better, so as to avoid those oppression, find your own life and bid farewell to the past.