There are a lot of grandparents let their grandchildren change the name of grandparents is what mentality?

Nowadays, there are many grandparents in the society who will let their grandchildren call themselves grandparents instead, and such behavior reflects their insistence on blood kinship. Now after the standard of living is better, everyone is generally only child, both husband and wife are only child, then after they get married the woman's parents are equivalent to no longer have their own children, they let their grandchildren call themselves grandparents, but also in the mind as a kind of comfort, is to tell themselves that this child is also their grandchildren.

Traditional Chinese concept is to follow the family name of who is the child of the family, usually the child is followed by the man's family name, so daughters married to the province of the child is also someone else's family. These are the old feudal superstitious ideas, from a scientific point of view, men and women married after the birth of the child and their own have the same blood relations, and does not say that the daughter of the child is not their own family. Now there are many only child they have a child after the child is two families **** the same child, their grandparents let the grandson to change the name is also a psychological comfort, because in their minds, only the grandchildren are considered their own children.

So nowadays, many couples who are only children on both sides are asked to have two children after they get married, with one child following the husband's surname and one following the wife's, so that the two families have someone to pass on to. This is also a way to reflect the influence of traditional Chinese culture on people's thinking is very far-reaching, people will not easily change the idea of passing on the family name for a while, and this idea is actually the root of patriarchy.

We understand their behavior, but we also hope that this concept can be more and more diluted, whether it is a man or a woman, and no matter what the child's surname is, as long as they have a blood relationship with their own children, they are their own children. Grandparents and grandparents are very important relatives of the child, and the comparison of their importance is like asking who is more important among the parents.