A man married a 22-year-old wife. What do you think of this relationship?

I don't accept or support this relationship. All I can do is respect them.

First, it is unethical for a man to marry a 22-year-old daughter-in-law, but there are also special circumstances in our traditional cognition. Is a despicable thing, contrary to ethics. For example, in history, Yang Yuhuan married her father-in-law Tang Xuanzong. Hundreds of years later, people are still ashamed of it and violate ethics.

But on the Xiongnu side, sons can marry their mothers, grandchildren can marry their grandmothers, and brothers can marry their sisters-in-law when they die. This is the custom of Huns. In order to protect family property, they have pure blood.

Aarti, 18 years old, married gautam Singh. Two years after their marriage, gautam Singh died and Aarti became a widow. In today's society, you can continue to choose to remarry after losing your husband, but this Alti actually wanted to marry her father-in-law two years after her husband died. It turned out that after her husband died, her father-in-law had been taking care of himself, and over time, the two had a spark of love.

If it's just an old couple, it's nothing. The key is the awkward relationship between the daughter-in-law and the father-in-law. But the marriage customs in India are different from ours, and every region is different. They applied to the Committee, and finally the Committee approved their application. Gautam Singh's father and Aarti held a grand wedding.

Second, it's nothing for a man to marry a daughter-in-law, but I don't accept or support how many old couples and young women are looking for uncles, fathers and even grandfathers in real life. Although it looks ridiculous, who can understand their feelings?

There is nothing wrong with a man marrying a 22-year-old wife. The son died for two years and the man took care of his daughter-in-law for two years. Over time, lonely men and a few women together will inevitably have no feelings.

It's just that if such a thing really happens to me, I really can't accept it. If the daughter-in-law and son have a child, what should the child be called grandpa after the child's mother gets married? If you're not married, call it grandpa. Is it difficult to call wedding photos? Dad? Really? And brother-in-law's sister-in-law, originally called eldest sister-in-law. If they marry their father-in-law, will they change their names? Mom? Really? These questions are so embarrassing.

I don't accept this relationship, let alone support it. Maybe I am a bit old-fashioned and can't let go. I really can't accept this relationship for the time being.

Third, although I don't accept or support them, I will still respect them. Although my thoughts are a bit old-fashioned, I won't slander them, let alone look down on them. They have their own choices. Everyone's life is in their own hands, and everyone has their own choices.

As an outsider, respect them, don't vilify them, don't give them psychological pressure, and let them choose freely. After all, every country and region has different wedding customs. Everyone's preferences are different.

As long as you live up to your heart, you can live happily. How to live a good life is not to live, to follow your inner choice, not to live in regret, and to choose a happy life.