How to deal with the unreasonable old man

How to deal with the unreasonable old man

How to deal with the unreasonable old man, it is said that respect for the elderly and love for the young is a traditional virtue of the Chinese people, then for such a reason is certainly know how to learn. But also have to see the facts Shifu camp in line with our values, then for some unreasonable old how to do, the following is how to deal with unreasonable old people.

How to deal with unreasonable old 1

Modern civilization, the civilization of cooperation. Aristocrats and civilians, capitalists and workers, landlords and tenants, the old and the young can not help but cooperation. The modern society is a society of harmony. Nobles and commoners are in harmony, capitalists and workers are in harmony, landlords and tenants are in harmony, and the elderly and the youth are in harmony. Only their cooperation and harmony, and then the progress of civilization, social happiness, can be achieved.

Young people can stand on their own two feet, and it is especially important for them to work with the elderly; the elderly can stand on their own two feet, and it is especially important for them to be in harmony with the youth. Cover the beautiful situation of society, must be by the youth and gray hair of the two kinds of quality and color performance with matching proportionality, to be able to show a distinctive and magnificent view; or else fragmented pin Shen, no longer alive. Therefore, the youth and the elderly in society, are the elements of its composition, indispensable, and between the two, it is particularly desirable to exhaust their strengths, and help each other, in order to help advance the beauty of society, the development of civilization.

I have been arguing that the way of group performance is to fix its order on one side and promote its progress on the other. Without order, progress is difficult to expect, without progress, order is not guaranteed. Explanation of the purpose of the most elite such as Meier, said: "Where the political or social enterprises, not only on the order of the people, not only on the progress of the people, want to rise one, the two when must **** up also. ...... The needs of progress and the needs of order are of the same quality, but those who are used for progress are more numerous than those who are used for order. The need for safety and security is the same as the need for progress, and its quality is the same, but those who use it for safety and security regard those who use it for progress as a lesser quantity. The needs of security, order and progress are of the same quality but different in quantity. ...... Among a group of people, the reconciliation between the elderly and the youth has its natural boundaries. Elderly people have gained prestige and status, and they are careful and prudent in their actions; young people want to gain this prestige and status, and they are prone to excesses. The government has a division to reconcile between the elderly and the youth, if appropriate, do not want to use man-made forces in the natural proper harmony with some gain or loss, then the slow and intense moderate, just and soft appropriate, political reconciliation of the will of the reach." Guriatenson's worldview and political conviction, that are based on two kinds of persistence, that is, aggressive and conservative is also. He also said, "There is one thing that should be kept in mind, that is, these two worldviews, which are based on the two kinds of perspectives, should not compete with each other in order to conquer or exterminate the others. Both are necessary for the sake of eternity, and their rivalry is a means of keeping pace with each other in order to ensure the progress of the world." By the words of the two sons, it is clear that the evolution of the world is driven by two concepts and certainties, just as a car has two wheels and a bird has two wings, and without one of the two, progress is bound to be halted. These concepts, judged by the nature of people, that is, progress and conservatism; judged by the age of people, that is, youth and the elderly only.

The old man was despised as the evil wind of a small, small society. The natives of Central Asia, Africa, and the Liga, will be at war with other tribes, and will eat their relatives first. The fear of war once started, the old man is easy for the enemy captured, or by the abuse of the encounter, and even killed; therefore, for the elderly, would rather think that their children eat for the blessing, and for the son of the people, but also for the food of their relatives as filial piety, is really a strange story also. The status of the barbarian society is divided into superior and inferior by the strength of the wrist, and the status of the civilized society is judged by the depth of knowledge. The old man in the unopened era, to the wrist for the weak, so they were abused; enlightened era of the old man, to the knowledge of the power for the superior, so they are honored. In today's society, the elderly are given the opportunity to compete with the youth. This old man should be more self-motivated, in order to repay the favor of society. Due to the self-improvement of the elderly, their physical strength has become healthier and their knowledge has become richer. The old man's physical strength, although as young people for the decline, but according to its continuous cultivation, can also reduce its degree, and its knowledge and experience, is enough to make up for its long than the young people's physical shortcomings, so its for the community, but also not inferior to the young. I have heard that the elderly in Europe and America are active in society, and the number of them is so large that people are amazed. Today's elderly, can really help the progress of social civilization, this society should set up a variety of systems to reward the elderly for the work of the community also. Covering the universe, all kinds of things, all have their own significance of existence, if the existence of the world, that is, have to do their duty, can be the cause. Western proverb: "No food for those who do not work". The old man can not be the reason for the old man, and have the right to sit down and eat? I love twenty-four years old for the British Cabinet Prime Minister Bitter, I especially love to eighty-four years of age of the old body for the Irish issue of the fight of Glenston; I respect to twenty-six years of age of young people driving millions of troops across the Yalbaise heavenly conquest of Napoleon in Italy, I especially respect to eighty-two years of age of the old man galloped in the light of the iron and blood died in the battlefield of the ambush of the bones of the Roberts.

Our country's modern old man, to its youth in the age of neither considerable cultivation, a reach the eighties and nineties, all moaning and spreading in the old age, all moaning and spreading in the sickbed between the feet and hands are still waiting for the support of young people, the knowledge of the stubborn, and a few do not know today's world for the Han and Tang Dynasty. It is extremely difficult for young people to work with them and harmonize with them. We can only pity them, cherish them, and feed them, but we have no hope for them. I only hope that the new youth of our new China quickly rise and shoulders, take this responsibility to rebuild the country and the nation, that is, from the youth to the old age of eighty, a breath of life, do not slacken their efforts, do not desert their cultivation, the period of time in the era of the youth for a good young people, that is, the old man era for a good old man, do not make the youth after the youth pity today's young people, and also today's young people pity the old people today.

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Methods / Steps

First, if it is not important things, you can let the old man. After all, they are old, move slowly, brain thinking aging, encounter these things can let them.

Second, if it is not trivial, then you have to show your principles and bottom line. They are afraid to casually say you again, but also have to respect you.

Third, if it is your own parents, then you have to be patient with them, enlighten them, or use actions to sensitize them. Because parents love their own, will eventually understand.

Fourth, thirty-six plans, go for the best. So that there will be no conflict and avoid quarrels. One step back to the sea and the sky?

Fifth, if you do not walk around the elders, do not have to take to heart what they say. After all, it is the elders, parents' friends, in order to parents always have to worry about a few points.

Sixth, to maintain their own inner calm and reason, know the standard of right and wrong, so as not to be affected, make the right choice.

Seven, meet the old man, do not and he hands, it is best to find a monitor or call 110 to let the police to help.

For the family and relatives to deal with, I have some suggestions:

1, a point of humility, family members do not do everything between the pinpoint, give each other the opportunity to say more for each other's sake, to avoid unnecessary conflict, family love is priceless.

2, a point of surprise, to create a dramatic effect, often a lot of conflict in the joke in the smoke.

3, two points of responsibility, undertake their own responsibilities and obligations, more for the family to do a little, less for their own consideration.

4, two points of communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members so that the conflict intensified.

5, four points of open-mindedness, life is short, should create a harmonious society, harmonious families, open-minded about everything, do not be catty about everything, do not fight, do not covet small advantages, a little open-minded, happy to be thankful for the people live easily and happily.