What are the taboos of traditional Chinese folklore?

I. The taboo month of choosing the date of marriage is the third month, the seventh month and the ninth month of the lunar calendar, which coincide with the "Ching Ming", the "Yu Lan" and the "Chong Gong", respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for wedding ceremonies. These three months coincide with "Ching Ming", "Yu Lan" and "Chong Kung" respectively, which are all traditional "ghost festivals" and should not be celebrated. The "June marriage half a year", June is equal to half a year, June marriage has "half a year husband and wife" of the omen.

Two, meet another team to marry the caravan on the way to the wedding, such as meeting another team to marry the caravan, called the "joy of joy", will offset each other's blessings, so it is necessary to set off firecrackers each other, or by the two sides of the matchmaker to exchange flowers, in order to dissolve it.

Three, the new man against the three phases of the so-called ancient wedding etiquette, "the new man against the three phases": that is, on the day of the wedding, especially the bride on the sedan chair, sedan chair, worship of heaven and earth, there will be three phases of the people have a negative impact on the people, these people, if you do not avoid it, you may be affected. In order to the smooth wedding and the peace of guests, the ancients will be in the wedding book in a very conspicuous position, clearly listed these three phases, so that guests can see, and prepare in advance. How to calculate the "three phases"? The rule is: to the bride's zodiac sign as a start, the positive number of the 1st, 5th, 9th place corresponding to the Chinese zodiac sign A simple example, if the bride's zodiac sign is a monkey, her "taboo on the three phases" that is, the chicken, the cow, the snake, the three signs of the Chinese zodiac people. In accordance with and kind of saying, "taboo three phase" of the harm is mainly concentrated in the bride on the sedan chair (car), worship of heaven and earth, so, belonging to the bride and groom taboo three phase guests, as long as the three time to hide in the house, do not go to see the fun on the good.

Four, pressure on the bed after the new bed to the night before the wedding, the groom-to-be had better find an underage boy to sleep with the new bed, or else commit the taboo of sleeping in an empty bed, the so-called "sleepy empty store, do not die inibs, but also dead, also die a certain ″, is considered to be a bad omen.

Fifth, the wedding can not be carried out in the underground We "underground" mainly refers to a number of underground restaurants, entertainment venues, etc., which in feng shui is a big bad phase, must be avoided.

Sixth, the reasonable placement of the wedding photo wedding photo as a witness to happiness, put the right location is conducive to enhance the relationship between husband and wife, otherwise it will bring trouble. Generally speaking, the wedding photo should not be placed on the bed, which will bring pressure on each other, will receive the opposite effect. In addition, the opposite side of the wedding photo can not have a mirror, otherwise the mirror reflection effect will make the couple cracks; wedding photo is best placed in the northwest, this direction is easy to enhance the couple's relationship

seven, back to the door can not be in the mother's home overnight back to the door, refers to the newlyweds in the wedding ceremony with the gift back to the mother's home, the mother's home and then invite friends and relatives of the ceremony. In the old days back to the door, known as the "return to Ning", generally the third day after the wedding. Nowadays, the day of returning to the door has changed and is not quite fixed. In some places, it is set on the second day of the wedding, while in others, an auspicious day is chosen for the ceremony. However, please keep in mind that the bride and groom must return to the mother-in-law's home on the day of the return, and must not spend the night in the mother's home.