Shangqiu is a city with a long history, then you know the wedding customs of Shangqiu?

Shangqiu is a city with a long history, a variety of customs are also very much, such as the time of marriage there is a man to prepare a generous bride price, first sent to the woman's home, to obtain the consent of the woman's parents, you can ask for help to select the auspicious date to set the date of the wedding, the woman also want to take the dowry to the man's home, so that it will be in the man's home to be respected, and the newcomers to change the language in the course of the wedding, the parents of the two sides There is also a big red packet for them, and each village will be slightly different in some details.

Shangqiu wedding customs in the male side need to give the female side of the bride price, which is what we now call the bride price, in the female side of the parents recognized, the two family members began to prepare for the wedding, the specific amount of this gift is also depending on the male side of the family conditions, the male side of the gift sent after the female side to bring him back to the pre-prepared gift, mainly some clothes shoes and the like, to show the heart. And the night before the wedding, but also a healthy boy in the new bed to sleep one night, meaning that the bride can be born early, the bed is usually also placed some red dates, peanuts, cinnamon, lotus seeds, these dried fruits, to take its good meaning.

The night before the wedding, but also "on the head" ceremony, before the wedding will be the bride's braid into a bun, and wear headdresses, that she will be married to a wife into the adult stage. Of course, we also need to find children of the old man to the bride combed hair, while combing hair while saying some auspicious words, but also on the bride after the wedding life of the blessing.

On the day of the official wedding, the man will be dowry carried into the groom's home, the key to the groom's mother for safekeeping, the two sides kneeling to worship heaven and earth and the parents of the ceremony, even if it is formally married, this time to start the wedding banquet, the banquet is also some of the instructions to be eight meat and eight veg dishes, and the newcomers will also give the toast to the guests to accept the blessings of everyone. When the guests are gone, the people who love to have fun will also make the cave, really want to have a good "difficult" a little bit of the new couple it.

Shangqiu marriage customs in Henan area is also considered to be more distinctive, for everyone concerned about such things as the bride price, in fact, the two sides can be negotiated to develop, as long as the two young people want to live a long time over the life of the intention, then the family as long as to give enough support on the good customs and habits we must abide by, which is a reflection of the spirit of the Chinese nation, we need to continue to pass on, we need to be a good example of the spirit of the Chinese people, we need to be a good example of the spirit of the Chinese people. This is also a reflection of the spirit of our Chinese nation, we need to continue to pass on.