Traditional people

I am not a traditional person. The so-called "tradition" is just following the rules and sticking to the rules. Study when you should study, and look for a job when you should look for a job. Work must be good for civil servants and institutions. You must get married and have children early ... you can't have ideals, pursuits or "unusual" hobbies. You can only copy most people's lives, so you can live a lifetime. Perhaps as a "traditional person", it is difficult to live a plain life, let alone a person who is not "traditional"?

If you want to be a "traditional" person, you must first have a "traditional" character. Growing up, you must be like most people, and you can't have too much sex. It is impossible to like things that do not conform to the "tradition" and have personalities and pursuits that do not conform to the "tradition". Girls should like dolls and beautiful clothes, women should like designer bags and lipsticks, women should be brainless and unreasonable, be gentle and virtuous, and teach each other when they get married ... Who stipulates that this must be the case? Before being born as a gender, you should be an individual first. As long as they are individuals, they will have different pursuits and personalities. There are girls who like to spend skirts, and girls who like kung fu, sports and entomology; Some girls' dreams are really housewives, some are athletes, researchers or presidents! Who stipulates what people must be like? Why bind a person with "traditional" concepts and stereotypes? Is human value defined by those "traditional" things? Some people are traditional in character and choose the traditional road; Some people are not so traditional. In the eyes of "tradition", they are unique and unfamiliar, but in her own eyes, they are just being themselves completely.

People are all kinds, everyone has the right to choose his own life under reasonable premise, and others are not qualified to judge and define. Regardless of "tradition" or not, we must follow our inner intentions and live our own unique life!