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Is there a conflict between mother's filial piety and mother's failure? How should mothers educate their children?

This is actually not a conflict. Different "goodwill" leads to different educational results. In the concept of educating children, the correct way of education can determine a child's life, and everything can be controlled to a certain extent. Overindulgence and overindulgence will only ruin a child's life.

A loving mother often loses to her children. This is about the mother's excessive doting and connivance, which easily leads to the child's arrogance and willfulness. As a result, it is also obvious that the family style is corrupted and the family wealth is exhausted. Mother's kindness and filial piety is about mother's kindness and filial piety. It is usually the mother's inculcation that makes children sensible. When I grow up, I am not only filial to my parents, but also full of hope for my country and my family.

Children grow up slowly, which also gives parents a time to study. Education at different ages is also different. Since children have just learned to walk and talk, parents should slowly start to guide and encourage and slowly start to let go. From an early age, they should cultivate the concept of doing things by themselves and cultivate their independent personality. If you help children do everything well, even if they have the ability of learning and cognition, there is nowhere to go. Parents' love can be expressed in other ways, such as providing a good family atmosphere for children to grow up in a happy and harmonious environment, so that children will be more confident, appropriately encourage children to do things they dare not do, take them out to travel more, and get in touch with strange environments and strangers, which can cultivate their adaptability.

There are many ways to love children, and different children have different ways. You must choose the education method that suits your children best, so that the children you cultivate will not be too bad.

How should mothers educate their children?

First of all, this mother must have the awareness of education, a warm heart, optimism and open-mindedness, and make progress in learning! Because the mother is the shadow of the child. Secondly, I am willing to accompany my children. I want to spend time with my children. I want to chat with my children in my spare time. I want to infiltrate traditional virtues into children's minds when playing games and chatting. Strive to build children's all-round development in morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor. Finally, know how to let go. Some mothers like to hold their children in their mouths and hold them in their palms. But as the child grows up day by day, when we can't hug or hold it, we find it's too late, and the child is used to your hug. Children who lose their dependence will feel at a loss, at a loss, and don't know where to go at the crossroads of life.