What hypocritical "old rules" should be observed in China's ancient wedding?

There are many rules about China's ancient traditional life and feudal thought. It is hard to prevent, and it is very careful, because it is not good to be afraid of making a mistake accidentally, because it may be punished. After all, punishment was very common in ancient times.

In ancient times, if the bride got married, the loving couples in ancient times still had to strictly abide by the wedding rules and could not live together as sweetly as they do now, especially when sharing the same room.

According to some records in the Qing Dynasty, even if you are facing your daughter-in-law, it is not absolutely impossible to bully the weak, and you should pay attention to the rules of treating people when forcing couples to leave the city. At least both husband and wife should be pleasing to the eye and reach the highest level of harmony between husband and wife.

So, in ancient times, even in front of the person you love the most, you have to obey the rules, even if there are only two people present, you have to obey the rules. This kind of life is really tiring. But they must abide by it

According to historical records, before the first love after the wedding, the groom and some little brides apologized and asked for forgiveness. Even the groom who has power and status should carefully move out the excuse of sacrificing for the great cause in order to naturally integrate into his role.

Now some people regard these stories as jokes. I heard that they are actually hypocritical, hypocritical. In fact, in the feudal era when male chauvinism prevailed, it was not easy to treat his wife like this.

After all, in ancient times, we paid most attention to etiquette and rules. No matter what you do, you should follow the rules and be justified. Otherwise, others will look at you with colored glasses and stab you in the back. So life in ancient times was actually very tiring.