Rules to be observed in civilized etiquette

Civilized etiquette is the most basic moral norm that human beings require people to abide by in order to maintain the normal operation of society. It

Rules to be observed in civilized etiquette

Civilized etiquette is the most basic moral norm that human beings require people to abide by in order to maintain the normal operation of society. It is gradually formed in people's long-term life and communication and is fixed by customs and traditions. Let's talk about the rules that civilized etiquette should abide by!

: hospitality

1 When tourists visit, they should clean up their homes and dress neatly, especially in summer, and pay more attention not to go out to entertain guests at will.

When guests come, they should take the initiative to welcome them out and hand them over outside the door. The host extended his right hand to invite the guests in. Guests can only enter with a slight bow of thanks. The host led the guests ahead and followed them. Guests should put their shoes away and go into battle lightly when they leave, so as not to disturb other family members. The host will ask the guests to sit down, and the guests can only sit down after thanking them. The host will wait for the guests to sit down before getting up. Guests can stand up to see them off first.

If there are guests in the room, everyone should stand up and the host should introduce them one by one. They should greet each other before sitting down. It stands to reason that late guests should sit down after everyone else has sat down.

The host should take the initiative to hand the tea and water in person, and the guests took it with both hands and nodded. Serve the old first, then the young, the raw, and then the cooked.

If only two people are talking face to face, when a guest comes in, stand up and silently give up your seat. Newcomers can only sit by themselves when they sit down. Don't interrupt yourself. Only when they are invited can they join the conversation.

When handing over items, hold them firmly with both hands, give them with one hand, give them with both hands, give them to elders and superiors, give them to juniors and subordinates, and give them gifts from elders and teachers. You shouldn't refuse.

If you know how to respect your elders, you should salute and say hello after getting started.

On holidays, relatives and friends should visit each other and give gifts to each other. Every household has to walk to see it off. Younger students should take the initiative to go to their elders' homes to pay New Year greetings. When they meet people on the road, they should perform ancient rituals, such as bowing.

Talking and communicating

1 Don't talk until the other person has finished. Don't interrupt others casually.

Don't move your body, cross your legs, touch your feet or stagger when you speak.

Don't stare at each other all the time when you are talking.

Don't point your finger at the other person or others when you speak.

The party is organized.

When many people eat at the same table or have a meeting, please ask the elders or elders to sit on the seats, followed by the seats on the left and right sides, according to seniority, age and order. If you are the host, you should sit at the bottom.

In ancient times, from the Han Dynasty to the Southern and Northern Dynasties, the dining table was divided into host and guest seats. The host lives in the north, and the guests sit separately. There are separate tableware on the left and right sides of the room. During the Sui and Tang Dynasties, there were long square tables, but everyone still had their own tableware and the seats were the same. In the Qing dynasty, round tables were generally used to gather in one place, which is still in use today. Personally, I think that the ancestor's dining system is better whether it is a dinner party or a party, especially today when infectious diseases are rampant.

Courtesy salute

1 Thank you: Thank others, don't just say thank you. You should stand up and bow. Apologize to others, bow or nod to show sincere repentance.

Meeting ceremony: when friends of the same age meet, they should bow to each other face to face; When brothers and sisters or other people meet, they should salute the younger generation or younger generation, and the other party will reciprocate; Between men and women, men salute first and women reciprocate; When you meet an elder, you should take the initiative to salute, and the elder can only nod back to the younger generation.

: learn to clean up.

1 If a teacher walks by dressed as a person on campus, whether he knows it or not, he should stop and lean over to let him pass first.

Students in senior or junior grades should be called "so-and-so brother and sister" and should be respected.

Students in the same grade should be called "XXX"

: orderly.

No matter brothers and sisters or close friends, the younger one should be called the older brother/sister, the older one should be called the younger brother/sister, and the younger one should be treated with courtesy. Regardless of the number of seats, the distribution of goods should be given priority to the younger one everywhere.

: the gift of title

I can only say a little about the name. Now we habitually call people of the same age or the same social circle by their first names or intimate relationships. Swearing is considered as a way to show friendship. In fact, in China's etiquette, the so-called taboo names are not only taboo, but also can't be called casually. Generally, only parents occasionally call or mention it politely. In ancient times, even between monarch and minister, it was impossible to call them by their first names. It can be seen that the name can only be used in bidding documents, account establishment and registrant. In the same social circle, people usually call them by their surnames and titles, or by someone who respects them but is close to them, such as brothers/sisters, or call them brothers and sisters.

General requirements of family etiquette

1 Older elders with mobility difficulties should take the initiative to pay a New Year call in their rooms one day. It's best for a couple to go, and the younger brothers and sisters at home also go, so that many people won't be too lazy to chat with them, ask about the temperature, and send meals and towels.

Say hello to each other when you go out, say hello to school and work, say "I'm back" when you come back, and someone at home says hello to help with things. When a son goes out, he should take the initiative to bid farewell to his elders' rooms, and when he comes back, he should take the initiative to salute his elders so as not to worry.

Remember to close the door indoors or when talking with relatives and friends, so as not to affect other family members.

No matter at home or on other occasions, don't push the door directly into other people's rooms, and don't knock loudly and rudely. This is impolite and bothers others. You should announce "I am XXX." May I come in? " People inside should say "come in" and stand up before they can go in. Familiar relatives and friends can sit directly. The host, such as guests or scattered people, should invite them to sit at the table, and they can sit by themselves. As a junior, you should take the initiative to go to the elder's room and make a report and reply as before, but the elder is still sitting in the main seat, and the younger generation can bow slightly after entering and sit in the guest seat.

Friends, even brothers and sisters, should stand up. If you are an elder or a teacher, stand up and bow slightly. Elders can't sit, only when they are told to sit.

When two people salute together or accompany others, if others have to salute themselves, they can't sit down when they salute themselves.

When saluting, stand up, leave your seat, stand aside, bow down, get up and reset, and don't kneel directly from your seat.

Dress appropriately when going out.

Don't make any noise even at home.