The case of traditional education methods-analysis

Children often litter and throw things, do not eat and sleep properly, and other children can not "peace **** with" ...... encountered these situations, many parents to educate the child's method is to spanking, spanking, but this way of education caused by the controversy is growing. The controversy is growing. In the happy education, appreciation of the impact of the concept of education, "do not hit the traditional concept of tutelage is still popular, parents themselves scolded the phenomenon of children is still widespread.

"Stick education" should be "laid off"

Originally, parents were treating their children as "little emperors". The first time I've ever seen a child in a car, I've seen him in a car, and I've seen him in a car, and I've seen him in a car, and I've seen him in a car. If you're not in a hurry, you won't be able to beat your child. In fact, for children aged 0-6 years old, these last resort "stick" education is not an appropriate education method. In any case, hitting a child is not a good idea.

DouDou: a two-and-a-half-year-old boy

The situation: DouDou is a lively and active child, always love to fiddle with all kinds of electrical appliances in the house, the power socket was on his eye, and he played with it incessantly, and his mother criticized him several times, and he still did not change his mind.

Doudou's mom reason: the power outlet is not like other things, dangerous, although there is an anti-electric device, but the children play with things are not measured, may play it rotten, leakage, the consequences are unimaginable. And doudoune moncler outlet, 5 times, he still seems to not hear, pretend not to know, continue to fiddle with the power switch, in a hurry I hit him on the butt.

Expert Opinion: Two-year-old children can not know what "electricity" is, and do not know what kind of danger is electrocution, parents can use a cup of hot water to touch his hand, so that he feels the danger of the 'concept. In addition, children of this age are curious about the characteristics of the external environment, you should create a safe environment for them, less ban, give them the freedom and right to explore. Like Doudou's mom, you can put away the plug-in board, and in addition, put a patterned sticker on the power supply, so that there will be no danger.

Niu Niu: a two-year-old princess

Being beaten up: Niu Niu is not happy when it comes to eating, she doesn't like to eat, and she likes to eat snacks. When it comes to eating, the mouth is closed tightly, mom how to say do not listen, mom was anxious, so she hit Niu Niu.

Niu Niu mother's reason: She recently did not know how, on the meal particularly resistant, to the meal on the temper, refused to eat, how to reasoning is not, now so big children do not eat only snacks how to do, I really have no way to hit her a few times.

Expert Opinion:

This is the first time I've ever seen a child as old as I am, and I'm not sure if I've ever seen a child as old as I am, but I'm not sure if I've ever seen a child as old as I am, and I'm not sure if I've ever seen a child as old as I am. She thinks that eating is the will of adults imposed on her, not something she wants to do, in addition, she began to resent eating, think eating is not happy, to eat the time the child does not eat, parents again and again to teach, may be counterproductive. At this time, parents should find a child like to do things, and meals combined, for example, Nyonya likes to play with rabbit stuffed animals, you can stick carrots in the rice, tell her that bunnies love to eat carrots, and make the meal colorful, so that the child will be able to feel fun and appetite at mealtime. Hitting the child at this point will only make her more averse to eating and will not solve the problem at its root.