What are the wrong concepts of educating children

1, put their hopes on their children. A lot of parents, their whole life is muddled, did not see mixed up what the hall of fame, but the children's requirements are very high. They can't get into college, they can't ask their children to take the test; they can't make any achievement in a certain line, and they can't ask their children to make achievement in a certain area. Do not do unto others what you would not have them do unto you, and do unto others what you would not have them do unto you. If we educate children with such a concept, not only is the result difficult as you wish, but also will let the child develop into their own to do, ask others to do the distortion of personality.

2. I hope that my children will be able to honor their ancestors. Expecting children to become a dragon, expecting women to become a phoenix is the parents of their children's greatest wish, but the purpose of becoming a dragon to become a phoenix is not necessarily the glory of the ancestors, the glory of the ancestors this is the continuation of the feudal patriarchal ideology, is the purpose of the feudal education, as a modern man we pursue the values, should be to maximize personal value as the goal. If the idea of honoring the ancestors is always hanging on the mouth, then it may make the child's pattern is not big enough, the personality is not strong enough, the formation of traditional conservative thinking.

3, they do not do require children to do. Nowadays, many parents in the education of children, mouth vibration, a set of theory, in fact, their children's requirements, most of them are not able to do. For example, many parents like to educate their children to look at the phone less, read more books, but they are holding the phone all day, a year did not see to read a few books, such education, will only be counterproductive. The parents who can't set a good example and lead by example are not qualified educators.