The ancient teachings of family rules and revealing family names

According to Family Rules in Volume III of Revealing Genealogy in Shicheng, "Dao 'an's family style was given a surname by force" and "Zhang Yushide passed on Xu Yi by loyalty and filial piety". Looking up his genealogy, we can see that the wind of peace still exists, and the principle of loyalty and filial piety has been passed down from generation to generation.

Cultivation of filial piety

Genealogy vividly describes children from the beginning of "mother blood and father essence", "pregnancy in October" and "the birth of a child shocked the soul". Intestines are like knives, and life is in the shadows. After Three Years of Breastfeeding, Embracing Silk and Sleeping Well; "I can get used to walking, but I'm worried about falling down." I'm worried about the diseases caused by it, and I pray to the Buddha for help. Father is a child, and he cares about business. "It is really difficult for parents to have children. In the genealogy education of future generations, parents should do their best to support and honor their children when they are 100 years old, even if they are poor, half-baked, and filial. When children are rich, it is not enough for parents to be "rich", but also "don't be a fake servant, do it yourself." ""A kiss and a smile are better than three animals. "

For brothers and sisters, you should be "your own flesh and blood" and "dear sister, Grace and her nephew". "Brothers, parents and children, don't take Shaoling, let pears push dates and shoulder geese." "Eldest brother or father, sister-in-law's mother. Things must be in order, don't argue. Brother and son are connected by flesh and blood, and their diet teaches each other. "

For the death of a loved one, "I will regret it on the day I die until the end of my life." "Be careful when you wear clothes." "The burial ceremony for Yu Xiang is not awkward." For the ancestors who passed away in the past, we should also "repay them with a taste."

The precepts of boudoir

There are obviously remnants of feudal thoughts that despise women in the commandments, and they think that "it has been a disaster since ancient times; It depends on the woman. A child will be happy if he doesn't get married. One wife is confused, and the other is ignorant. If the son is not married, the flesh and blood will be United. If you are confused by your wife, you will divide the field. " In genealogy, the way to educate future generations to manage the family is "righteousness first" and "being a good wife and honoring guests". Don't care about the money "who is more and who is less", "whatever you say and do, the rate is impartial." Teach the old porter, check livestock, chickens and dolphins. Women in the family should "do their jobs" and "work hard". "Sleep is sleep, food and clothing are flat", "clothes are not fresh", hard work and simplicity. For women in the same town, they are often "talkative" and don't talk to them about people. This is the place where right and wrong were born. Genealogy takes "Zeus, a merchant's pawn" as a historical mirror to educate future generations not to be infatuated with women's sex. "Beautiful ladies and concubines are indulgent. Zeus, a business pawn, hangs high in the mirror. "

Nongsang training

Discipline education children and grandchildren to work hard, the most taboo is to pamper, not to work for the family. "Hoover, Xifeng in the shoe. Be sincere with people's hearts, and be most afraid of being careless. It is useless, and it is difficult to be poor. " Family precepts also warned future generations to either farm or seek an official position. "Except for two ways, you can't attack outsiders." ""Kuang son stupid base, this is not a plain. If the husband does not plow, the palace will cry. Do not accumulate for one day; The cold is in children. "The genealogy also says that we should be diligent and thrifty." Diligence and thrift, using money is a passport. "If you have enough money, you can spend the winter. If you live within your means, it will be empty. " Genealogy also explains the dialectical relationship between small and big, poor and rich, product and failure. "Don't be too young, the business has an end. Every little makes a mickle, and you will get rich in a few minutes. It' s hard to return, and it' s leisurely. " "Leisure habits, luxury is male. Even if there is gain, there is no loss. Why don't you do your duty and be Tian She Weng? " "Cultivate reading and enjoy it."

Discipline of poetry and calligraphy

The opening of family precepts illustrates the importance of reading. "If you don't study, you will be troubled by desire. Unfortunately, unkind, unkind. If you make a mistake, it will be red. Pride, fornication, rape and death. All evils are taught. "

There is also a famous saying in the genealogy: "Jia Dun's poems and books win the accumulation of wealth." "If you are poor at home, you can learn to be rich." "Don't rely on the rich, the rich don't indulge. It's rude to have money, like a calf. " Rong Lu also warned that Guanjue should rely on personal struggle, not money. "Buying expensive courts is inevitably vulgar." When educating children, we should not easily decide whether to let them study because of their talent. "Don't waste scrolls because of their ignorance." Virtue is not diligent, "to avoid exile." Only in this way can we "preserve the voice of my family, continue to learn from books", "honor our ancestors" and "be a famous family."

Don't do this.

The precepts of genealogy; It is full of dialectical thoughts. The commandment says, "People will do something if they don't do it." . Disdiscipline refers to abstinence from drugs, gambling, alcohol and hunting. "There are foreign cigarettes, and it is in Sisi Lee. At the beginning of seduction, no sage is stupid. " "It has been dyed for a long time, and the poison has entered the heart and spleen." "Rich people get married, but no one gets married." "Lying all the year round is a waste of time." "There is nothing worse than a disaster." .

"If you don't sleep in a smoky bed, you are good children and grandchildren." In addition, gambling is also harmful to future generations. "Brothers play and gamble with * * *." Win or lose, you are infinite. If you win, it will be ruined, and if you ruin it, it will be ruined. If you lose, go home and sell your son. ""how evil, wealth with death. Yin Gong's exhaustion is harmful to children and grandchildren. "The genealogy also specifically mentions that drinking too much and playing hunting are also' ridiculous'." If you do nothing, you will be embarrassed. "

Discipline of litigation

The precept warns future generations: "misfortune begins in a small place." Be patient in everything, and don't let "every little thing is better than this", "I hurt my brother once in a rage" or "I couldn't help it carelessly, and the lawsuit started here". To have a broad mind, "If I am right, why not let him go" and "The deeper the grievance", it will be difficult to go back and make up for it.

Buddhist precepts

"exhortation" warned future generations that after the death of their elders, as long as they followed Jie's ceremony, they should "pay homage to the funeral and hide" and "only be sad" They can't eat meat when doing Buddhism, and they can't watch the sound of gongs and drums turn the funeral into a happy event. But in the Song and Yuan Dynasties, all celebrities believed in Buddhism and had to do Buddhist things.

The genealogy also says that it is ridiculous for children to play tricks when they are sick. The genealogy says, "When a child is ill, he is lost in redemption. Stolen by the soul. Reincarnate as a person. You must rely on fairy milk to save your soul and go back to your room. What's even more ridiculous is that it's the seat, not the death. " Genealogy is also quite materialistic, thinking that "the spirit is the shape and the soul is the god." Since the soul is scattered, how can it come back? ""What is the soul? Can you catch it? "I think only those ignorant women and aunts will believe these stories. The genealogy also loudly calls for "learning to be polite" and "being fascinated". "

The commandment of disobedience

It is mainly to educate children and grandchildren not to make mistakes, which is consistent with the idea that the family is given the surname by the emperor and the country is governed by loyalty and filial piety.

An old adage

The Jieshi genealogy of Shicheng is also accompanied by miscellaneous training and ancient training. Among them, "the tree family and the tree people must be virtuous and can be diligent"; "Diligence makes up for it, and frugality helps it; The sentence "Labor is good, leisure is prostitution" is quite meaningful. Let me quote.

Jieshi's family instructions have the characteristics that the genealogy of the Han nationality of the general Chinese nation is based on traditional virtues, and also have its unique personality.

(A) Family precepts have a certain cultural depth. For example, when talking about the relationship between "small" and "big", "poor" and "rich" and "accumulated" and "defeated", we emphasize the profound truth that the small becomes big, the poor becomes rich, and the family is defeated, and it is not easy to accumulate, and the defeat is also calm, which encourages future generations to be diligent and thrifty, accumulate small and become big, and be prepared for danger in times of peace.

(2) Do not believe in Buddhism or witchcraft. The Jie family does not believe in witch doctors and witchcraft, and thinks that "the soul is physical and the soul is ascending." Since the soul is scattered, how can it come back? "Don't believe in evil. At the same time, for ancestor worship and burial, it is also advocated to use family-specific customs and not to do Buddhism. Think that doing Buddhism

"Beat the sand, gongs jingle", "easy to be sad and happy" and "laugh heartily". Quite materialistic. From this point of view, revealing the Meng family, family style and world style has its desirable positive significance.