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Boyfriend's personal cultivation etiquette is poor. Should such love persist?

I think we should try to change my boyfriend's personal cultivation etiquette first. If the other party can change, then I can continue. If I can't change, I don't think it's necessary to insist. Because a person's self-cultivation etiquette is not only a personal problem, it will affect the whole family in the future, including you and your children, which will be seriously affected. Moreover, the difference between the two people's self-cultivation etiquette is too far, which is easy to produce contradictions, so if it cannot be changed, the road behind will often produce differences and affect harmony.

In fact, there are some differences in etiquette between two people, and the problem is not big, but if the difference is too big and the boyfriend's personal cultivation etiquette is too poor, I think it is very inappropriate. After all, the image of a married man outside represents the image of the whole family. If you get married in the future, it will seriously affect the family image and the family will not be very harmonious. So, while I am still boyfriend and girlfriend, help my boyfriend correct his self-cultivation etiquette. If he can change, then this love can persist. If he has been unwilling to change and find various reasons to prevaricate, then I don't think it is necessary to insist. That will only affect himself and bring negative effects on his life. You can try the following methods to see if they can play a certain role:

1. Remind your boyfriend every day. In the process of daily contact, always remind your boyfriend. Start with the words, slowly change his bad idioms and correct them, so that at least when talking to others, he won't appear so rude and vulgar.

2. Try to expose him to some more ceremonial occasions and try to avoid contacting the original wine and meat bureau. In fact, there are some bad habits. Bad manners are learned from people around him, and many of them are influenced by others, so try not to let him go to parties and wine parties that may have a negative impact on him. Take him to some cultural social activities and slowly change his behavior.

If he can change, that's the best. If he doesn't want to change, forget it. There's no need to force it.