How to change the patriarchal thinking?

Maybe some people will not believe that there are still such patriarchal thoughts in the 21st century, but unfortunately she is still shrouded in our country as well as countless underdeveloped areas of the corner. And this idea is also with the development of society and "evolution".

Once upon a time, the patriarchal ideology was complete, so that people could be full of strength to resist, even if the final struggle did not escape from the quagmire, but the direction is clear, is the tide of history, women need the same basic rights and freedoms as men, and is desired

Now that we are standing at the crossroads of the times, the pure patriarchal ideology is beginning to peel off layers of shells, like onions, and the women's rights and freedoms have become more and more important. peeling back the layers and leaving behind the most essential feature: spiritual neglect and devaluation. To give a set of examples:

You are a sister, you and your brother is only one and a half years old, we all know why your age difference is so small, you also know, we have not mentioned to you;

In the family gatherings, they all boasted that his younger brother is lovely and good, flexible and smart, but the score of your focus on high school, they never asked, took his brother's mess of grades and said: boy

When you come home from school, look at the piles of snack bags in the trash can and ask your mom, she smiled and said that your brother also said that you want to leave it, all stay in the stomach to go, you silent back to the room;

Parents go out to socialize and cook, do the laundry and clean up the house. Mom only arranged for you to do, brother fell on the couch to play the day of the phone;

One day found the family two sets of houses are written behind the addition of the name of the younger brother, the village homestead is not intended to be left to you;

randomly in and out of your room, rummage through your books and private items;

Boredom began to disparage you;

Home to a snack placed in the

Maybe you are happy that you can't experience the real suffocation from my childish and pale words, this suffocation is that while you feel that your parents are y trapped in the shackles of your life and at the same time you will remember how good they are to yourself, sometimes they are really good to me, just like domestic violence, you believe in them again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again.

They seem to have been baptized, but they still seem to be the same, and this evolution of "new patriarchal forms and ways of thinking" nets the girl's footsteps: escape? They're not that serious, are they? Live your whole life for someone else.

These parents seem to have sprayed their consciences with a layer of perfume so strong that it makes them dizzy, and I've never been one of the ones to do it, so I'm still biased. I didn't knead the dough and water, but I'm going to make her into a blondie, right?

I think my parents are not at all patriarchal, although the family property house is left to my brother, which is also the tradition of the past, but I should have mom and dad did not give me a little bit less, I also never thought of parents of any property! I've never wanted any of my parents' property. The love my parents have given me since I was a child has made me feel very secure! It has been very satisfying!

Sister, and the eldest in the family, the following a sister, a brother, with a sister I did not feel any different, with a brother is really very different, food and so on are to the brother first, the older I am the more I feel when the eldest was unfairly treated, sometimes hate the sister and the younger brother snatched away my love, but mom and dad or very much in love with me, that is, after getting married and not in the I think I feel that this love is slowly fading, and I hope that when I have children, I will be able to treat my own children fairly!