What do people mean by "three obedience and four virtues"?

Three moral relationships and four virtues followed by feudal women.

"If you don't marry from your father, you marry from your husband, and your husband dies from your son" —— A Biography of Mourning Your Son in Summer

"Women's Virtue, Women's Words, Women's Appearance and Women's Merit" —— Zhou Li Nine Wives of Celebrities

A woman's virtue means chastity and obedience (moral quality)

Women's words are rhetoric (rhetoric)

A woman's appearance is called elegant delivery (etiquette)

Women's work is called silk (craft)

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Boyfriends should listen to their words and deeds.

Boyfriends are ignorant and should follow blindly.

Boyfriend's idea should be obeyed.

Boyfriend's amorous feelings should be tolerant.

Boyfriend's thin thread will be "rewarded"

Boyfriend should remember to "get" if he becomes suspicious.

Boyfriend is stingy and wants to "get"

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Girlfriend goes out with Cong.

Girlfriend ordered obedience.

When a girlfriend says something wrong, she will blindly "follow"

Girlfriend has to wait for makeup.

Girlfriend wants to give up money.

When a girlfriend is angry, she must endure "getting hurt".

Remember "Germany" on your girlfriend's birthday.

Three Obediences and Four Virtues Abided by Ancient Women: A Woman Playing the Romance of the Three Kingdoms.

Throughout history, unofficial history, stories and romances, this kind of ethics has been preached everywhere. Among them, there are many chaste women, Rainbow Baochuan, and even more instrumental women, Rainbow Zhaojun, who are close to each other for political interests. In many works, except for the women in A Dream of Red Mansions and Strange Tales from a Lonely Studio, their temperament is true and can be praised. Although there are few women in the three countries, they cannot be avoided.

Everything in the world has yin and yang, and there is a man and a woman in the world of mortals. Men and women are eternal topics, and the entanglement between men and women is the most wonderful story. It seems that the competition between men and women never stops. From the beginning of matriarchal society, we knew that mothers didn't know their fathers. As women's contribution to social life is gradually lower than that of men, and gradually transition to a patriarchal society dominated by men and obeyed by women, women's social status becomes a subsidiary role. After the education of Confucius, an old gentleman in feudal society, women followed the instruction of men and learned their manners. The subordinate position of women has changed from forced struggle to conscious acceptance, and then this theory of "three obedience and four virtues" has penetrated into every woman's consciousness and become a standard to be observed. ...

The story of diusim-the poor daughter lives in a world of tigers and wolves.

The story of diusim is a geisha of Yunfu's family, King Stuart. He was chosen to teach singing and dancing when he was a child. Although she is a daughter, she is just a plaything of Wang Yun. Dong Zhuo's troubles and troubles are aimed at usurping the throne. That's a matter for the country and also for Wang Yun's men. You are unfair, but you have to come up with a series of tricks to make diusim kill Dong Zhuo and his son with color as a spear. Really incompetent. More tragically, diusim's story is based on this, and he thinks that only in this way can he embrace Wang's great kindness, and his poor daughter is trapped in a tiger and a wolf. Perhaps when she stepped into Wang Yunfu from the story of Diusim, she was doomed to such a tragic fate. Even without Dong Zhuo, she will eventually become the king's concubine. ...

Sun Shangxiang.-No, a man.

Sun Shangxiang is the sister of Sun Quan, the monarch of Wu. In romance novels, Sun Shangxiang is very brave. She has hundreds of maids and often carries knives. All the weapons in the room are full, although men are not as good as them. He seems to be a man who doesn't want men, but he still can't control his own destiny. Being cheated by Zhou Yu's honey trap, Wu Guotai decided to marry Liu Bei, who was over half a century old. Sun Shangxiang had never seen Liu Bei before entering the bridal chamber. His parents' orders, the words of the matchmaker, made others arrange their own lifelong events. Later, he was cheated by his brother's design and planned to exchange Adou for Jingzhou. Poor became a political tool in the struggle between Shu and Wu. I don't know where to go after I return to Soochow. ……

Cui Furen-the representative of chaste women.

Cui Furen, Liu Zhan's wife, can be regarded as a virtuous woman advertised by feudal society. She is going to enter The Biography of Women. Wargo sneaked into level tone, attacked Mianyang and arrived in Chengdu. Later, Liu Chan surrendered in Kaesong. His seventh son, Liu Zhan, wept bitterly and would rather die than surrender. His wife was greatly appreciative when she learned that: Good! Xian zai, also want to die. He also said that the killing of the king's father had the same meaning as the death of his concubine. Liu Zhan's wife died for the righteous day, but three children were not spared and were killed by Liu Zhan. Alas!

Liu Anzhi's wife-wife is clothes?

There is another woman who has to mention that this woman is the wife of Orion Liu An. At that time, Liu Bei stayed at his house for the night, and Liu An arranged for Liu Bei to eat a meal, but no game was found. In order to please Liu Bei and express his loyalty, he even killed his wife and cooked the meat for Liu Bei. Liu Bei ate well and asked Liu An what meat he had. Liu An said it was wolf meat, darling, who is the wolf? Later, Liu Bei found out, but he was too sad. He shed a few tears without vomiting or reprimanding Liu An. It seems that Liu Bei did not agree. This gentleman also has a famous saying, a brother is a brother, and a wife is clothes. When clothes are worn, you can sew, and your hands and feet are broken, so safety can last. This shows that women in the eyes at that time were just heirlooms and family leaders. ...

Cai Wenji-a political talent respected by history.

Cai Wenji is a famous person in history. This woman is proficient in music, good at writing poems and very talented. Unfortunately, in Dong Zhuo's rebellion, she was captured by Xiongnu. In the twelfth year, Cao Cao redeemed Cai Wenji with his daughter, married Dong Si, the captain of the wasteland, and sorted out his father's works, leaving a precious cultural heritage for future generations. Cai Wenji didn't have a good beginning, but it had a good ending, which was fortunate among many unfortunate women in the Three Kingdoms. The rest, Cao Cao's wife, Zou Shi, and Cao Pi's wife, Zhen Shi, Yuan Shangzhi, are all in troubled times. Let's marry a chicken and follow a dog. Lu Bu's daughter and Guan Yu's daughter once became an alliance bond, but in the end they failed. The rest are expensive queens, whose nobles are not as good as ordinary people. In the end, the fragrance disappears and people don't have to lament. ...