The influence of family style on people

Let's first discuss what a family's "family style" is: it generally refers to a fashion and style advocated by parents or grandparents, which can be practiced and taught by example to restrain and regulate family members; Family style is a kind of cultural and moral atmosphere cultivated by a family for a long time, which has strong appeal and is a concentrated expression of family ethics and family virtues. Family style is a concentrated expression of the moral level of family members. As a spiritual force, family style can not only restrain its members ideologically and morally, but also promote its continuous development and growth in a civilized, harmonious, healthy and progressive atmosphere. In addition, many "family styles" are embodied in the form of "family instructions", such as "Yan Family Instructions" and "Zeng Family Instructions", and there are many such examples. In the history of our country, a unique traditional culture has been formed, which has had a great influence on its family and even its family. For example, Zeng Guofan, a famous minister of ZTE in Qing Dynasty, was admired by the world for his family education. For more than 200 years, there is no "black sheep" among the eight generations below Zeng Guofan, and there are more than 240 celebrities, which constitute a well-known China family. For example, Zeng Guofan taught his children three main reading methods.

First, the method of reading, reading, writing and writing, is indispensable every day. The audience is like this. Last year, they read Historical Records, Hanshu, Korean, and Recent Thoughts. This year, they read Zhouyi. Readers such as Four Books, Poems, Books, I Ching, Zuo Zhuan, Zhaoming Selected Works, Du Li's Poems of Su Han, and Han Ou's Zeng Wang Wenzhi can't be magnificent without reading aloud, and can't explore their far-reaching charm without reciting quietly. Second, "if you can't finish reading a book, don't read a new book." Zeng Guofan argued that if you haven't finished reading a book, don't be busy reading other books. Third, we should cultivate personal reading interest and direction. Zeng Guofan said: "People's temperament is hard to change because they are born. Only reading can change their temperament. " If you want to be good to yourself and your family, reading is the first important thing. Reading can increase knowledge, improve skills, and more importantly, improve people's spiritual realm and cultivate their hearts. These two aspects develop at the same time, and talents are sound people. In addition, in Zeng Guofan's view, the key to educating children based on society and enabling this family to continue from generation to generation is two words: thrift. He asked the children to remember sixteen words in their lives-the family is thrifty and prosperous, the people are thrifty and healthy, they can be thrifty and never be poor! What Zeng Guofan asked his family to do, he could not only do it himself, but also do it better. Personality strength is more useful than some hard and fast rules. Zeng Guofan's tall image and heavy personality charm are deeply imprinted in the hearts of future generations, which has a great influence on future generations.