How to treat traditional marriage and modern marriage?

We in China have been living in a feudal society for thousands of years. In feudal society, the monarchy was absolute, absolute. Therefore, at that time, it was emphasized that the country was the king and the family was the man. Women's social status is very low. Women are taught from an early age to be obedient, virtuous and take care of their husbands and children! In feudal society, the class was clear, the seniority was very heavy, what the elders said was right, that was the truth, and so on ~ ~ These comprehensive factors led to the marriage phenomenon in the old society. Although it is relatively stable now, the most important thing is that they have no right to choose their own lovers! Modern people's thoughts are gradually opening up, and marriage is free and independent ~ ~ ~, which is an inevitable change of people's thoughts, just like the change from feudal society to capitalist society to socialist society, it is inevitable!