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Why is there such a big gap between young people's view of marriage and that of the older generation?

Nowadays, young people treat marriage is no longer like the older generation of people so persistent, in the young people's view of the two people if they do not get along well, you can consider divorce; and in the view of the older generation, the days after marriage even if it is difficult to suffer, but also endured to live on, generally will not think of going to divorce. Why is there such a big difference between the views of young people and the older generation on marriage? Personally, I think the main reason is no more than these points:

One, the environment has changed a lot.

We all say that the material base determines the superstructure, when women's economic ability is getting stronger, they will not treat marriage as a matter of course. Once they feel that the marriage is not satisfactory, it is likely that they will choose to solve the problem by divorce. Because they don't have to worry about not being able to survive after the divorce, they have the financial ability to be independent. Therefore, once women are not willing to settle for less, and the men do not fulfill their obligations in the marriage, then it is not surprising that divorce.

Two, the traditional concept has been slowly fading.

Anciently, women were taught to ? three from the four virtues? In modern society, we often see many self-esteem, self-improvement women, even if they live alone, they can live a wonderful life. In their opinion, it's fine to live alone without the constraints of marriage, and there's no need to compromise themselves for the sake of marriage. Therefore, this kind of women will not be willing to take the initiative to get married.

Three, marriage is a subject to be penetrated.

Many people see around the friends in the marriage, the whole day is chicken, which gives them a warning, in the absence of a really sure life after marriage is expected, they will not easily enter the marriage hall. They are afraid that marriage will bind them and make them lose their freedom. The older generation, on the other hand, almost rarely pursue individual freedom, they are used to the arrangement from their parents, used to listen to their parents' command. The younger generation is different, if the day is not the kind of their own expectations, they will resist with all their might. Therefore, in the opinion of the young people if they do not penetrate the marriage of this discipline, must not easily involved in marriage.