Methods of learning etiquette

China's traditional etiquette culture is an important part of the Chinese nation's ideology and culture, and it is a summary of the ancestors' moral practice experience of the Chinese nation, which has a great influence and function on China's traditional culture and national psychology. In a sense, traditional etiquette is also one of the cores of Chinese ideology and culture. The significance of etiquette culture education lies in inspiring our national spirit, enhancing national pride and sense of responsibility, improving national self-esteem and self-confidence, raising citizens' awareness of obeying laws and regulations, and cultivating their ability to respect social behavior norms. We must establish a correct attitude when learning related etiquette knowledge, and don't deny ourselves in the so-called western and foreign ways. Inheriting and developing traditional etiquette culture with a fair, objective and dialectical attitude cannot be simply affirmed or denied, but its dross should be removed and its essence taken. Although the traditional etiquette culture has its time and class limitations, it also has contents that can not be ignored. For example, love the motherland, respect the old and love the young, punish the evil and promote the good, be honest and trustworthy, be filial to parents, respect teachers, be honest and loyal to the public, take it in moderation, use it in moderation, be United and friendly, be self-disciplined, tolerant, respectful and modest, and so on. , should be an important part of the moral construction of citizens in today's society. China is a famous country of etiquette in the world. Gentleness is our characteristic, which has a strong literary atmosphere. Etiquette education in China has a long history, which was highly valued in ancient times. Folk customs are deeply influenced by it, and all ethnic groups are very polite and hospitable. The emphasis on etiquette is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Everyone takes paying attention to etiquette as the standard to measure themselves. In ancient China, there were strict etiquette dogmas that all scholars and monks should abide by. At that time, the etiquette dogma was not comprehensive and meticulous, taking into account all aspects. Ordinary people are still like this, not to mention the political skills that emperors will use, and they are fully in place. For a state of etiquette, comprehensive politeness is a necessary condition for hospitality. Etiquette is the best tool to understand the quality of people who meet for the first time. This is also what everyone should have. Etiquette can make a country strong and its diplomatic relations more harmonious. As a China person, etiquette is an important skill that we must master. Some people may ask, "What is etiquette?" Ceremony is a general term to show respect; The grand ceremony to show respect is called etiquette. The essence of etiquette is to show mutual respect, friendship and understanding between people through some standardized behaviors. But if you want to elaborate, it depends on which angle you look at it: from the perspective of personal cultivation, etiquette can be said to be the external expression of a person's inner cultivation and quality; From the perspective of communication, etiquette can be said to be an art and a communication method suitable for interpersonal communication. It is a way to show respect and friendship in interpersonal communication; From the perspective of communication, etiquette can be said to be a skill of mutual communication in interpersonal communication. However, if it is to be classified, it can be roughly divided into five categories: political etiquette, business etiquette, service etiquette, social etiquette and foreign etiquette. But the so-called five subjects, because etiquette is a comprehensive subject. Many etiquette contents are interoperable, and most etiquette contents are similar, often all in one. For example, I didn't pay much attention to etiquette before, but now I find that my self-cultivation has improved and my interpersonal relationship has gradually increased, and even others have different views on me. This is the magic of etiquette! Etiquette is not fake, nor can it be fake. Only one person, starting from the details, can show extraordinary temperament! In short, the benefits of etiquette can only be realized in words, and only you can realize it!