Talk about your understanding of rebellion

The so-called rebellion, as the name suggests, is a rebellion of thought, behavior ...... disobedience to the normal law, contrary to reality, against the intention of others (such as children against their parents), and often make some unexpected things. Rebellion is a kind of "grown up" feeling, is a strong desire for self-expression, in the form of thinking belongs to the "different thinking", is new and different, hope to attract the attention of others performance.

Second, the causes

The teenagers have a variety of reasons for the rebellious mentality, in which the parents inappropriate educational methods is the main reason for students to rebel against the mentality.

1, traditional thinking affects some parents.

China's long-standing authoritarian thinking of parents still exists in some parents, parents of children's education lack of democratic consciousness, always think that the child is immature, to be absolutely obedient to their own, can not have their own views, otherwise it is "disobedience" "against the dry", therefore, the child will not be able to do, "against the dry", "against the dry". "Therefore, children will not or seldom take their parents as the object of their own confidences, for fear that they will be blamed by their parents if they do something wrong. Many middle school students think that they are most resentful of their parents' reproach after they have done something wrong, and the reason for their resentment is because of their parents' overbearing and hard attitude.

2. Parents' mistakes in cognition result in improper education.

Some parents lack of common psychological knowledge, the children's education in a hurry, the method is simple and rough, often ignoring the children's self-esteem and mental capacity, especially when the children have faults, not with the children to analyze the error, discuss remedies, but to scold or even beat the children, so that the children in the error feel isolated and helpless, and produce a rebellious mentality.

3, parents and children lack of two-way communication, resulting in ideological conflicts.

With the growth of high school students, the sense of independence is growing stronger and stronger, demanding their own way of doing things, do not want to be too much control. And some parents out of the protection of their children, everything for the children to do, so the children's desire for independence and parents inappropriate good intentions to care, will produce a conflict of ideas, contradictions. Perhaps some parents are busy at work, seldom talk to their children, exchange ideas, but only set some strict rules to restrict the children's behavior. Therefore, as children of high school students do not have a harmonious and warm family environment, lack of communication with parents, it is easy to produce rebellious psychology and rebellious behavior.

4, the school teacher's way of education is also one of the causes of students' rebellious psychology.

Some teachers do not understand the psychological characteristics of high school students, condescending, instructing students how they must think, how they must do, not at all with the students to exchange ideas, *** with the inquiry, which is easy to provoke students to rebel.

5, the mass media some inappropriate rendering is also a factor leading to rebellious psychology.