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What is the standard of a good wife?

I think a good wife has three criteria:

First, honor your in-laws; There is an old saying that "filial piety is the first virtue". I think a good wife must be a filial wife first. Since I like my husband and marry him, I want to spend the rest of my life together. Then she will treat the parents of the person she likes as her own parents and treat her in-laws as her own parents to honor her. If there are other elderly people in the husband's family, such as her husband's grandparents, then he will definitely take up the obligation to support the elderly with her husband. A good wife will never complain to her husband about how bad her in-laws are, let alone quarrel with them.

Second, be considerate of your husband; The second criterion of a good wife is to be kind to her husband, to be able to take care of all his housework and do his wife's duty. A good wife not only takes care of her husband's internal affairs, but also gives him trust, does not doubt his behavior for no reason, and leaves room for him. More importantly, a good wife must be someone who understands her husband's difficulties. She can laugh with him when he is happy, comfort and encourage him when he is frustrated and sad, and accompany him to tide over the difficulties.

Third, open to children; After marriage, having children will be a top priority for a family. And a good wife will be a qualified mother. She will love her children as much as her husband, but she will not spoil them blindly, but raise them in principle. She should not be that kind of tiger mother, but an enlightened mother. A good wife is not only her husband's companion, but also her children's good friend.