According to traditional custom, the daughter married a few days after returning to her mother's home

After the daughter is married, the third day of marriage, the sixth day or seven, eight, nine days, there is also a full moon back to the mother's home.

Back to the door, also known as "return to the Ning", that is, "back to the mother's home". Han Chinese marriage customs. Back to the door is also the first time in the true sense of the newlyweds to return to the bride's home to save their relatives, the couple of two pairs, worship female parents, naturally, is an indispensable rite of passage.

This time the groom to see the parents-in-law, should change their mouths for the father, mother, for the entire wedding officially closed, that is, so that the bride's parents to see the marriage of two people full of meaning. Yuejia also hosted a banquet to entertain the new son-in-law, some female relatives have to make a son-in-law. Of course, at this time the new son-in-law or to offer the parents-in-law "back to the door gift", "back to the door money", and according to the different parts of the world, with different gifts.

Some bring a rooster, take "good luck" meaning. Some bring some meat, eggs, noodles and other things, to the woman's home, but also live a few days before returning. And more common still serve oranges, apples, bananas, wine, etc., the style is not fixed, but avoid returning to the door for a single gift.

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1, back to the door

Traditional wedding customs, three days after the wedding, the bride will have to return to the bride's home along with the groom, also known as the "door". This is an essential ritual. The heart of the bride's old man attaches great importance to the three days back to the door, so the groom beforehand, whether from the thought or in the gift should be prepared, and strive to give the father-in-law and mother-in-law to leave a pleasant good impression. Buy the bride's family old people like gifts, gifts generally have four pieces, tobacco, alcohol, sugar, health care products and so on.

2, back to the door dress

In accordance with wedding customs, three days after the wedding, the bride will have to return to the bride's home along with the groom, also known as the "back to the door," then the bride wore clothing is back to the door dress.

3, back to the door feast

This is the last ceremony of the wedding, there are daughters do not forget the gift of parenting, son-in-law to thank the parents-in-law and the newlyweds love and beauty and so on the significance of the general, women's families are hosting banquets, the new son-in-law into the seat, accompanied by the female elders drink. The female in-laws set up a feast to entertain the new son-in-law, which is the return banquet.

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