What is cold violence in marriage?

When there is a contradiction between husband and wife, they are indifferent to each other, try to reduce language communication, stop or perfunctory sexual life, and be lazy to do all housework and other informal violence.

Domestic cold violence is actually a kind of mental abuse. This kind of violence is generally manifested in that although the contradiction between husband and wife does not resort to force, it is controlled economically and sexually through implied threats and verbal attacks. The other party deliberately destroyed the other party with mental torture, leaving the marriage in an abnormal state for a long time. This kind of mental torture and destruction is even more terrible than physical injury.

Because cold violence is a typical hidden violence, it is neither bloodshed nor injury, so it is easy for the parties to use the phrase "we are at odds" and ignore the great harm it has caused to their body and mind.

1, cynical. There is a kind of person who never likes to praise others, even his husband or wife. This is the most common situation. For example, a wife wants to ask her husband's advice on some ideas, and the husband says, "You don't look at yourself, just learn from others." "You don't look in the mirror, no matter how beautiful things are put on you."

2. Remind the punishment. This is the method that women like to use. Usually, they don't really want to make their husbands sad or miserable. They just use behavior to express her unhappiness, remind her husband to pay attention to her feelings and reflect on what she did wrong.

3. Anyway. Don't care about each other's troubles and the diet and daily life in the family, and no longer do the housework that has been undertaken by yourself before; Go out temporarily without informing each other.