What does it mean to be happy when you get married?

In the traditional customs of our lives, there are many pressures and taboos about marriage. When getting married, every couple will first understand the customs and taboos of the day and have a good kick. It is inevitable that there will be something they don't understand. For example, one of them talks about the taboo of marriage, so what does this mean?

What does it mean to be happy when you get married?

A happy event is when two happy events meet, which is very taboo in our traditional customs. We believe that if this happens, the other side of the two happy events will have a thinner blessing. Will be crushed by the other party, causing everything to go wrong with the other party. So in many places, happiness is very exclusive.

What are the taboos for a happy wedding?

1. The wedding date cannot be both parents' birthdays, otherwise it will be bad for parents.

2. A family can't have two weddings a year!

In many places, pregnant women can't attend seeing their relatives off. Being pregnant is a happy event and you can't attend.

4. Avoid attending other people's wedding banquets within one month before and after the wedding, so as not to offend others.

On the way to the wedding, if you meet another wedding motorcade, it will offset the blessing of the other party, so it is up to two matchmakers to set off firecrackers or exchange flowers to resolve it.

Taboos within one month of marriage

1. A new house or parents' house. When we marry a daughter-in-law, we call it a new house. Don't change too much in the new house. If it is an old house, it only needs simple decoration and decoration. The decoration is too big to make outsiders feel rich.

2, the new house can not be vacant for a few days after marriage, and one or two unmarried boys should be used to press the house.

If you return to China after marriage, you need to get back to your husband's house before sunset. If you really can't go back, you should sleep in separate rooms to prevent conflicts between the bride and her family.

4, the bride's clothes can not have pockets, for fear of stealing her family's property.

On the wedding day, the couple can't see the wedding, so they should prepare a lot of red handkerchiefs. If they see other wedding cars on the road, they should throw their handkerchiefs out of the window. If they see a wedding in a hotel or other place, they should exchange handkerchiefs with each other.

The general local custom is that newlyweds don't meet for three days before marriage, so newlyweds should make an agreement in advance and abide by the agreement of not meeting for three days.

7. Newcomers can't go to the funeral within one month of marriage, because marriage is a happy event and runs counter to the meaning of funeral, so the two can't be confused. If there is a funeral for relatives before marriage, the wedding date can only be changed.

8. Newcomers should be careful not to attend the wedding during the day, which means that the new is not new, so they can't appear at anyone's wedding for one month.