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How do you all have confinement? What confinement diseases do you have after confinement?
I haven't done it for two months! The month of birth is full of twists and turns, which is simply a history of blood and tears!
The first trimester is the hottest time in June of the lunar calendar! The first thing grandma did when she came home from the hospital was to close all the doors and windows, and the pants were covered with towels and refused to turn on the fan! Usually fine. When I eat, my sweat is like taking a bath. I always wipe while eating with a towel in my hand! No matter how much milk you have, you can't finish your soup every day! In the morning, it was a big pot of egg tea bigger than my face. I never drink this at ordinary times, so I have to bite the bullet and give it to my children! Then the sparerib soup. I don't know if it's oily or cold. Drinking it will cause diarrhea! A few days after diarrhea, I had a fever and hung up for a few days! After eating the happy noodles, my husband felt so hot that both adults and children felt uncomfortable. Bought an air conditioner and installed it. I was blamed for not taking good care of the children. When the child was 20 days old, the fever reached 40 degrees. At that time, the whole family was frightened. The small hospital stayed in the big hospital for a week. Fortunately, there is no danger, otherwise I will regret not finding a place! On the 28th day, my eyes got swollen somehow and didn't take it seriously. The next day, it was swollen like two bells, and I had to get an injection for a few days! Then his left eye turned into a double eyelid [covering his face]
I held the baby alone for a whole month, crying and hugging when feeding, and my husband didn't care! Sedentary, planed, sitting and working throughout pregnancy, doing heavy work from birth. Now my waist is almost worn out, and there is not a day that doesn't hurt!
On the day when the children ate noodles, many people who came ignored me. They drank a little soup in the evening, arranged guests at noon and cooked a bowl of eel soup in the kitchen. It's too spicy. I'm afraid the child will get angry after drinking a few mouthfuls! I also ate a little at night! I feel hungry all day! Every time I'm hungry after giving birth, I'm sweating and miserable! I don't know if it has anything to do with this!
Confinement is too important! I hope every woman can love herself more!
My child was born in America. Now I have a headache before menstruation, and occasionally my fingers and joints hurt. When the wind blows, I sneeze and have a runny nose.
Let me talk about my experience of confinement in America. It is said that confinement can't take a bath, wash your hair, brush your teeth, drink cold water, touch cold water and blow air conditioning. I didn't do all this.
After the baby was born, I observed it in the delivery room for two or three hours, and the nurse sent me to a single room on the second floor. The air conditioner in the room was a little cold, so my husband turned up the temperature a little. The nurse turned it down for me after rounds, and I turned it up again. The next day, the nurse told me angrily that it was not good for the baby to adjust the temperature too high. I dare not adjust the temperature again after training. But I felt cold, so I covered an extra quilt.
The nurse asked me whether to drink hot water or cold water. The hot water I asked came with the food soon. The food in the hospital is terrible. The hot water in the plastic bottle still smells like plastic. You can only eat a small bottle of apple juice and a small bowl of fruit. The next day, I asked my husband to go out and buy me bottled water. As a result, bottled water was taken out of the freezer and it took a while to finish it. I asked my husband to go out and buy me some rice. The food in the hospital was so bad that my husband bought me subway sandwiches and coke. I asked him if he could buy some good ones and let him go out to buy them again. As a result, people drove far away, and McDonald's bought me a hamburger set meal, iced coke [sweat]. I am speechless. I don't care about hospital meals anymore. I can eat all my food.
Just after giving birth, my legs are as thick as elephant's legs. When giving birth, I still cut horizontally and can't get out of bed. Husband's clumsy child can't hold it, let alone change diapers. I can't help it I'll ask my husband to move my legs out of bed, and then I'll get out of bed and walk slowly. Go to bed and let my husband put my legs up, otherwise I can't sleep. The next day, the nurse saw my husband helping me bunk bed, and gave me a lecture to make myself bunk bed.
I was born on May 3rd1day. In June, the temperature in Southern California was basically above 30 degrees Celsius, with the highest temperature of 40 degrees. My hair is so greasy that I can't stand it. I'll take a shower when I get home. Central air conditioning is turned on at home, and the cold wind is swishing. I blocked the air conditioner in our room with a piece of cloth. Before leaving the hospital, I also made an appointment with a pediatrician. I have to go to the exam in a week, and I have to turn on the air conditioner in the car. I took a scarf and wrapped myself like a Middle Eastern.
I held the baby myself, and I washed it when she took a shower. At night, I cried and let her walk around. If she doesn't leave, she will cry for an hour or two. Her father usually hugs and cries at night. I always thought that the baby came to me to collect debts and repay her father.
My mother-in-law was very busy in the company during that time. She is also busy at both ends. I take care of the children myself. She tried to cook for me and went out to buy takeout when she had no time. The food was good, and I didn't treat me badly at all, but I might not be able to eat on time. I started cooking in two weeks and went shopping in the supermarket every week. You can't eat on time if you don't do it. Later, my mother-in-law and husband went to the company or went out to do business, so I went with them and put the children to sleep in the basket (the baby safety seat can be used as a basket). So I don't have to cook by myself. We eat in a restaurant together.
Now I'm sick all over and I don't want any more. It's too tiring to take care of children. I don't know how to recuperate my body.
We will sit here for 42 days, eat chicken wine, which is home-made yellow wine, and don't eat vegetables and fruits. Warm water for brushing your teeth and washing your face is the kind of boiling water that keeps the temperature warm. Children and lying-in women should take a bath every day, boil water with wormwood, cool it to a temperature suitable for bathing, cook a large pot every day, and wash it with wormwood for 30 days. After 30 days, you don't need to boil ordinary bath water, just boil it until it is suitable for washing. Then you can wash your hair after 42 days, and you have to endure itching again.
In the spring of 20 19, I sat for the third month and said that I should try not to have a baby, but my family was busy. When eating, my family brought me into the room and I ate alone. Once I ate half my son and woke up crying. I was probably hungry. I wanted to hug him as soon as possible, but I didn't expect the crying to get louder and louder, so I went to hug him. Because chicken, wine and rice are very hot, I am worried.
After about half an hour, I felt dizzy and lazy. I know I have a cold, I have a cold, I can't hold the baby and I'm too lazy to move in bed. I couldn't eat a bite of lunch, and then my family took me to the old doctor in the next village, burning it from beginning to end to the stove at home. (The moxa stick wrapped in wormwood is lit, and Mars sticks to me. ) I have bitten my teeth tightly for more than 40 times. Looking back now, it's sour [tears streaming down my face]. The whole person feels refreshed after ligation.
The next month, I said don't look at the phone. I didn't flinch. Now my eyes are crying in the wind, and my eyesight has dropped a lot. I had a caesarean section. When the weather changes, when it is cold in rainy days, my waist will hurt and I can't stand straight when I squat. That's why I sat up and hugged my baby more in the second month. Advise the mothers of the second month never to look at their mobile phones, lie down if they have nothing to do, don't sit if they can lie down, and don't stand if they can sit.
I didn't sit well after giving birth to two children, and now I have a backache at a young age if I don't pay attention. It's not easy for a woman, so I will love myself all my life.
39-year-old I am now 58 days after delivery, and the water is broken at around 00:20 am on the day of delivery. I drove myself to the province to wait for the delivery of women and children. At 5: 50 in the morning, I went to the nurse and asked for Yue Yue's business card. I went directly to Yue Yue. I wanted to take care of it for four days and then I was discharged from the hospital. There was no Yue Yue, but on the fourth day of my hospitalization, my mother-in-law said that she was afraid that she would not take care of me well and she would go back to her hometown, so she went back to her hometown the day before I was discharged from the hospital, and Yue Yue took care of me and my baby for 26 days. Because it is New Year's Day, the full moon is four days early. After that, I took care of my younger brother and younger brother for 26 days. During the confinement period, many problems appeared in my body. I was in excellent health before, but this second child ruined me. My body is sweating heavily. My heel is still swollen and painful for 58 days today. Standing for a long time makes your legs tremble. Needless to say, my waist and arms are not straight. My hands are numb from time to time, and my eyes are going blind. The most important thing is that my hands and joints hurt. When cooking, I can't even hold the pot steadily, and my head is still dizzy. The left breast has been blocked several times and I have had a fever several times. Now the breasts are serious and there is almost no milk on the left side. My chest always hurts like a needle. I didn't go for postpartum repair today. I know it must be a lot of questions. At present, I have two children by myself, and I can't stretch my waist straight every day. Yesterday, from the shadow of the living room TV, I saw one in my arms and my eldest son leaning against me. I thought all the efforts were worth it. Seeing the children's smiles, I know how heavy the burden is on my shoulders. I must work hard and cheer myself up every day until the children grow up. I hope my sisters don't live this life like me. I wish them all happiness and a beautiful, healthy and happy month.
For mothers who have just given birth, the next confinement will have some resistance, because the traditional confinement in China is not a comfortable thing for today's mothers. However, many elders and even experienced people constantly emphasize the importance of confinement to women and must take it seriously.
For mothers who have given birth, how did you all come to confinement at that time? Did you do everything according to the opinions of your elders? What disease did you fall behind after the birth of the second month? In fact, the term "moon disease" refers to diseases caused by postpartum exogenous pathogens attacking the weak body, and these diseases often have the characteristics of chronic and long-term.
Therefore, mothers who are confinement need to take it seriously.
First, the meaning of confinement
1, help postpartum recovery: The first task of confinement is to restore the body after giving birth to the baby to the prenatal state during confinement, because during pregnancy, the fetus has various influences on the mother's body and consumes a lot. Therefore, the body can be better restored to a normal and healthy state when confinement.
2. Prevention of various physical diseases after childbirth: If the postpartum body does not get enough rest and recovery, it is likely to fall into various sources. Many mothers become prone to get sick and catch a cold after giving birth to their babies, just because they don't sit well for the next month, which leads to the decline of their physical fitness and easy to get sick. More importantly, it is necessary to avoid the occurrence of lunar disease.
Second, the bad influence of confinement
Mothers with poor confinement may not feel anything for a while, but they also bury various hidden dangers to the body, leading to various gynecological inflammations after childbirth. Even if the physical condition can be adjusted slowly in the future, it will take more time and energy to adjust than when you are confined to the moon.
Many mothers have low back pain after delivery. This is because there is not enough rest time to recover during confinement, which leads to poor recovery of pelvic floor muscles and various symptoms of lumbar muscle syndrome. Therefore, only by doing a good job in the next month can we gradually restore the vitality of the body and gradually restore the body that consumes a lot during pregnancy and childbirth.
Third, how to carry out scientific confinement
1, Pay attention to balanced intake of nutrition: During the second month, mothers need to pay attention to richness, good absorption and balance in their diet, but they don't need any form of tonic behavior, because weak bodies can't bear the nutritional process and warm supplements. Usually, the diet is light, and all kinds of staple foods, meat, vegetables and fruits can be eaten.
2, pay attention to the recovery of the uterus: there will be a period of time to discharge lochia during the month of confinement, and this is a very critical point in the recovery of the uterus. Only when lochia is discharged from a clean uterus can it be considered as basically returning to normal. If lochia is found to be inexhaustible or even aggravated, you need to go to the hospital for examination and treatment as soon as possible.
3. Pay attention to proper physical exercise: you need to have enough rest time during the month, but at the same time, you can't just stay in bed for a long time and ignore physical exercise. Because proper postpartum activities can make the body's blood get enough circulation, help qi and blood run, and at the same time improve the recovery of body function and enhance the body's immunity.
4. Pay attention to proper body cleaning: the living conditions are much better now than before, so you don't have to take a shower or wash your hair for a month as before. Keeping your body clean regularly will be more beneficial to your health. You can also simply wash during the month, keep warm and avoid catching a cold.
Important note: confinement is of great significance to physical recovery and prevention of postpartum diseases. If the confinement is not done well, there may be various physical diseases, which will affect the physical quality in the future. Therefore, during confinement, we should pay attention to diet and nutrition, pay attention to the recovery of uterus, take appropriate physical exercise and keep our body clean.
I was wrapped up by an old woman, and the doors and windows at home were closed. Although it is autumn in September when I am confined to the moon, it is also very hot when the autumn tiger is hot.
From head to toe-wearing a moon hat, cotton pajamas and socks. God, I can't stand it all day. I feel suffocated. I just can't breathe fresh air, and I am surrounded by a person in the big bedroom. I can't stroll, I can only lie in bed with the baby.
I couldn't stand it the next day. I'm devastated. I'm not wearing a hat I changed my cotton pajamas into thin pajamas and took off my socks. I said to my mother, "I beg you, can you change your old ideas?" In this way, I will collapse in less than two days. I feel difficult to breathe, and I can't breathe because of the heat. "Guess what my mother-in-law said. She said, "I did it for your own good. You are so headstrong that I can't control you. Don't blame me for your illness in the future. Do whatever you like. "
In this way, I wear thin clothes, but I am always weak after giving birth, and my body has never sweated. I'm sweating almost all the time. My hair stinks from the seventh day, and I can wring it out of the water as if I had just fished it out of a basin. My body began to stink, and it smelled of milk, so my husband didn't want to get close. The old woman who washes her hair and takes a bath is so tight that she can't wash it without saying a word. I am very helpless. When leaving the hospital, I asked the doctor clearly. I can wash it four or five days after delivery. As long as there is no wind, dry it quickly and keep the heat.
I stayed until the 30th day, and I couldn't wait. In fact, on the 28th day, I was impatient and extremely upset. But what's the use? The old lady will have to wait 30 days to wash. After taking a shower, I feel instantly reborn, the haze clears and I feel relaxed all over.
Now the baby is only five months old, and the moon disease has not been revealed, but the old woman often mentions me. When you get older, you will definitely have leg pain, arm pain, foot pain and headache, because you won't wear thick clothes in the month, and your eyes will be blind because you watch your mobile phone in the month. But I didn't feel pain during labor, so my waist has been hurting since the second day after giving birth. Holding the baby for a long time, I can't stand up straight.
I have experience in this field. I gave birth to my daughter eight years ago. My parents don't let me eat salt, hot food, ice and hard food. Anyway, many of them can't be touched. I put up with it for a month before washing my hair and taking a bath. I stew vegetables and meat every day. I doubt my life. My mother-in-law brought the baby. I didn't hold the baby, so I went to make milk powder. I'm just busy arguing with my husband every day. Confucius sat very well, except that she shed tears several times and had a fever for half a month, but Confucius had no problem. I learned the lesson of my second child and didn't let my mother-in-law come. My mother gives me three meals a day, and my husband takes care of the children. People who are free take care of me. I didn't avoid cooking oil and salt. After a few days, I washed my hair and took a bath, feeling much better, but I still didn't hold my baby. My husband is tortured to death by the baby every day. Except for the pain of caesarean section, I ate and slept well. I was not sick when I was born, and my waist still started. I've heard that one child has moonshine, and the second child can bring it back the next month. I don't know if it's true or not, but I still have to wait and die the next month.
I have given birth to two babies, and now Bauer just gave birth to a baby. Let me share my confinement experience.
The confinement of the older generation means that you can't wash your hair, bathe or brush your teeth for a month, stay in bed for a month, and eat cold things such as fruit.
However, I didn't do this when I was confined. Both my babies gave birth naturally, so I washed my hair and took a bath on the third day after delivery, because it was really difficult not to wash. After giving birth, I was weak, bleeding a lot and dirty. So I took a shower and washed my hair on the third day after giving birth, but at this time, I must pay attention to keeping warm, not catching a cold, taking a shower and not washing for too long.
You can definitely brush your teeth, or your mouth will stink if you don't brush your teeth for a month. Just choose a soft toothbrush and brush gently, because the teeth are really loose after giving birth, and I don't know why.
Secondly, you can't always lie down after confinement. You are very weak just one week after you were born. You can lie down for a while at this time, but you still need to get out of bed and exercise more. Exercise more when your body slowly recovers, because lying in bed for a long time is easy to cause thrombosis, which is still very serious. Lying down for a long time is easy to cause uterine prolapse.
Finally, it's about food. In the second month, I was very weak, so many people knew to take supplements. However, it is not suitable for tonic in the first week after delivery, which may easily lead to breast blockage. In the second week, you can take supplements slowly and eat more protein and fresh vegetables.
Finally, about eating cold things, fruits and milk, these are all cold. Old people say they can't eat, but they can actually eat. Fruit can supplement vitamins and milk can supplement calcium.
Calcium should be supplemented after birth, otherwise it is easy to get osteoporosis.
In fact, as long as you pay more attention to life in the month! Don't go out to blow your hair, it will make you feel great, and many common problems will automatically recover after giving birth.
My mother-in-law and I have a weak relationship and have not received her blessing. The year after our marriage, my mother-in-law left because of high blood pressure. My child was born in her mother's house, and so was the confinement.
There are many special things during the period before and after the baby is born. Although I sat at my mother's house for a month, I took care of myself for that month. My grandmother left more than 20 days before the baby was born. At that time, my brother's child was still young (one year older than me), and my mother had severe hypoglycemia during that time and had been dizzy. I live ten minutes' drive from my mother's house. It was midsummer. How can I put it? I feel sorry for my mother. I don't want my mother to run up and down (she can't leave home and always comes back the same day). It's not good to run up and down with children in hot weather, so my mother comes to send me a bill once every two or three days.
There are many special things in the company when the child is born. The father of the child often travels. After my caesarean section, he accompanied me for two days and two nights and went to other places. When he came back, the child was full moon. At that time, we could invite Yue Yue, but I was not used to being waited on, and because of my own personality, I resigned from Yue Yue in less than a week. Because I was an elderly woman (then 34 years old) and my first child, and no one was there to remind me, I didn't care too much about confinement. Sweep the floor, do laundry and cook, take a bath (avoid the knife edge) and wash your hair as usual. The difference is that I have a bad appetite. I remember I didn't eat a bite of chicken, only drank two mouthfuls of soup. Sometimes I haven't eaten a bite of rice for days, let alone a pig's belly and feet. Those things are full at first sight. Every time my mother came to see the chicken, meat, fish and eggs in the refrigerator, she yelled at me, but I just didn't want to eat them (I found out later that I had postpartum depression). After confinement, my mother said that my father only killed six chickens that month, and I didn't eat a bite. She was heartbroken.
I wonder if there is any illness that fell in the second month. I often have headaches since I was a child, so I still have headaches now, and I can't wash my hair for the next month; Now, the weather has changed. My neck hurts and my shoulders hurt. But apart from bathing and feeding the child, I hardly hug him, and I have no habit of hugging him and putting him to bed. It was when my child was more than three months old that I went to work with my child on my back. I remember my cousin (my eldest brother's aunt) yelling at me every time she saw me carrying a child, which would cause neck and shoulder pain. As for the others, I can't blame them for falling in the second month, because I have too much pain myself. Like now, I'm in a wheelchair again. I just left the hospital yesterday and just transferred the store today.
My method of confinement is speechless, and I don't encourage my friends and sisters to do so. We don't have to completely follow the traditional confinement, but we can't ignore it. We should learn something useful, after all, for our own health! People who are taken care of think differently. When there are differences, try to communicate calmly. Don't be angry. Long live understanding! Don't complain if no one takes care of you. If you can solve it with money, try to solve it with money, because nothing that money can solve is a problem. Anyway, don't let your mood, body and children be wronged!
May every mother in the world be safe and happy!
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