What are the differences in the influence of father and mother on children's growth in the family?

What is the difference between father and mother's influence on children's growth?

A person will have two development directions when he is born. One is intimacy, mother has a natural advantage, and the other is openness, and father has a natural advantage. Therefore, the direction in which parents influence their children's education is really different.

Mother education is a kind of root education, and the policy is to make life moist and full. From birth to primary school, a person's teaching and experience are the foundation of his life. During this period, the child's first day is to stay at home and undertake family teaching. Children spend the most time with their mothers at home. Every detail of mother's communication with children, from breastfeeding to dressing and eating, constitutes a cultural whole, and this whole has a lifelong influence on children.

It can be said that the mother's learning attitude determines the child's academic performance. This is not to say that the mother is required to urge her children to study, find him a good school and a good teacher, but to ask whether the mother herself has the initiative to learn, is willing to change, is not afraid of failure, and dares to try innovative practices. When children hear and see what their mother is doing, they will naturally try to learn from her.

So the mother's behavior is a role model for her children. Because the child is born with a blank sheet of paper, the curiosity, learning ability and imitation ability in early childhood are the strongest periods in his life, so the mother's preferences and behavior habits will be imitated by the child intentionally or unintentionally.

On the other hand, paternalism is a kind of backbone education, and the policy is to establish the backbone of life. Therefore, after the child is older, the father's educational influence is far greater than that of the mother.

If you really want to be a good father, you should start with some small things: be a father of Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon, be whimsical with children, enjoy reading with children, take children on long-distance trips and broaden their horizons.