Quanzhou Jinjiang engagement customs are how?

The town has the town's difference, the village has the village's different I say the next our village: 1, the engagement of the male party to pack money to the female party to buy wedding candy, where we also want to oil and rice! The woman chooses how much money to take, and then not enough self and then out. 2, the woman has to run a table to invite guests, usually relatives! If you get married, you will invite the whole village, usually one per household.3, the day of the engagement, the man took the bride price to the woman's home, usually over! When the man goes back, he still brings it back. If the man takes 10,000 to come, the marriage when the woman has to take at least 20,000 dowry out, there is no return!!!! In fact, it is very complicated ```said a few points