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Henan Dancheng more than the elderly stop wedding car to ask for red envelopes, how to rectify this vulgar behavior?

We found that in some people's homes to get married, there will be some stop wedding car situation. Because stopping the wedding car in their minds that this custom for some of the people involved is to be able to fully take advantage of a small advantage. It is a good thing when people make wedding car stops appropriately. But excessive dabbling in other people's small advantages is not a pleasant thing.

In the past two days in Henan Province, a number of elderly people intercepted the wedding car and asked for red envelopes from many people caused many people's dissatisfaction, so the matter gradually fermented online, so that the heat of this matter gradually increased. And when this matter is released, many of the netizens also have a deep understanding, and suggest that this behavior as soon as possible to cancel. Because it is really very unbearable. According to the local people, this behavior is called chu good, because once upon a time when someone can not eat, every time where there is a happy event, then will go to ask for food, but now living conditions are good, began to gradually ask for money and cigarettes, and that is to hold a kind of you don't give me I'll play this kind of mentality to the people to ask for a red packet, many people think that this custom has changed the flavor.

Because the previous custom, simply to a bowl of rice or a mouthful of porridge and other such things, can reflect the spirit of our former working people generous and caring for others, but now want something more expensive, and many times to ask for all of them can not see. As these old people whisked the car to ask for red packets, it made the person concerned very angry on that day. Not that the money problem, but because when people are driving a bunch of people behind the car followed by a very big safety hazards, for anyone is not happy.

While the old man who stopped the wedding car on that day did not have any harm, but in the past reports, there are many people began to complain that the people who stopped the wedding car have no quality and morality, will be their own rented in advance of the car broken and a series of behaviors lead to the parties very angry. And also proposed that this bad trend please the relevant departments to manage the rectification.