How to write a summary of the eight mentality?

Mentality is the psychological and behavioral state that people show in their daily life and work. From the tempering of life and the accumulation of work, I have a unique view and understanding of my mentality. Below I bring you some articles.

Perception of eight kinds of mentality

First, achievement mentality.

A successful mentality is the psychological pillar of a successful life. If a person wants to achieve something, he must first establish an attitude of achievement. In other words, you must make up your mind and dare to dream before you can achieve it.

A nation without dreams is a nation without hope; A person who has no dreams will never succeed.

We came here from all corners of the country to do business, all for the same goal. To achieve this goal, we must always motivate ourselves with the attitude of achievement, make unremitting efforts, struggle, accumulate positive energy, approach this great goal step by step, and finally make our dreams come true.

Second, the mentality of learning

Good learning attitude is the golden key to success.

We are engaged in a strange field and belong to the category of virtual economy. Therefore, we should seriously study this knowledge, learn the behavior patterns and thinking patterns of successful people, and let ourselves gain this knowledge and energy in a short time.

As we all know, no matter what industry, only insiders can make money. If you want to be an insider, you must keep learning. By learning the experience of successful people in the industry, we can greatly reduce mistakes and shorten the time of exploration, thus achieving faster success. The experience of others' success and failure is our best teacher. Success itself is the embodiment of ability, and ability needs to be learned and cultivated.

Third, the mentality of paying.

In fact, giving is the relationship between giving up and getting. As the saying goes, "Take what you want in advance and give it to you first." If you have a house, you will get it. If you have a big house, you will get it. You won't be reluctant to have a small house. Just like shopping, you buy things with money, you have no money, but you have something; He has nothing, but he has money. You gave up money and got something, and he gave up things and got money. Is this fair?

Our industry is "all for one, all for one". If you want to get help from others, you must learn to pay for others. We must firmly believe in such an adage: "There is justice in the world, and there is reward for giving!"

Fourth, a tolerant attitude.

Tolerance is not only the art of interpersonal communication, but also a lubricant to clear interpersonal barriers, and it is also a kind of personality cultivation. Each of us has our own strengths and weaknesses, our temper and personality, our own way of thinking, our own tone and our own way of doing things.

However, if you want to succeed in our industry, you can't rely on yourself, which requires the strength of the team. Therefore, we must learn to live in harmony with everyone. This requires us to have an inclusive attitude, look at the advantages and disadvantages of others and tolerate their shortcomings and deficiencies. When encountering problems, you should learn to put yourself in the other person's shoes, so that you can understand others more easily. As the saying goes, "a big belly can hold everything in the world" and "a prime minister can hold a boat in his stomach". Only with such grace and bearing can a person make great achievements in his career.

Five, the usual mentality

The so-called normal state of mind refers to a calm state that a person adopts when dealing with something or his own life, that is, "no joy, no worries, no arrogance, no arrogance, no arrogance, no arrogance, no arrogance." Tao Yuanming, a great poet, once said in The Story of Yueyang Tower: "Don't rejoice in things, don't grieve for yourself". In other words, don't be too happy to get it, and don't be too sad to lose it. Su Shi also has a saying in "On Hou": Don't be angry when you add up for no reason, and don't panic when you come suddenly. If you achieve great things, you must have the integrity to win over others and take measures that ordinary people can't stand.

Our existence in this world is nothing more than doing things and being human. Getting along with friends belongs to the category of being a man. In our industry, we should get along with every friend with a normal attitude, whether rich or poor, official or private. We should treat what happens around us with a normal heart and take it calmly. Only in this way can we win the success of our career.

Sixth, optimistic attitude

What is an optimistic attitude? That is, no matter how many difficulties and setbacks you encounter and how many setbacks and failures you experience, you can face them calmly and always remain optimistic. Su Dongpo, a great writer, was exiled by the court many times in his life and often got into trouble. However, he always maintained an open-minded and optimistic attitude, loved life, still wrote poems and lived a chic life, and became a model for China intellectuals.

As the saying goes, "Life is like a mirror. If you smile at it, it will smile back at you. " You cry to him and he cries to you. "Of course, a positive and optimistic attitude is not inherent in everyone. When you lack optimism, don't be disappointed and depressed. You can cultivate your optimism purposefully through psychological training. Among them, one of the most effective ways is to spend time with positive and optimistic people, get the infection of optimism from these people, mobilize their positive mentality, and thus squeeze negative emotions out of their brains. As the saying goes, "If you go near Zhu Zhechi, you will be black. "In any case, you should support your career with optimism, and never be discouraged by temporary difficulties or setbacks. Prosperity follows adversity, and spring follows winter. Let optimism accompany you all your life, and your career will be successful.

Seven, self-discipline mentality

Self-discipline is to discipline yourself with morality and code of conduct. It involves all aspects of constraints and adjustments, such as our usual manners, gfd, and code of conduct.

First of all, we should correct our appearance and maintain a good image. As the saying goes, "Image precedes success". Although you can't see a person's quality from his appearance, it can reflect his level. Mistakes caused by a person's lack of self-discipline in appearance, temperament and cultivation can be corrected slowly and gradually improved after reflection; But if a person's behavior lacks self-discipline, it will often cause irreparable losses. So first of all, we must be self-disciplined and self-reliant. Without self-discipline and self-improvement, it is difficult for us to succeed in our career. Self-discipline can enhance self-confidence and charm. Self-discipline urges each of us to climb the peak step by step and achieve success. The so-called "strengthening discipline makes the revolution invincible" is the truth.

Eight, grateful attitude

It is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation and the universal value of all mankind to be grateful for the kindness of others. Internationally, the last Thursday of June 165438+ 10 is designated as Thanksgiving Day. In Buddhism in China, there is also a saying that "four kinds of good things are rewarded and three kinds of bitterness are given to the poor". Among the four kinds of grace, namely, parents' grace, earth's grace, all beings' grace and Buddha's grace, for non-Buddha disciples, the first three kinds of grace are also to be returned.

First of all, we should thank our parents for giving us life and raising us. The hardships and selfless love paid by parents cannot be calculated by money; Secondly, thanks to the kindness of the motherland, the motherland has provided us with a good living environment; Then there is gratitude to all beings, because in our life and work, we will always meet people who have helped us more or less directly or indirectly, so we should all be grateful to them.

We should learn to be grateful and know how to be grateful. Treat everyone who has paid for us with gratitude, even the beautiful nature. Learning to be grateful will make us live in harmony with others and nature and make our life better.

Summary of eight mentalities

Mentality is the psychological and behavioral state that people show in their daily life and work. From the tempering of life and the accumulation of work, I have a unique view and understanding of mentality. In my opinion, a successful person or a successful person should have the following eight basic mentality:

First, the mentality of preparation: that is, people's career planning, but also refers to the ability to plan a specific thing. Whether in life or at work, we should make a detailed and clear plan for the future or upcoming work. The ancients said: "The soldiers and horses have not moved, and the grain and grass go first." In other words, make all preparations first, and don't fight uncertain battles.

2. Learning mentality: We are required to always face life and work with a "modest", "zero" or "sponge" mentality, and constantly learn and absorb the experience of successful people, so as to enrich ourselves and become all-round talents. In the process of learning, we should put an end to "I understand!" "I know!" ; Don't look at others critically, learn more from their advantages; It is more important to consult and communicate with successful people or experienced people to improve their comprehensive ability.

Third, optimistic attitude: that is, face life and work with a proactive attitude towards life. According to different psychological behaviors, people's congresses can be divided into the following three kinds of mentality: positive mentality: optimism, courage to face difficulties and challenges; The AQ index is very high. Negative mentality: pessimistic, confused, afraid to face difficulties and setbacks; The AQ index is very low. Willow mentality: no opinion, people follow suit, the wind blows on both sides. (AQ stands for adversity quotient: In short, this means that when a person or an organization faces adversity, it will react differently in its unique way. )

Fourth, self-discipline mentality: be strict with yourself, set an example in your work, set an example, and take the lead in setting an example; We should strictly control our own selfish desires in life, and don't be tempted by the outside world to do things that go against common sense or morality.

Fifth, tolerant mentality: that is, learn to "put yourself in the other's shoes", whether it is life or work, you must learn to be tolerant. In another sense, tolerance is a responsibility, an obligation and a manifestation of moral sentiment. Tolerance is also a manifestation of self-cultivation. Learn to be tolerant and ask us not to abuse ourselves or others; Don't look at others critically, but tolerate their shortcomings; Don't reveal others' privacy, respect others' privacy.

6. Normal mind: gain without joy, lose without worry, and face everything with a calm mind. A normal state of mind can help us analyze and deal with problems correctly, and will not let our temper and anger get carried away. Seven, achievement mentality: that is, five hearts will: ambition (too much will become ambition), confidence (from understanding), patience+perseverance (both are very important in persistence), love (everything has love, including love for family, friends and society, and love needs to be declared immediately).

8. Thanksgiving mentality: Learn to be grateful for life. From another perspective, both your friends and your enemies have something to be grateful for. Gratitude requires us to learn to face life and work with a brand-new gratitude, be grateful in prosperity and still be happy in adversity! Mentality determines your actions, actions determine your habits, habits determine your character, and character determines your destiny! When we can make good use of these eight mentalities, we are at least a useful person, even if we are not a successful person.