What are the hazards of divorce?

Divorce is not a simple matter. Marriage is a matter for two families, and so is divorce. What are the consequences of divorce? The following is the harm of divorce I sorted out for you, for reference only, and I hope it will help you.

After the divorce, you are no longer husband and wife.

This is very important, and you must be soberly aware of it. After the divorce, you are all free men. You are no longer his wife, and he is no longer your husband. You can pursue your own happiness, so can he. At this point, you and he are both free, and no one has the right to interfere with each other's choices.

He can pursue his own charm, even if it makes you feel a little sad or angry.

But there is nothing you can do about his choice.

Hurt a child's heart

Divorced children are often withdrawn and go to extremes. . Minors break the law and commit crimes, and many of them are children of divorced families.

We often see the phenomenon that many people are alive and everything is for the children. The children were entrusted to the school, and the parents took the trouble to pick them up. Parents save money for their children, buy a house for their children, and spend all their life savings on their children. Once the parents divorce, the pillar supporting the children will be broken, and the children's status, treatment, enjoyment and family education will be completely changed immediately. Although divorced parents will still love their children, and even children will be loved by stepfathers or stepmothers, no one can deny that parents' divorce is a huge mental blow to their children. These children generally have a sense of abandonment. It is not difficult to find that many children whose parents are divorced are sent to prison, run away from home and live in society, much more than those who grow up in normal families. Therefore, some people want a divorce, but for the sake of their children, it is understandable to live with pain and lead a boring marriage life.

Hurt parents' hearts

Which parent in the world would like to see their children unhappy, hurt and trapped by love? She (he) suddenly has white hair and wrinkles.

When a husband and wife divorce, their parents are hit hardest, which will bring infinite anxiety and worry to their parents. Many young people think that if the relationship between husband and wife is not good, they will divorce and form another family. But many middle-aged and elderly people don't think so. Many of them think divorce is shameful. Some people's children have been divorced for a year or two, and they still keep it a secret. What kind of psychology is this? If the child becomes an official, gets rich and has a successful career, do you still have to keep it a secret? Obviously not. When a husband and wife divorce, both parents will add infinite worries to their children's life and the handling of the next marriage, and some will even become anxious.

affect health

Studies have shown that divorced people are 20% more likely to suffer from chronic diseases such as heart disease, diabetes, tumors, etc. than those with stable marriages, and their mobility is also worse than those with stable marriages, and the probability of mobility disorders is 23% higher than those with stable marriages. Divorce does great harm to people's physical and mental health, which is basically the same for men and women. Even if you remarry after divorce, this negative effect still exists-the rate of chronic diseases of remarried people is higher than that of stable marriages 12%, and the rate of dyskinesia is higher 19%.

It is difficult to guarantee that remarriage will be 100% successful.

After divorce, how to arrange the rest of your life is in front of you. If you don't marry for life, will you encounter difficulties in life? If you are old and completely dependent on your child's care, will it add trouble to your child? What about those who have no children? If you remarry, will it be 100% successful? Remarriage, the marital status is quite complicated, and various relationships are not easy to handle. . For example, the relationship with stepchildren, the relationship with ex-spouse in child support, the relationship between remarried spouse and ex-spouse and so on. As the saying goes, "remarriage has remarriage, and two hearts are in the same bed." If not, divorce again and get married again. These problems are also difficult to deal with.

Legal consequences after divorce

Article 1080 of the Civil Code stipulates: "After the divorce registration is completed, or the divorce judgment or mediation takes effect, the marriage relationship is dissolved." Divorce, as a legal fact that causes the termination of marriage, has a series of legal consequences, mainly including the consequences for both parties to the marriage and the consequences for children.

1, legal consequences for the parties

The influence of divorce on the personal relationship between husband and wife mainly includes the following contents:

(1) The relationship between husband and wife is dissolved;

(2) The maintenance obligation between husband and wife is terminated;

(3) The legal heir is disqualified;

(4) Both parties have the freedom to remarry.

The impact of divorce on marital property relations mainly includes the following contents:

(1)*** Property division and liquidation;

(2) Economic compensation for divorce;

(3) settlement of debts between husband and wife;

(4) Financial assistance for divorce;

(5) Compensation for divorce damages.

2. Legal consequences for children

(1) trusteeship

First, for children under two years old, the principle is that they are directly raised by their mothers. This is a principled provision based on the interests of children.

Second, the custody of children who have reached the age of two is decided by parents' agreement. If the agreement fails, the people's court shall make a judgment according to the specific conditions of both parties and in the principle of being most beneficial to the minor children.

Third, minor children who have reached the age of eight should respect their wishes.

(2) alimony

First, alimony includes living expenses, education expenses and medical expenses. Raising children is the legal obligation of parents, and the party who does not directly raise children after divorce should bear part or all of it.

Second, the amount and method of alimony payment. The amount of alimony to be borne by both parties and the mode of payment shall be agreed upon by both parties. If the agreement fails, the people's court shall make a judgment. Parents' burden of raising their children can be determined according to the actual needs of their children, the affordability of both parents and the local actual living standards.

Third, the payment period of alimony. Parents' obligation to support their children ends when their children live independently. /kloc-A natural person over 0/8 years old is an adult with full capacity for civil conduct and can independently conduct civil legal acts. Accordingly, the term of alimony payment is 18 years old. If a person is over 16 years old but under 18 years old, whose income is the main source of livelihood and can maintain the local general living standard, the parent who does not directly raise the child may stop paying the maintenance fee.

Fourth, the change of alimony. If a child proposes to change the original amount of alimony due to the needs of life and education, or the economic situation of one parent has changed significantly, it shall be agreed by both parties. If the agreement fails, the people's court may handle it according to the actual situation of a specific case.

(3) Visiting rights

First, the way and time of exercising the visiting right shall be agreed by the parties. If the agreement fails, the people's court shall make a judgment.

Second, the people's court can enforce the judgment or ruling of refusing to visit children according to law. Compulsory measures such as detention and fines can be taken for the relevant individuals and units that refuse to perform the right to assist the other party in exercising the right to visit, but the personal and visiting behavior of children cannot be enforced.

Third, minor children, parents who directly raise their children and other legal guardians who are responsible for raising and educating minor children have the right to request the people's court to suspend the right to visit.