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Why do men like to pour women drinks on the wine table? Please tell me.

Anyone who often goes to restaurants will find such a phenomenon. As long as there is a lady at the dinner table, especially a lady with some beauty, men will frequently persuade her to drink, regardless of whether she can drink or not. The more women drink, the happier men will be. Even a woman who really can't drink will make tears drop down after drinking, and men will laugh and be very happy. Persuade women to drink, let women drink, let women drink more, and it is best to let women get drunk. This seems to be the happiest thing for men. It seems that only in this way can men's happy nerves be activated. On the wine table, men are in business, men are in politics, and so are intellectuals. Even those officials who always pretend to be sanctimonious, unsmiling and serious have completely lost their usual "dignity" when they come to the wine table with women, especially beautiful women, and they frequently propose toasts to women, conniving at other men to propose toasts to women and never giving up until they get drunk. Businessmen advise women to drink, which is often explicit. They will make many promises on the spot, such as working in his company, how much annual salary they can give, taking women out to travel and so on. Anyway, as long as women are willing to drink, it is best to be drunk; At first, intellectuals usually propose a glass of wine in a more elegant way, but when he is a little drunk himself, his manners are gone, he frequently toasts the ladies, and his attitude is even worse than that of businessmen. Men in officialdom, especially officials with certain positions, can persuade women to drink, which is even worse. At first, they can drink a little by themselves, and the women drink it all. Because he is an official, he is used to asking others to drink more in the form of administrative orders. Not only that, they can also mobilize other men to propose a toast to women. When the hostess has finished drinking, she will start drinking one-on-one with the hostess seriously. Women at this time, even if they have drunk too much, I always like this occasion, and I also like women who quarrel with men. However, most women on the wine table still don't like to quarrel with men, and they are more measured in what they say and do, especially those women who don't have the capacity for alcohol. When you meet a man, you have unspeakable pain. Drink, don't drink if you don't have enough alcohol. It's really a dilemma, especially the wine that respects officials. After drinking a few hundred percent of the wine, men will also send them their accustomed "meat banquet", which will make women blush and heartbeat. Men advised women to drink, which became a very beautiful "landscape" on the wine table. All men who like to let women drink more, and men who like to let women drink more on the wine table to activate their "happy" nerves, I can't help but ask, do you like to persuade your wife to drink when she goes out for social intercourse? This is the weakness of many men. They don't want their wives to be served outside, so some men advise them to drink. Once their wives are entertained outside, they will be very unhappy and even furious. In ancient times, drinking with women was called drinking debauchery, from which the word debauchery came. Because the women who participate in the wine field are basically showgirls, no matter how men fiddle with it, there will be no minor moral problems, and it is the pride of men to monopolize the winners. Whoever has the skill will pour the woman down. Today's wineries have long gone out of the world of flowers and wine. It is a piece of cake for a good woman to participate in the wine field and play with a man. However, some men still haven't put an end to the bacteria that drink Hua San, and they always want to play with women and get a little cheaper, which will become a good memory when they are alone after drinking. There is such a man who loves to drink, especially with women. He seems to be inseparable from women. If there are only big men in the wine field, they will be depressed and can't drink the atmosphere, feelings and desires. Once a woman appears in the wine field, no matter who she is, her eyes immediately glow with sexual excitement, which can't be covered. Even if they can't do it for objective reasons, they are content to say something intimate, drink a symbolic glass of wine and play a few jokes cautiously. They bury their thoughts in the wine and drool in it, because the woman's husband and lover are present, and they have ideas but can't implement them. It would be nice to have an eye addiction in silence like this. The appearance of women, after all, brought a trace of spring to the wine field, and made men with ideas have ideas. Chairman Mao taught us that women hold up half the sky. It is great, correct and glorious for the old people to stand tall, but it also contains ideal elements. If used in the field of wine, sometimes the effect is not good and it may fail. In today's China society, women are still in the stage of vulnerable groups, sitting in the wine field. Whether from the traditional teachings or from the physiological point of view, women are born a few heads shorter than men. They should be the protectors of the wine field, and men have the obligation and responsibility to play the role of escort. However, there is always something unsatisfactory. Some bad boys like to bully women by drinking, showing the wisdom and hegemony of men drinking. They have a tendency of male chauvinism and regard women as playthings; Or be severely henpecked at home and need to retaliate against other women; Or they want to exert their strength when they see a woman, and they want to keep her from turning over. In a word, their drinking eyes are like abusing people. Drinking is often out of subconscious behavior, which can be said to be instinctive or not. Drinking is a bad habit of China people, and drinking women is the worst of the bad habits. In a rational state, let alone men who are not used to drinking women's wine, they are good at it, and men who know the truth are like lice on bald men's heads. But sitting in the wine field, some men can't control the impulse to drink, so they like to play some exciting programs to pour wine for women and pour peach blossoms all over their faces. This is the result, and it is a joke like a drunken princess. It should be said that drunken women are the most sensible and intellectual. They take off the spirit coat of petty bourgeoisie ladies, but they don't really take off their clothes, and become bold and open, or cry or San Xiao, or call wine or call names, and even can't stop the vigorous drunkenness and fight against men. This is what some men want, to seek happiness in the attitude of women playing with alcohol. If a woman meets such a man with ulterior motives, it is all wet. Wang Yuewen said in Chinese paintings that the greatest law in China is not the law, but everyone's idea. As long as people have ideas, it is difficult to change and overcome them. Ideas are everyone's inner desires. Going back to the wine field and analyzing men's psychology of drinking women's wine, I'm afraid the biggest idea will fall on the level of cheap tofu. Women who are in an alcohol-free state, even if they have thoughts about a man, will suppress them in a meaningless way when the man actively expresses his thoughts. Only when women drink too much will they relax their vigilance and indulge their bodies, which also gives men a chance to implement their ideas. Some men just seize a woman's weakness and attack her in the wine field. Their idea is very clear, that is, all women, big and small, the bigger the cheaper, the happier and the more proud. When a woman drinks half-heartedly, or deliberately pesters a man with alcohol during estrus, the man's idea has fallen into his stomach. Men advise women to drink, advise women to drink more, and advise women to get drunk, all with motives. Although not all of them have ulterior motives and bad intentions, at least all of them have impure motives. The motive is not pure, and it is not necessarily what you want from a lady, but letting a lady drink more and get drunk is not a manifestation of pure motive in any case. Perhaps, persuading women to drink can activate men's happy nerves, perhaps because some men have impure motives. This motive, whether men admit it or not, is objective. Since men's motives are impure, can women guard against them and can men's motives be defeated? I sincerely hope that men will still show some manners of drinking, some manners of men and some manners of gentlemen.