What are the three most taboo days for getting married?

In the traditional marriage custom, if you want to get married, you must choose an auspicious day to get married. Of course, this day is not so easy to choose. Deciding whether a day is good or not depends on all aspects. Therefore, when choosing, it is necessary to avoid some taboo days, which is also good for newcomers.

It is not appropriate to choose the day of July and August.

Marriage is a very festive event, so we must choose a good day to get married. As for the wedding date, there is a folk saying that "seven don't go out, eight don't return". In some places, seven is neat and eight climbs, "going out together" means funeral, and "climbing home" is not suitable for punctuality, so seven or eight is taboo; On July 7th, women are welcome to get married and avoid festivals. In some areas of the Han nationality, it is especially taboo to get married on July 7, because it is the day when the weaver girl and the cowherd meet again every year. Getting married on this day is taboo, which reflects people's hope that their children will never be separated and be happy after marriage.

Three major ghost festivals should be avoided

Choosing a good day for marriage is very important in traditional customs, and some inappropriate festivals should also be avoided. For example, the three Halloween here refer to Tomb-Sweeping Day, Zhongyuan Festival and Hanyi Festival. Tomb-Sweeping Day is a traditional festival in China, and it is a day to worship ancestors, while Tomb-Sweeping Day lasts for a long time, so Tomb-Sweeping Day is not suitable for getting married all month. Mid-Autumn Festival is the 15th day of the seventh lunar month, and it is a day for people to worship their ancestors. On this day, the gate of hell is wide open and many ghosts can travel on the earth. Mid-Autumn Festival is also called Ghost Festival, and Buddhism is called Yulan Festival. Hanyi Festival is the first day of the tenth lunar month, also known as "Ghost Festival". There is a custom of burning cold clothes on this day, which means to send warm clothes to our ancestors. You can't get married for three days.

Year-end day

Before you decide to get married, you will choose an auspicious day for your wedding, so you should avoid the year-end day, which refers to a day that conflicts with the traditional age. For example, Ding Younian's traditional age is one yuan, so the earthly branch can't be used as the base, while Mao Yiri is a typical end of the year. It is not appropriate to carry out activities such as weddings, funerals and weddings on New Year's Eve.