Jiangxi Zhangshu wedding customs?

1. Both parents meet to negotiate the engagement, mainly to order the yellow calendar and how much the man's bride price. Currently more popular is 108,000, but mainly depending on the economic conditions of both sides. Received gifts according to economic conditions return, if the woman's conditions in general if the collection of 88,888 then return to the man 38888-58888 ranging. If the woman's condition is good, directly accept all the gifts and purchase a car to the man.

2. To the engagement day before there is certainly a lot of time, in this period of time is to add two people engaged to the things needed, we start with the man to the woman's things.

(1) A set of gold jewelry. Including earrings, bracelets, (anklets), necklaces, a pair of rings, a diamond ring (diamond ring now roughly the price of buying to 15,000 or so can be, in fact, you can also go to the gold store to buy bare diamonds to choose their favorite style to create a big difference in price, you can save about 35%, Note: the premise of the first to ask the parents, some parents like to buy 24K pure gold think you can preserve the value of the young people do not like to feel the rustic! ).

(2) wedding candy. Including sugar gold apricot pair. Wenzhou joy sugar sub-size, all the women need all the male party responsible for the joy of sugar, including red packets within the joy of sugar (currently 50-100 red packets have been put, depending on the conditions of both sides with the number of joy sugar).

(3) watches. In the past for the watch, now in view of a variety of electronic products have the function of the watch, only buy one to the woman is also a lot. The price depends on their respective preferences for style and economic conditions, usually around 10,000 dollars.

And the woman to buy things for:

(1) the man's wedding engaged to wear a set of suits, two shirts, two ties, two pairs of shoes (casual with a pair of shoes) two sets of casual wear, socks a dozen, gold: bracelets and necklaces each one (if you give the best man's red packet of less than 580 you need to buy another shirt to the best man). (The gold this even do not know, I did not do so at that time)

(2) a set of dishes 88 pieces 98 pieces 108 pieces can choose, depending on the situation to buy. It is recommended to run a few more, more comparisons, otherwise the price difference between the parties is not small. Send a bowl also have to pick a day, there is a "stable" said, "stable" resonates with the Wenzhou language "bowl". Now the market bowl divided into bone china and ceramic, it is recommended to buy ceramic, high temperature resistance is not easy to crack, but also not like bone china as long as the day is easy to accumulate dirt. There is attention, it is best to buy microwave oven applicable, this point later very practical.

(3) six kinds of points citrus, pastries, dates, cinnamon, lotus seeds, peanuts. And then the man sent sugar gold apricot back to the man (six samples in a special store can buy, save a lot of time and effort, specially wrapped in a basin and wrapping paper, need to book a week or so in advance).

3. Engagement Day: Now the engagement banquet is divided into two kinds, one is the woman's home at noon to set up a banquet banquet invited the man's parents and the best man to attend, the evening by the man back to invite the woman. Another is that both parents plus close friends and relatives together in a hotel banquet engagement. Generally now choose the latter in urban areas more, the man drove to the woman's home in the afternoon dressed to meet the woman and her parents, and give the woman's younger brother or sister suitcase money (suitcase money refers to the woman's younger brother or sister do not allow her sister to get married to pull the suitcase refused to go, you have to give him money before he is willing to let go of people, the previous generation of people so interpreted, and that is, if the woman is an only child, it is given to the woman's mother). Regarding the suitcase money, it is also given on the wedding day. The suitcase money ranges from 5800-10800. When you arrive at the hotel, give tea to both parents and toast to your friends and family to witness your love.

Marriage:

1. Decide to get married on the day after the hotel will begin to book a banquet, now it seems to be a year in advance to book a banquet I dizzy, good day everyone is married ah.

Then you have to settle for a nest, buy a house and decorate of course the man is responsible for, decorate at least 2 months, usually after the engagement to start decorating. After decorating the room furniture purchased by the man outside all other things are by the woman responsible for dressing, all with plugs, decorative things and kitchen cabinets and bedding have the woman to deal with.

2. Take wedding photos. To pick a good time,

March is the best time to take wedding photos, the weather is good, the scenery is good. To go early to book, because good time everyone rush to go. Now the 3W, ancient photography, fashion spring, Zhongtian private photography workshop (recently heard) are good, a change of Weiwei bride and other uniform style. It is best to take advantage of the activities to book, give more things, the price will be relatively cheap. When taking pictures, it is recommended to follow their own preferences, do not easily listen to the makeup artist's advice, they are with the interests of the general nothing good to recommend. There is a point to note is to choose the studio to figure out the number of photos in the album (generally 50, some are 40 too few) and each increase in the unit price of one, this is the difference between the various studios is still very large, high to 50 a, less 30, and ultimately resulting in a difference in the total price of the not so small.

3. Wedding dresses. Now many people are buying wedding dresses, there is time this is also good, after all, go to Suzhou Shanghai to buy a lot cheaper, but pay attention to one point, Suzhou, the quality of the general are not very good. There is also a trip to the road expenses are also quite a lot, compare, rent and buy in the end which is cost-effective. Rent, Wenzhou is now a few stores are distributed like this: some of the rent is very expensive, such as Broadway, dowry workshop, dowry workshop has a few quite unique, is the price is expensive, good-looking evening gowns are generally more than 3,000, three plus add up to more than 10,000 is certain. Some of the Broadway pieces cost tens of thousands of dollars. Just wear a night, so expensive, the money spent is really too wrong. I feel that Chaiqiao Lane has a dream palace field dowry is not bad, the price is affordable, things are also more refined.

3. Wedding day toasting program do not have to worry about their own, etiquette company camera people on these sets of clear, he will shoot while guiding you how to toast, as long as you do it according to the good.

4. Gifts from the woman to the man's family.

(1) Groundnut Master Groundnut Mother. You have to buy gifts for both the groundnut master and the groundnut mother. When I was in the middle of summer, I bought a crocodile t-shirt for the Groundhog Master and a necklace for the Groundhog Mother. The first thing you need to do is to buy a pair of shoes for your mother, especially if you are a mother, and put a pair of socks in your shoes. The "shoes and socks" are the same as the "idle touch" in the Wenzhou dialect, which means that she will be able to help you take care of the housework in her spare time.

(2) The siblings of the mother of the earth are the man's aunts and uncles. Usually, each person buys a quilt or quilt cover and other bedding, the price is usually two or three hundred dollars.

(3) The man's own siblings. If you have a brother or sister, you can buy a shirt or other clothes. If you have a sister, it's usually a ring or a necklace. Spouses who also have siblings are treated as brothers or sisters.

5. Preparation in the days before the wedding.

(1) photography rental car flowers, but these to relations now full of ceremonial companies have all-inclusive.

(2) Master of Ceremonies. Please do not invite depends on personal preference, always feel that you banquet more then the MC and get half a day you busy to 12 o'clock in the evening do not want to be good, you wait for people can not wait ah. If the master of ceremonies is good, it can be, in case the level is too poor or something else, but will destroy the wedding atmosphere.

(3) Book a makeup artist.

4. The night before the wedding the bride to do a beauty to a cuticle on the line, if there is a follow makeup, the wedding day do not have to get up so early, now the beautician is directly to the door to get up at 9:00 to do a hair and nails and then eat, after this meal at noon, the next meal but the next day's lunch ah, here to remind you or to eat enough ah, huh. Then to one o'clock more makeup artist to wear a wedding dress, shawl, makeup and hairstyle probably need more than an hour. Here to remind is to pay attention to advance telephone notification makeup artist their wedding dress is what color and style, so that facilitate her will prepare the same color and style of headdress.

Men are about the same, no women so troublesome, 4 o'clock when the groom and the best man will set off to the woman's home to pick up the bride (now it is getting earlier and earlier, because now the hotel generally have more than one pair of couples at the same time to get married, early feng shui is good in order to grab the feng shui, the bride is now very early, and not as in the past, such as the guests wait for the bride), to the bride's home bridesmaids will want to think of some tricks for the bride, the last is of course a red silk dress. Groom, and finally, of course, is the red envelope to get done before opening the door, (red envelope is about 50 dollars, Wenzhou side is nine bridesmaids, plus the bride just a table) and then it is nine bridesmaids plus the bride all the male relatives with the car together to the new house. Here to get off, Wenzhou this side is a rental car, cigarettes must be handed, otherwise some bad drivers will deliberately open fast and slow, so that the line is not a team, the video shot up is not very good to see. Then to the new room is the tea and dumplings row video, and must remember to honor the order of the elders when things, otherwise it will be gossiped about.

The next thing is to drive all the way to the hotel, and then is the lion dance, and then give the red packet (red packet is 1 person 10 dollars, total ****60). The next thing is that some of the best man will take the kind of spray color belt spraying the new and bridesmaids. Suggested that the bride to put down the veil, and bridesmaids suggested that the preparation of a piece of old clothes with a hat, before going in the hat, huh. The last level is of course the toast, this is the most important, of course, also varies from person to person, everyone plays their own, here also exempt, but also note that the middle of the bride to change the wedding dress and hairstyle. Also note that the next is now the male party to the female party 4 tables of banquets, including red packets, more than the banquets is the female put their own responsibility, and red packets of course, by their respective parents to collect.