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Family customs and family training story speech 5

Family style like spring rain, silent; family style is culture, nourishing future generations. The family style is positive, father and son filial piety, family harmony, neighbor watchfulness, excellence. Parents teach by word and example, family education, do not forget the good family style. A look at the family style family training story speech 5, welcome to check!

Family customs and family training story speech 1

My family style is hard work and unity, mutual respect, it is because of my family style, so it is a good result.

Once, mom got up in the morning to go to work, heard the bathroom "click", "click" sound very worried, mom rushed to push open the bathroom door to see, it was the grandmother in the bathroom to wash clothes, brush shoes! ...... mom rushed up and said, "Don't wash, come back from work I wash." "Right away! You hurry to pack up and go to work!" Grandma said.

I heard the sound of talking, I got up from the bed, eyeing the grandmother's every move, after washing clothes and brushing shoes, grandmother began to give me breakfast, in short, grandmother is always not idle, cleaning during the day and night, so our home is cleaned every day. As soon as you enter the house, you have a comfortable feeling.

It is in the grandmother's drive, dad also every day to grab cleaning, brush pots and wash dishes. Once, mom gave dad enrolled in a second level builder's exam, test over, get a certificate, can be hung to other companies to use, a year can get seven or eight thousand dollars, dad in order to want to earn a little bit more money to support our family, dad work during the day to earn money do not have the time to read books, I thought to myself, the builder must not be difficult to test, dad did not have the time to read the book have hope that can be passed. In a late night, I got up to go to the bathroom, a look, it turned out that Dad is still focused on reading. The original test builder also need to pay a lot of effort.

Driven by my grandmother and my father, my mother and I and my sister have also become hardworking and diligent, and my mother teaches us to study every day after work, and my sister learns very seriously. How about that? That's how powerful the family style is.

Family Style Story Speech 2

I am in a happy family, everyone in the family abide by one rule: hard work and thrift, and hard work and thrift has become the family style of our family.

Every time we don't finish leftovers, we always save them for the next time instead of throwing them away; every time we go out to eat, if we don't finish them, we always pack the leftovers to go home; things like empty drink bottles and empty honey jars, we always use them to hold some items.

I remember one time, Dad because he thought the food is not good, want to pour out, Mom rushed to stop him: "pour out the food is too wasteful, this is not too bad, make do with it. Saving is honorable, wasting is shameful." Dad nodded and agreed. Since then, Dad never did so.

There was also a time when I drank a drink, I wanted to throw the bottle directly into the trash, but was stopped by my mom. She said, "Don't throw, don't throw, this bottle I can still use to put things, but don't waste it, saving is honorable." When I heard that, I handed the bottle to my mom and said, "Yes! Saving is honorable, wasting is shameful."

This is our family's family style - hardworking and thrifty.

Family Style and Family Training Story Speech 3

I remember once I was talking with my mom and I asked her, "What kind of person do you want me to grow up to be? I really want to become a fairy in a fairy tale, because they have magic and can fulfill any wish they want." Mom said, "Yes, but we can never become fairies. But as long as a person has some good qualities, then he or she can realize his or her dreams like a fairy. I hope my little LuLu can become a down-to-earth, positive person who has really lived. Realize your goals in life through your own efforts one step at a time."

Later, at my own request, I learned to play the guzheng, but after taking lessons from the teacher, I came home and didn't want to put in the effort to practice, and sometimes I just strummed and pulled a few sounds to get through the time. My mother taught me sternly, "Since you have decided to learn guzheng, you should be responsible for your own decision. The process of practicing the zither may be hard, but if you put your heart and soul into practicing and experiencing it, then the process will be enjoyable again. It's just that impatient people can never experience it. Learning is also the same, many people are empty ambition, but not down-to-earth efforts, strive for, so ultimately the dream is still just a dream." After a period of "painful" struggle, I finally developed the habit of practicing the piano for one hour every day, even when I had a cold or fever. Gradually, I became more practical and focused, both in my studies and in my practice.

Doing things on the ground means knowing how to love life, knowing how to be grateful, knowing how to be reverent, knowing how to cherish time, knowing how to make up for mistakes with hard work. ...... In our family, this is not only a "family rule" for me, but also a requirement for mom and dad to ask for themselves and educate themselves. This is the family culture of our family. This is the family style of our family.

Family customs and family training story speech4

Honorable teachers, students:

Hello!

The inheritance of family customs carries the continuation of a nation's thinking and the education of a nation's civilization. In China, people like to pass on the family style in the way of family training, or rather, family training is the most important expression of the Chinese people expect the family style to be passed on for a long time. So, let's shuttle between ancient times and reality, and savor the family style conveyed in the family motto.

Family culture education accompanies civilization

Chinese civilization has a history of 5,000 years, and the family culture education that has been documented now is probably the family teachings of King Wen of the Zhou Dynasty (Jichang) and the Duke of the Zhou Dynasty (Ji Dan) in the early years of the Western Zhou Dynasty. In the Shangshu, we can read an enjoinment by the Duke of Zhou admonishing his nephew, King Cheng of Zhou (Ji Recitation). In the text, the Duke of Zhou admonished King Cheng not to be greedy for comfort and pleasure, not to neglect political affairs, and to stabilize the people. "Knowing the hardships of harvest", such family education still continues today.

In "Saying Yuan against the quality", there is a story that Yan Ying of Qi in the Spring and Autumn period wrote down a family tradition when he was seriously ill, hid it in a pillar, and asked his wife to show it to him when his son grew up. This family instructions son cloth and silk can not be used up, used up can no longer do the clothes; oxen and horses can not be used up their strength, used up can no longer use the oxen and horses to plow the fields and drive; appointments can not be excessively harsh, otherwise no one to help you do things. From this point of view, the "success by hard work and thrift defeat by luxury" family education as early as two thousand years ago.

"The gentleman's behavior, quiet to cultivate the body, thrifty to cultivate virtue. Non-temperance is not to be clear, non-tranquility is not to be far-sighted. The study must be quiet, talent must be learned. Non-study can not be wide talent, non-motivation can not be learned. The obscene and diffuse can not motivate the essence, the risk of restlessness can not be ruled. Years and time, the intention and years to go, so become withered, more than not to receive the world. Sad keep poor hut, will be back how?" This is Zhuge Liang "book of commandments" in the famous sentence.

In Zhuge Liang's ideology, people should focus on strengthening moral cultivation, to continue to learn, to be clear minded, to meditate and reflect, to not be anxious and not impatient. He put himself these thoughts and action guide in the form of family training passed on to his son, hoping that this can become Zhuge family style. Perhaps even Zhuge Liang himself did not expect that these teachings of his became a generation after generation of family training family style, influence to this day.

Yan Zhiwei taught his son to be "strict and compassionate"

Yan Zhiwei's Yan's Family Trainings from the Northern Qi Dynasty is known as the book of family teachings, which is one of the most widely circulated and influential family teachings in China's feudal society.

"Where the common people can not be er, when and infants, recognize the color of people, know people's likes and dislikes, they will be added to the teachings, so that for is for." In other words, on the issue of educating children, he asked his family to teach the infants when they can recognize the colors of others and know the likes and dislikes of others. Yan Zhitui also said, "If parents are majestic and compassionate, children will be fearful of caution and filial piety." It means that when parents are both majestic and loving, children will be fearful and prudent, and thus filial piety will be born. "People's love for their children, rare also can be equalized, free and now, this is a lot of evil. Virtuous and handsome people can appreciate love, stubborn and rude people should also be sympathetic. There is favoritism, although the desire to thick, more so that the disaster." To this effect, for children, parents should not favor one over the other. Through these statements, the Yan family style jumped off the page.

Yan Zhi push body through three dynasties, the vicissitudes of the world, the world of human experience is very deep, so in the "Yan's family training", he educated his descendants to "less desire and enough", "no more words, no more things", "think of woe to nourish life! "and so on. These family teachings have both the limitations of feudal society and its positive side.

After the "Yan's family training", family training writings gradually more and more, almost every dynasty has some representative family training. For example, in Tang Dynasty, Li Shimin's "Di Fan", Song Ruoxin's "Women's Discourse", and Li Shuji's "Precepts of Gleanings"; in Song Dynasty, Sima Guang's "Discipline and Thrift Showing Kang", Lu You's "Fuangweng's Family Trainings", Yuan Cai's "Yuan's Shifan", and Lu Jiushao's "Household Properly Made Use of the Part"; in Ming Dynasty, Yao Shunmu's "Medicine Words", Yang Jisheng's "Yang Zhongmin Gong's Remaining Writings", He Lun's "Ho's Family Rules", and Sun Qifeng's "Xiaoyou Hall's Rules"; and in Qing Dynasty, Aisingero Xuanye's "The Family Rules of the Hall", which is the first book of the Chinese family. Aixinjueluo Xuan Ye's "Court Training Glyphs", Zhu Bailu's "Zhu Zi Family Trainings", Zhang Ying's "Congxun Zhai Language", Wang Huizu's "Shuangjie Tang Yongxun", Zheng Xie's "Sixteen Passages of the Family Letters", Tseng Kuo-fan's "Teaching the Children Book", Gan Shu Chun's "Gan's Family Trainings", and Zou Zhisan's "Qixi Messages" etc. These family trainings have far-reaching influence. These family instructions, with far-reaching influence, are of great significance to the transmission of Chinese culture and thought.

Sima Guang's "Discipline of Thrift and Simplicity"

Sima Guang's "Discipline of Thrift and Simplicity to Kang" is also a family training that has been praised by people throughout the ages, and it was written to his son, Kang.

Sima Guang's family motto is unique in that it begins by describing what kind of person he is: "I come from a poor family, and I have always been clean and white. My nature does not like the splendor, since the baby, the elders to the gold, silver and beautiful clothes, always blushing and abandoned. Twenty as a science name, heard the happy feast alone do not wear flowers. The same year, said: 'Jun give can not be violated.' Was hairpin a flower. In my life, clothes to cover the cold, food to fill the stomach r also do not dare to serve the dirt and ills of the vulgar dry name, but only to comply with my nature. All people are proud of extravagance, my heart is only thrifty for beauty. People all scoff at my stubbornness, I do not think sick." The general meaning is that he was originally from a poor background, generations have inherited the family style of innocence phase. He was not fond of luxury and extravagance. He always wore clothes only to protect himself from the cold, ate only to satiate his stomach, and did not dare to wear dirty and tattered clothes on purpose to show that he was different from the general public, so as to gain people's praise. Many people regard luxury and waste as an honor, but he regarded thrift and simplicity as a virtue.

In fact, this is the family style of the Sima family. Sima Guang's father, Sima Chi, was a state and county officials and Tianzhangge pending, clean, dry life, the family has no surplus wealth. Such a family style influenced Sima Guang, Sima Guang is also "to the innocence of the inheritance", and that "wastefulness, the evil of the big also".

In the "training thrift show Kang", he cited many generations of "success by hard work and thrift defeat by luxury" example, education of his son Sima Kang, "you are not a body should be served, when to train your children and grandchildren, so that the previous generation of the customs of the cloud," requiring his son to be diligent and thrifty family style passed on to the next generation. The family tradition of thrift and frugality was passed on to the next generation.

Zeng Guofan family letter family style

Zeng Guofan is a very controversial figure in the late Qing Dynasty, both the reputation of the famous minister of the Middle Ages, but also the notoriety of the "traitor". But when it comes to modern family training, Zeng Guofan can not be bypassed, and some people say that Zeng Guofan's family book in terms of family training than the "Yan's family training".

The Zeng family is a prestigious family, Zeng Guofan's grandfather had left eight family motto: "pigs, vegetables, fish, books, morning, sweeping, examination, treasure." Reading, planting vegetables, raising fish, feeding pigs, for the home; get up early, clean, clean, sincere repair rituals, good treatment of relatives and neighbors, is the law of the home. During the Daoguang period, Zeng Guofan became a Beijing official, his father wrote three precepts in the letter to his family, that is, "abstinence, abstinence from labor, abstinence from food and drink.

Zeng Guofan's decades as an official, whether leading troops to fight, or governing the country, there are two things must do: one is to read every day, and the second is to insist on writing letters home. His family letter reflects his requirements for family style. He said in his family letter: "family failure can not be away from a word of luxury, people failure can not be away from a word of escape, to please people can not be away from a word of arrogance."

He educated his family to be diligent: "Diligent word kung fu, the first noble early, the second noble constant." He wanted his relatives to insist on reading: "The brothers each self-supporting courses, there must be a daily work, although the boat walking, all must be brought around. I in addition to these three things, other courses do not have to be able to achieve, and these three people, will be lifelong to." Also educate the family to put down the shelf to labor: "children and nephews in addition to reading, taught to sweep the house, wipe the tables and stools, collect manure, hoeing, is a very good thing, do not think that there is a loss of shelf and do not do." He also wants his family to be diligent and thrifty: "Thrifty and self-sustaining, practicing hard work, you can be happy, you can be about."

Read "Zeng Guofan Family Letters", like listening to an elder in and you talk about the family, from reading to become a talent, cultivate yourself, to people in the world, and even to raise flowers and plants, everything, in the small talk shows the Zeng family style.

China is known as a state of etiquette, the ancients talked about loyalty, filial piety, benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom, honesty and integrity, talk about hard work and thrift, and attach importance to family ethics, which are still in today's can be drawn from the nutrients. Generations of family traditions have passed on and developed the culture of the Chinese nation.

Family customs and family training story speech 5

Dear teachers, dear students:

Hello! I am three (2) class Mu Rui, today I speak on the topic of "family customs and family training with my growth".

Every family in China has its own family motto, family style, my family is no exception. My family's motto is: be polite to people, and you have to wait for all your family members to arrive before you can eat. Once, a guest came to my home to play, mom made a table of good food, guests have not come I ate first, the result was my father found, my father harshly criticized me, but also punished me to eat standing up.

There is also no swearing, because swearing itself is not civilized language, swearing is even more uncivilized. Once, my father said dirty words at home, it was found by my grandmother, she gave my father a hard lecture. Since then my father has never said dirty words, I also therefore by my father's influence, never say dirty words.

My family rules are: take the initiative to greet elders, mutual respect for each other, their own things to do, the day of the day to do the same day, can not procrastinate, every day to help my mother to do some of the ability to do some of the chores children. For example: wash the dishes, sweep the floor, take half a year old sister, wipe the table ...... and every day when you get home the first thing is to complete the homework assigned by the teacher, homework is done before you can go out to play.

These family rules are set by mom and dad, since childhood, mom and dad to family rules and family training to ask me, so I have to be grateful to my parents, thank them for their family rules and family training achievements of my good habits.

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