Politeness is very important. What manners should children cultivate from an early age?

There are many things that children can't learn at school, but will it have a great impact on life, such as some basic etiquette knowledge.

Psychologist John gotman's research also shows that children who know manners and manners will be healthier physically and mentally, more concerned about others, more compassionate, have more friends and have better academic performance. It can be seen that etiquette education for children can not only make children popular, but also help them learn.

Polite children will be welcome everywhere. There are three basic and important manners that must be taught to children. The sooner you learn, the better!

◆◆◆◆◆◆◆ Table manners

When visiting relatives' homes, parents should remind us not to wolf down our meals, not to make any noise, and to say thank you for helping our elders. If children can't do this, they will be said to have no tutor, which is a very shameful thing.

The etiquette of children's eating is often ignored by some parents. What good eating habits do children have? How should parents cultivate their children's food etiquette?

Older people are preferred.

Before going to other people's homes for dinner, parents should teach their children some basic table manners and tell them to wait for adults to sit down before taking their seats. To make up a meal, you should take the initiative to help your elders make up a meal before you go, and you should also take the initiative to help your elders at the dinner table. If the elders help themselves with food, they should raise their bowls with both hands to express their gratitude.

Don't leave your seat until you have finished eating.

In addition to washing hands before meals, it is best to let children develop the habit of going to the toilet before meals, so that they can enjoy food more safely and easily. Try not to leave the table when eating, try not to go to the toilet, don't make phone calls, and parents should set a good example for their children.

Many children always turn on the TV during meals, or sometimes play with toys before meals. This will not only help children digest, but also help children develop bad habits. Avoid tossing and turning in the plate.

Some children have the habit of being picky about food. When they are at home, parents always choose the best food to put in their children's rice bowls. It is easy for children to form the habit of picky eaters, and it is difficult for children to change this behavior when eating out.

In order to get what they want, children will use chopsticks to turn around on the plate. Some people even transfer all their favorite dishes from their plates and leave the bad ones to others. This is a very rude behavior, and it seems selfish.

When children have this kind of behavior, parents should immediately stop it and educate their children to choose the right and appropriate way of food. Parents should also pay attention to their food grabbing behavior and don't give their children some bad demonstrations.

Help clear the table.

It is very basic courtesy for children to greet their elders after eating and say, "I'm finished, you eat slowly." Children who take the initiative to help clear the table after meals can win praise from others! In America, a 4-year-old child has helped his mother take the dirty dishes to the kitchen!

Parents can make some rules with their children, such as not helping to cook, or helping to clean the table or wash the dishes after meals. In short, as one of the family members, we should let the children undertake the housework within their power, establish the consciousness of serving others and form good habits.

◆◆◆◆◆◆◆ Public * * *

In public places, learn to be patient and humble, and don't crowd, rob or queue. For example, in the park, there is a queue behind when playing, so you have to give it to others after playing for a while. You can't play endlessly alone, although others can't say anything about you.

In shopping malls, when adults are talking or talking on the phone, wait quietly or walk away. They should not make a hullabaloo about or try to interrupt. Let's talk about things that are not urgent later. Say things like "I'm sorry" in advance, leaving room for others to buffer.

When taking the elevator, give way to the side when the elevator comes, let the people inside come out first, and then you go in; After entering the elevator, if there are still people outside who don't come in, you should press the open button (not the close button) for others.

You can't run around the cultivated land alone when you are a guest. You must be shown around by the host, and generally you don't offer to visit. Don't touch anything novel, and don't treat yourself as an outsider. When using someone else's bathroom, ask the host, "Can I use the bathroom?" People will definitely let you use it and show you the right one. Ask your parents before eating snacks given by others.

When sitting on a stool, sit still, don't push the back of the chair forward, and don't put your legs into the road. Pick up your own things at once, and help others pick them up when they fall off; Don't drill a table in public, even if it is as attractive as tatami, even if you are a child.

◆◆◆◆◆ Three sentences of civility and etiquette

What a person says is always associated with his character and cultivation. Beautiful language is based on respect for others first. If you want your child to become a noble and popular person, please learn to say "three words of civility and courtesy" first. Say "good morning!" When you meet. "Hello!"

A beautiful day begins with a kind and warm greeting. After getting up in the morning, the first thing is to say "good morning!" " To grandpa, grandma, parents and family. The cordial greetings convey your respect and care for your elders and create a warm family atmosphere.

When I got to school, I met my teachers and classmates and said, "Hello, teacher!" " Smiling. "Hello, classmate XX!" In this simple and natural greeting, you unconsciously shape your good image in the eyes of others and cultivate your friendship with others. Apologize by saying "I'm sorry" "Please forgive me!"

People live in this world, and nothing can go wrong. If something goes wrong, you should know how to apologize. To apologize to someone is to admit that your behavior or some practices are inappropriate, and to convey your guilt to the other party and ask for forgiveness.

If you disturb each other, bring inconvenience to each other, or do something wrong, if you say "I'm sorry!" " "Please forgive me!" You can repair your damaged image.

If you can't attend the scheduled meeting, tell the other party in advance: "Sorry, I can't come because of something." If someone asks you to do something, you should refuse for some reason and say, "I'm sorry, I can't help you with this."

Thankfully say, "Thank you!" "Please!" Whenever someone gives you a little convenience and care, even if this care and help is the responsibility of the other party, you should say, "thank you!" " ""please! "When you say" thank you ",you should be sincere, look at each other with grateful eyes, and say it sincerely, naturally and solemnly.