Psychological perception of achievement and salary

The perception of achievement mentality, everyone wants to achieve something, first of all, we must establish an achievement mentality, that is to say, we must give ourselves an accurate positioning, set a goal for ourselves and move towards this goal. How can a person dare not even think about success? I have compiled two selected articles for you to read.

Perception of achievement mentality, perception of giving mentality.

If a person wants to achieve something, he must first establish an achievement mentality, that is to say, he must give himself an accurate positioning, set himself a goal and dare to dream. How dare one think about success? Think about what we are here for and why we are here. How? In other words, you must first think clearly (what) and (why), and then (how)! We come out for the same purpose, just to make money. Can we make money? I said: Yes! Why do I say that? Because I dare to think, I believe I can succeed, and I believe that anything can exist and happen, just as the advertising language of Li Ning brand says: Anything is possible!

Then how can we make ourselves have an achievement mentality? How do we do this? First of all, we should establish a boss's mentality, that is, set a goal for ourselves, how to do it, shape ourselves into a boss from the deep heart, and then sublimate our manners and learn how to contact and communicate with others. Secondly, we should constantly improve our knowledge level, improve our quality, shape ourselves perfectly and achieve ourselves!

If a person doesn't have a strong desire for success, he won't take any action to achieve his goal, so we should stimulate our desire for success. With desire, we will strive to achieve it, step by step towards our goals and realize our great ambitions!

2. Opportunities

Our destiny is in our own hands. Opportunities are very important to us. A small opportunity will change the fate of our generations. What is an opportunity? Opportunity, opportunity, is hard to meet, but when the opportunity came, did you seize it?

How to succeed? We should be modest and not shy about asking questions. You should know that there must be a teacher in a threesome. If you want to succeed, you must listen to the stories of old friends and learn from their experiences, so as to avoid failure and move towards success! As the saying goes: those who are near the ink are black, and those who are near the ink are black! We are all in contact with successful people, which affects us imperceptibly, and makes us have confidence in ourselves and believe that we will become a member of a successful team!

1, anxious mentality. Everything is established in advance, and it is abolished if it is not foreseen. The desire for success is the "expectation" of the mentality. If you don't even have the desire to achieve your career, how can you do things?

2. Curious mentality. The tempering of life makes people mature, and it may also wear away our curiosity. Curiosity about new things can help us get valuable information and resources, so as to keep up with the pace of social development.

3. Investment mentality. Today's investment is tomorrow's wealth, and this concept permeates all aspects of life. How much affection you put into your family and friends will be reciprocated by the other party; How much effort you put into academic work will lead to great achievements in the future.

4. Peace of mind. Impulse is the devil. Calm is to accept all the facts calmly and solve them when they come. Especially when you encounter bad things, you must first calm your heart. Being too emotional will not only help, but may lead to complications.

5. Thanksgiving mentality. Gratitude to others, society and even nature is the source of happiness in life. You might as well pick up your mobile phone at once and send a sincere thank-you letter to those who have helped you. Then feel, is your heart full of happiness?

6. Tolerance. A hundred rivers are full of tolerance. A tolerant heart can reduce the harm caused by anger and disappointment, and also make you feel pity for others. Understand the weakness of human nature, realize the diversity of everyone's thoughts and lifestyles, and forgive others.

7. Help others. Give someone a rose, and the hand has a lingering fragrance. Do you feel tall and happy after giving your seat to the old man on the bus? Studies have found that helping others can make us feel happier than accepting others' help.

8. Win-win mentality. Fight for your own rights and interests while not forgetting the interests of others. This win-win mentality is the key to cooperation. When dealing with people, if one party only wants to take advantage, then this relationship will soon disappear.

Perception of achievement mentality, perception of giving mentality.

Every decision in life has a price to pay. In the words of economics, it is "opportunity cost", that is, when people spend some time and energy to complete one thing, the representative chooses to give up the possibility of using this time and energy to complete another thing.

In the eyes of people who want to win the world, the price they must pay is probably overwork and loss of family life? . How much a person is willing to sacrifice, how much to pay for what he insists on, and the losses that will inevitably be caused by getting something determine the possibility of whether a person can achieve his goals.

Although many young people are ambitious, it is not easy to win the world. The biggest obstacle is not external competition, but how much the inner self is willing to pay to win the world. There is nothing wrong with wanting to win the wealth of the world, as long as you have correct values and enterprising spirit, and take the road of promoting world development instead of just seeking personal gains and losses and power.

Each of us must honestly admit that a limited number of people can't complete the ideal life. For example, it is impossible to spend more time with your family and/or have a lot of free time, and you can start a world-class industry; It is impossible to claim rights without fulfilling obligations. Therefore, if a person does not proceed from his core values and beliefs, he is likely to stagnate or even give up when he encounters a bottleneck halfway.

Everyone looks forward to an ideal life, but I'm afraid not many people really sit down and concretize these ideals. Ideal is an abstract concept after all. If you can't find specific steps to practice, you can't realize your ideal life. For example, how should a businessman who wants to provide consumers with good and cheap goods/services plan? How should writers who want to write good works plan themselves?

On the road of life, we have met many people who speak fluently, but actually have no achievements and little ability. These people have a lot of dreams, but they can't turn them into hard-working implementation goals, let alone stick to them. How can such a person succeed?

Behind every ideal, there must be a goal of cocoa inspection results and an executable strategy. Those who only talk about their ideal life, complain about the bad world and their talents will eventually achieve nothing.

Try to find an ideal vision for your life, try to find words/concepts that can define your life (think about what kind of social person you want to be and what kind of life you will have when you are 40? Or what kind of life do you want to live after retirement? Even think, when you end your life, how do you want your friends and family in this world to commemorate you and evaluate you? ), describe the implementation strategic plan to realize this vision, set short, medium and long-term goals, and you will know what you should do at this moment today. Where to go next? How can I make myself move towards my goal smoothly? Where should I invest my time, talent and wealth? Who can give you resources and help? What values, beliefs and habits do you need to establish/abandon?

There are many traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, and giving is also a virtue.

The ancients always paid great attention to others' efforts and returns. Zhuge Liang thanked Liu Bei for his kindness in meeting with Mao Lu and said, "Do your best until you die." He devoted his life to Shu Han and became a selfless model.

In fact, there are many kinds of contributions. Ten years of cold window, scientists devoted themselves to research, and workers, peasants and soldiers worked hard? These forms of dedication are well known. The same payers have also received corresponding returns, and some have got their own bright future; Some get the respect of society and the joy of the world; Some of them are immortal and famous in history; Some have enjoyed the stability and prosperity of the motherland.

Youth, wisdom, blood and even life are endless sighs of life, but when they are hidden in a corner, they are just dust. Only when they are given and dedicated as sincere gifts can their energy be released. This reminds me of Yue Fei, who is famous for thirty years and has a cloud and moon of eight thousand miles, Lu You, who looks like a mountain in the north of the Central Plains, and Wang Zhaojun, who married in the cottage. I, they are all givers in suffering. They are famous in history because of a dream of mountains and rivers, and their national conditions are due to an unshirkable heroism and a passion for paying.

There are many such examples around us, for example, teachers who "have peaches and plums all over the world and educate all of China". Their selfless dedication has taught us more knowledge. A colleague accidentally threw scraps of paper, cigarette butts, disposable cups or beverage bottles out of the trash can, and a colleague next to him picked them up and threw them into the trash can; After work, the last colleague turns off the lights in the office or watches TV in the office in cold weather, and the last colleague adds a stove? These seemingly trivial things also reflect a kind of dedication and a person's morality and love.

However, some people think that it is insignificant. Even if you sit by the office fire to keep warm and watch TV, you will turn a blind eye when it goes out. Because he feels nothing compared with his vigorous career, or he feels that he is a higher-level leader. These little things are all done by subordinates, and they have nothing to do with him. This is a wrong view because we are all "public servants" of the people. During the war years, President Mao Zedong personally covered the Red Army soldiers with quilts, and Premier Zhou Enlai also worked in the fields with the people!

The ancients said, "If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world?" Liu Bei also said, "Don't do small things." . This seemingly insignificant effort should be recognized by all of us and deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. If every effort is laughed at by others or considered by "subordinates" as the greatest sorrow of a country, a nation and a society.

Let's lend a helping hand and care about the little things around us, which is also a kind of pay.