What are the customs of marriage in Guiyang?

1, propose. The man wants to find a middleman, or a matchmaker, to propose marriage to the woman's family.

2, eight characters. If both parents agree, the middleman will exchange their children's personalities. Then, find their own husbands to match the horoscope and see if the numerology matches. (This step varies from person to person. If you don't believe it, you can skip it directly. )

Step 3 burn incense. That is to say, once again, the middleman came forward to take a message and discuss how much to pay for some bride price, how much to pay for marriage, and what the parents of both sides should bear. Generally, it can be discussed properly once. If some parents don't agree, they will trouble the middleman to make more trips.

4. Parents meet. The middleman unified everyone's opinions and the parents of both sides can meet. At this time, you can get to know each other when you meet, and you can unify or exchange views on some details, such as where to treat guests, how many guests are expected to be invited, and so on.

5. Set a time. Traditionally, a lucky day will be found, and a modern weekend will be fine.

6. treat. Start sending invitations. Relatives belong to parents, and your friends and colleagues are invited by yourself. This is hard work. If someone has an ordinary relationship with you and you think it's too much trouble to invite them, be careful. Guizhou people love face, and if you ask him, he will be heartbroken for money; If you don't invite him, he thinks you look down on him. Then you wait for someone to tell you to die. Generally speaking, as long as you have blown a cow and chatted, please remember the name. It's his business to invite or not, and it's your fault not to invite. Therefore, the guest list should be carefully considered. When you make a guest list, you'd better bring a list and find out who you invited. If you are not invited, remember to come back.

7. register. It's simple. Remember to take their ID cards to the Civil Affairs Bureau to take photos, fill out the form and get the certificate. It doesn't cost a penny, and there are not many people. Be sure to bring the boy himself, the intermediary can't. The Civil Affairs Bureau has a marriage registration office, which is easy to find, usually next to the divorce registration office. Divorce should pay some money, which means you can get married at will, but divorce should be careful!

8. Well, there is basically nothing to do here. Just dress up as a couple and give a passionate performance on the wedding day. I wish you happiness. Beware of the friends who make trouble in the new house. They are guys who eat people and don't spit bones!