A Tribute to the Post-70s: A Bitter-Sweet Generation

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I always think I'm still young, but I don't know I've already turned gray.

People born in the 1970s are almost fifty years old. Some people, more than fifty years old, chatting with people, are embarrassed to reveal their age.

When the grandparents, there are many people. There are also some people, holding their own children, but was mistaken for holding grandchildren, the inner pain, the reason, only their own clear.

Hey. 70 years later, a shake on the old, bitter sweet.

02

After 70 years, we seem to have suffered a lot.

The old ancestors told us, "Eat the bitter, only one person."

However, we seem to have suffered more than others. In detail, from the day of birth, the suffering has not ceased.

About the countryside . Most of the post-70s were born in the countryside. At that time, families were not rich. Families with 10,000 dollars were called "million-dollar households" and were the biggest people in the village.

People who grew up in the countryside should know everything about farming: cutting rice, feeding pigs, herding cows, driving ducks, planting rice seedlings, digging soil, chopping firewood .......

Reading is a side job, and doing farm work is the main job. Many people, who did not finish junior high school, went home to farm. It's not that the grades are too bad, but the family lacks labor.

About the city . Count how many post-70s you have around you who moved to the city from the countryside?

Some people say, "The hometown can't keep the body, the foreign country can't accommodate the soul."

In order to make money to support the family, in order to the next generation to live a better life, to do their best, in the city to buy a house. Perhaps, up to now, the mortgage has not been paid off, and the work is not too good. The debt repayment is a worrying thing to think about.

The city's scenery is great, and the parks are huge. However, without a piece of land of their own, we live into a rootless duckweed.

About children . When I was young, I caught up with the family planning era, and many couples, they had a child. Now, older, but can have two children.

People in their forties, it is difficult to have a child, and even more difficult to raise a child.

When you're sixty, you can't work hard enough, but you have to manage your child's growth and learning. What kind of suffering is this? Until that day, one can only think.

About working . How many people, after graduating from junior high school, went to work in the south? After many years in the factory, I thought I could live a good life. However, from the first day of entering the factory, there has been no escape from the fate of working.

Going out, being bullied is a small thing, not making much money is a big thing. However, there is no skill and no financial basis, not working, what else can be done?

About marriage. The old generation of people, hold a hand, will be to the white head. However, to our generation, the divorce, slowly more. Many people, when they get married, they are happy, and when they get divorced, they cry.

The instability of marriage also brings a lot of trouble. In the future, couples can grow old together? Let's hope so.

A lot of people start from scratch, but after buying a house and having a child, they are still empty-handed in the end.

03

After 70 years, the speed of making money can never catch up with the speed of getting old.

Money ah, life does not bring, death does not take away. When it comes to money, we are always very elegant, but really want money, only to realize that the money is too little, never enough.

No matter what the suffering, it boils down to - no money.

Finally understand that money can make the devil grind.

The money is needed to support the parents, the children need money to grow up, the money is needed to live in the city, the money is needed for their own old age. But where does the money come from? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.

Earlier, I wrote an article titled "Don't laugh at the man who is still applying for a job at the age of 50".

A reader left a comment, "52 years old, still struggling, no way to live is difficult, I hope young people do not discriminate against us."

There is also a message from a reader: "Fifty years old to apply for a job, that is not admit defeat, life does not give up, go!"

All kinds of heartache seem to be concentrated in the age of "50".

People in the middle age, there are old and young. If you're in your 30s or 40s, your spirit is still strong, your body is strong, and you can survive the pain of earning money; however, after 50 years, your life is going downhill, mentally and physically, and you can't afford it.

Last month, our unit came to a new janitor Lao Hu.

I asked the old Hu: "You are only fifty years old, when the guard, is not a little early?"

The old man said: "Not for anything else, just want to have a place to pay my pension insurance."

It turned out that the old Hu went to work in many places, did not solve the problem of old age. He is now anxious, worried about the problem of old age.

When a person reaches the age of fifty, he has to serve his old age. If there is still no savings on the body, and not prepared for the pension, then the future days, it will be more difficult.

But after 70, their parents are mostly in the countryside all their lives, their old age problem, are their own problem ah.

"What to do"? And who are you looking for to say it? Filial piety parents is something we should do, do not expect their children to manage their own old age, is also something we should consider.

In a word, without money, it is much harder.

04

Post-70s, don't worry, there is more suffering waiting.

When I was a kid, I learned a poem: "When I was young, I left home and came back to my oldest, and my hometown voice didn't change."

In class, the teacher said, "The poet has been away from his hometown for many years, and the children in his hometown don't recognize him. Just hearing the poet speak his native language, he knows he is from his hometown."

In fact, we have also become "the poet who has left his hometown".

Hometown, really hard to go back.

If you want to go back to your hometown, you have to have a house, a good living condition, a healthy body, and a lot of money for your retirement.

Many people, the hometown is still there, but the old house is gone. Perhaps, the hometown has changed its appearance, simply can not find nostalgia.

The first thing you need to know is that you can't go back to your hometown, and it's hard to find a place to go.

The next day, how to live? The first thing you need to do is to get the best of what you have to offer, and you can do it all at the same time.

All along the way, we have been taking one step at a time, and no one knows what we will encounter next.

Perhaps, we also have to face the problem of delayed retirement, when can we really breathe a sigh of relief?

"Where has the time gone? Not yet properly feel young on the old, give birth to children for a lifetime, full of children crying and laughing". A song lyrics, life depicted to the fullest, read the people, has been in tears.

After 70, bitter is a common thing, remember the joy in the bitter.

By: cloth rough food

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