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Principles of etiquette in 500 words!!! Reflections

Personal etiquette is the basis of all other etiquette, is a person's ceremonial glow, instrumentation, speech, behavior and demeanor of the integrated embodiment of the personal character, quality, interest, literacy, the spiritual world and habits of life of the external manifestations. The general norms for: clean and fresh, dignified and generous. First, instrument etiquette to maintain clean hair, grooming, hair and my own conditions, identity and work nature appropriate. Men should be groomed and shaved every day. Women's make-up should be simple, clear, elegant, avoid excessive use of aromatic cosmetics, avoid public make-up or make-up. The expression of the face should be natural and calm, and the gaze should be focused, steady and soft. Keep your hands clean and avoid having long nails on formal occasions. Standing posture Straight and stretched, arms hanging down naturally. On formal occasions, you should not put your hands in your pants pockets or cross your chest, and do not make small subconscious movements. Women's legs should be basically together when standing, and the foot position should be compatible with the clothing. When wearing a tight skirt, keep your heels close together and your toes apart in a "V" or "Y" shape; when wearing a dress or cheongsam, keep your feet slightly apart. Sitting posture When you take your seat, your movements should be light and slow, relaxed and natural. Do not drag chairs and stools at will, take a seat from the left side of the chair and sit calmly and quietly. When a woman in a skirt is seated, she should gather the back of her skirt, keep her knees together or cross her legs backward, keep her upper body upright, shoulders relaxed, and put her hands on her knees or the armrests of the chair. Men can part their legs slightly (generally not more than shoulder width) and place their hands naturally on their knees or the armrests of their chairs. When leaving your seat, ask the person of higher status to leave first. When you leave your seat, you should do so gently, without making any noise, from the left side of the seat, stand up and walk again, and keep your posture light and steady. Walking posture When walking, the head should be lifted, the center of gravity slightly forward, the chest should be lifted, the abdomen should be tightened, the upper body should be straight, the shoulders should be relaxed, the arms should swing back and forth naturally, the footsteps should be light and steady, the gaze should be natural, and there should be no looking around. Observe the rules of the road, and yield to each other as pedestrians. Walk in threes, with the elderly, women and children in the middle. When men and women walk together, men usually walk on the outside. Avoid eating or smoking while walking. When you meet acquaintances, you should take the initiative to greet them, and if you need to talk to them, you should stand by the side of the road and do not obstruct the traffic. Conversation etiquette Sincere attitude, natural expression, generous, language and friendly, decent expression. Do not use fingers to point at people when talking, and make gestures with small amplitude. Talkers should maintain a certain distance. In the public **** occasions between men and women do not ear to ear, and non-family relations with the opposite sex to avoid prolonged conversation, whispering. Speak to elders, teachers and superiors with respect, and speak to subordinates, juniors and students to pay attention to approachability. When talking to several people at the same time, do not focus on one or two people, but take care of everyone present and listen to each other's words. Do not speak out of turn or use strong words. Do not talk about people's privacy or expose their shortcomings. Don't talk about others behind their backs and make up stories about right and wrong. Don't talk about absurd and sensational things, and don't engage in small broadcasts. When there is disagreement in the conversation, we should remain calm and tolerate dissent or avoid the topic with an open-minded attitude. Do not make a lot of noise or argue in public for non-principle issues. In case of attack, insulting words, must take a stand, but to master the scale. Third, dress etiquette dress is a culture, reflecting a nation's cultural literacy, spiritual outlook and the degree of development of material civilization; dress is an art, correct and appropriate dress, reflecting the individual's good mental outlook, cultural cultivation and aesthetic taste. The dress code for official occasions should be dignified and generous; the dress code for banquets, balls and other social occasions should highlight the fashion personality; and the dress code for leisure occasions should be comfortable and natural. The whole body clothing color is generally not more than three kinds of ground. Men's dress Men must be neat and straight when wearing a suit. Formal occasions should wear a uniform fabric, uniform color suit, wearing a monochrome shirt, tie, wear dark shoes. Three-piece suit, in formal occasions can not take off the jacket. In accordance with national practice, the suit does not wear a woolen undershirt and sweater, in our country, at most, only add a "V" collar sweater, to maintain the suit line beauty. The collar of the shirt should be straight, and there should be no dirt or stains. Shirt hem should be tucked into the pants, fasten the collar and cufflinks, shirt collar and cuffs should be longer than the suit collar and cuffs 1-2 cm, in order to show that there is a sense of hierarchy, shirt inside the collar and cuffs of the underwear can not be exposed. Tie knot should be full, and shirt collar to match. The length of the tie should be suitable for the big arrow hanging down to the belt buckle after tying it. When the suit is worn with buttons, the tie clip is clamped between the third and fourth buttons of the shirt. Wearing a suit must wear leather shoes, the color of the shoes should not be lighter than the pants. Black shoes can be with black, gray, navy blue suit, dark brown shoes with tawny or beige suit, shoes should be oiled and polished. Socks should generally choose black, brown or navy blue, and pants color matching any time, avoid black leather shoes with white socks. Women's dress Office dress color should not be too eye-catching, should try to consider and office tone, atmosphere and harmony, and with the specific occupational classification. Clothing should be comfortable and convenient to adapt to the intensity of work throughout the day. Exposed, fancy, reflective clothing is the office of the taboo. More formal occasions, you should choose women's formal professional suits; more relaxed professional environment, you can choose to shape a sense of stability, a sense of bright lines, rich in texture and quite sense of clothing. The texture of the clothes should be as exquisite as possible and not easy to wrinkle. When wearing a skirt, the color of the socks should be coordinated with the color of the skirt, and the mouth of the socks should not be exposed outside the skirt. Skirts for young women should reach 3-6 centimeters above the knee, and skirts for middle-aged and elderly women should reach about 3 centimeters below the knee. Shoes should be comfortable, convenient, coordinated and uncluttered. Jewelry Wearing jewelry should consider the relationship between people, environment, mood, clothing style and many other factors, and strive to coordinate the overall match. Abide by the principle of less is better, the same quality and color, in line with the identity. Men can only wear rings, necklaces, necklaces, etc., focusing on less but fine, in order to show the masculinity. Women have a wide variety of accessories, a wider range of choices, accessories should be worn with the body shape, hairstyle, face shape, skin color, clothing and work nature of coordination. Condolences can only wear wedding rings, pearl necklaces and plain ornaments