Talked for four years, girlfriend is still a yellow girl, what is wrong with me?

Talked for four years, the girlfriend is still a yellow flower girl, can explain two things.

The first thing, they may be very, very, very much in love with her, so they are not willing to go to the destruction of each other's ignorant feelings, do not want to go to the destruction of that kind of feeling, want to wait until they marry her into the family, and then perform the rituals of circumference, so even if they have been together for four years, they are still very gentlemanly, or to maintain their own demeanor, so the girlfriend is still a yellow-bellied girl.

The second thing, they may not like her, just think she's not bad, just feel close to her, but not be able to intimacy, because they do not have a male to female that kind of primitive impulse, so even if you talk about love to talk about four years of time, still maintain this distance and platonic love, not out of the ordinary, so the girlfriend is still a yellow blossom daughters.

Of course, no matter which of the above situation, for a man, they do not seem to be so "successful", after all, now popular is fast food love, not pay attention to the humble gentleman and so on, so you in the end how is it, think about it.