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Is the sense of ceremony more important or the mind more important in love?
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Indeed, love needs a sense of ceremony. But too much pursuit of ritual has become a burden of love. People often complain online that there are 364 days out of 365 days in a year that need to be celebrated and given gifts, and every day is a festival and anniversary. In fact, the act of giving gifts has never been should and shouldn't, but want and don't want. Therefore, excessive pursuit of rituals will make love heavy.
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Different from the sense of ritual, the mind is a spontaneous, active and uncontrolled behavior. For example, if I like you, I can't help but remember your preferences, observe your emotions and care about all the people or things you care about, because I hope you can be happy more than anyone else. During menstruation, I have a cup of brown sugar water, a playground when I am depressed, and medicine sent to my mouth when I feel uncomfortable ... these are my thoughts.
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Originally, I am a romantic person. I can give everyone around me a sense of ceremony, and I can also give them advice and teach them how to be a romantic. But since I met you, I've suddenly become a lot clumsy. I will not think about how to please you with some illusory things, but think about how to be better for you every day.
So a sense of ceremony can be given to many people, but enthusiasm and heart can't be given to anyone except you.
Therefore, I think it is more important to be in the center of love. We always treat each other wholeheartedly and cherish the present, which is more important than any gorgeous and dazzling sense of ceremony! I hope someone will accompany you to see the calm scenery and give you a long-lasting love.
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