The more important things the more you want to avoid what is the psychology?

They don't have the ability to solve problems and don't have the courage to face failure. The children, in particular, are overly dependent on their parents. When they encounter problems, the first thing they think of is to find their parents to solve them instead of thinking about how they should respond. There is also a lack of a sense of responsibility, no bearing. It is a kind of regressive behavior. Life, work in the problem, choose to avoid is afraid of responsibility, afraid of mistakes to be punished. Avoiding will make themselves away from the difficulties, away from the pressure, and even refused to recognize their own existence of the error. Then there is not dare to face, do not have the courage to accept the upcoming results, is a kind of cowardly performance. Like at the beginning of the two people who are very much in love with each other but face the problem of breaking up, many people do not analyze the causes of the problem and find a solution to the problem, but choose to escape. Immersed in deep pain, lose confidence in themselves, lose hope in love, pessimism and negative despair, let it passive development, but also lose the best time to repair and restore.