How to chat with boys online

1, you should learn to show yourself in front of him. Many girls will instinctively disguise themselves in front of the boys they like, trying to shape themselves into a perfect person, either wearing delicate makeup or wearing too grand clothes, giving others a feeling of overexertion. This will not only increase the distance between you, but also directly affect his first impression of you. It is recommended to keep yourself in life. Remember one sentence. 2. Learn to express bravely. Some girls are originally Kan Kan, who are very talkative, but in front of the person they like, they suddenly become less talkative. In the final analysis, the reason is that when they face the person they like, they will become nervous and worry that what they say will not be heard by the other party. I suggest you learn to express yourself in your life. You know, the more afraid you are, the less you will say it, and the less you will say that the other person has nothing to say to you. We should have a basic understanding of him. Some girls' affection for boys is often superficial, which may be his casual gesture or his unintentional concern. In short, there are various reasons, but many times, if you really like someone, you should know something about his life, such as personal hobbies and dressing styles, which will not only make you have something to say when you meet again, but also improve life in your. 4, you have to learn to take the initiative, you can take the initiative to chat with him, but don't always take the initiative. Being too active will make him feel from his heart that even if he doesn't talk to you, you will take the initiative to talk to him, so he won't bother to think about what to talk to you, because you have already considered this question. You should learn to keep your mouth shut. Some girls will start to use some simple tricks when they can't get a response from the other party, such as deliberately expressing their affection for other boys in front of him, hoping to see him jealous. It's good to use this skill occasionally. If you use it frequently, it will only make him really think that you are talking to him only for other boys, which will only make him farther away from you. 6. You should give the other party a chance to make suggestions. Don't tell everyone, give him a chance to make suggestions. If you are afraid that you have nothing to say, keep talking, maybe he will get bored. Chatting is a matter for two people. If you say something he doesn't want to hear, but you continue to say it, it may make him unwilling to talk to you too much next time. You should let him talk about the same topic as you. How to chat with boys online 2 1 Tell more anecdotes or secrets about yourself. Once a girl tells her little things to a boy, the boy will think that the distance between you and him will be closer, especially some little secrets that only you and him know. He will be happy to keep a secret that belongs to both of you. As long as he remembers this secret in his heart, there is more or less a place for you in his heart. If you meet a boy, you will casually tell others your little secret or anecdote. You should watch and like it. Think about what it will be like after getting along. I won't say much here, just that what I said is not suitable for that boy. Haha) 2. Don't let one side talk too much when chatting, learning to control it sounds a bit mysterious. Especially when chatting with boys you like, you will feel very nervous. If you care about him and like him, you will subconsciously dominate the chat. If you don't want the other person to be bored in the chat, you will talk more, right? However, no matter who keeps talking about himself in the chat, and then the other person keeps listening, if you don't give him a chance to exchange ideas, anyone may get bored. In chatting, there is not only communication, but also listening. Don't pay too much attention to communicating with him (he is listening to your thoughts when you communicate), and you should also leave some space for the other person to communicate with you (you should also learn to listen), so that the other person will be willing to continue chatting with you and continue dating. 3, create problems, let boys think of ways and ideas for you. Boys (like me, haha) like a sense of accomplishment, especially in chatting, which can solve some troubles of each other. That sense of accomplishment is very cool. In the process of chatting, try to make your conversation show mutual "I hope the other party can help me find a way and make suggestions". For example. For example, if you plan to ask for leave in a few days, you can say, are you there? I plan to ask for leave in a few days. I don't know what the reason is. I'm afraid the leader won't approve. Can you help me think about it? Be sure to think about the topic of chat before chatting, so it is not easy to form an embarrassing chat. It may take some time for him to reply, so don't be impatient. He may reply to one or several suggestions, and then you can talk about what is good or bad according to these suggestions and make some suggestions of your own. Anyway, in the end, you have to come up with an answer that you and he can accept, and make him think that you can solve the problem because of him. In this way, he must be flattered and may miss you all night, which will bring him a sense of accomplishment after all. Also, try to keep your mouth shut. Don't give him too many negative feelings, just spit it out once in a while, you will be easily scolded by boys, haha. 4. Give him enough time to answer. Never continue to press the other person if he doesn't reply in a short time. To set aside enough time, boys will manage their emotions first, analyze things rationally, and organize their language before speaking slowly. Especially when you ask him for advice, the other person doesn't answer for a second or for a short time. It's not that he doesn't want to talk to you. He may be thinking for you and thinking of suggestions for you. If you suddenly send you another message, he has to rearrange his thoughts and consider whether to ask you for a new message, which is quite bad. If you like him, you should put yourself in his shoes, right? It is unreasonable that a girl who can empathize with others will not like chatting with her.