Why do men and women in Shandong eat at separate tables?

In fact, it is the custom of Shandong people to separate tables for men and women at the party of visiting relatives and friends. Women didn't go to the table before, but now men and women will share the table. Because men in Shandong like to drink, while women generally don't drink. It's inconvenient to mix together without drinking or smoking.

So women and children will be on the same table, but the dishes on the two tables are the same except for alcohol and tobacco on the man's table.

There are many people eating at home, so it is normal to sit and drink a table instead of one. Life is your own life, warm and warm, and you don't have to listen to others.

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Shandong is basically like this, weddings and funerals, Chinese New Year holidays, big scenes have to be divided into male seats and female seats, and most children and women sit.

Halfway through the meal, the children began to participate, usually under the instructions of their mothers and grandmothers, and said to the relatives of the male seat, "Stop drinking! Drink less wine! Mom (milk) won't let you drink any more. "

Any custom is based on the highest standard of comfort for the host and guests.

Everyone knows and feels comfortable, so why care what outsiders say? Shandong is not the only watch, why should it be targeted at Shandong? Because men drink slowly, women eat early, then drink water and eat fruit to chat, and men can drink whenever they like.