Ancient Stories about Family Discipline

① What are the stories about family culture and family training

1. Sima Guang taught his children well

Sima Guang was known as Mr. Blossom. Sima Guang was a politician and historian of the Northern Song Dynasty, and a prime minister. Although Sima Guang was a high-ranking official, he was very strict in teaching his children and emphasized on training them to be self-disciplined and self-reliant. He wrote a piece of "Training Thrift and Showing Kang", which has been recited to this day.

He summarized the history of many prominent officials and noble son, because of the ancestral shade can not be self-reliance and decadence of the lessons of the decline, cautioned his son: "Virtue are all thrifty also."" The first is to be able to make a name for himself by being frugal, and to be extravagant by being self-defeating".

As a result of the teaching of children, Sima Guang's son, all humble and courteous, do not rely on the father's power, do not rely on the rich, the life of a success. So that the world has "the way of people see Rongzhi, although they do not know all know Sima's son also".

2, Ji Hongchang not forgetting his father's training

Ji Hongchang, the word Shi Wu, Henan Fugou people. He is one of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Allied Army. In his early years as a soldier in Feng Yuxiang's army, he was promoted to battalion commander and division commander for his bravery, and later became the commander of the Kuomintang army and the chairman of the Ningxia Province ***.

In 1920, at the age of 25, Ji Hongchang, then a battalion commander, his father, Ji Gyanting, was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang, who came to visit him, "When the official should be clean and modest, more for the sake of the world's poor, as an official is not allowed to get rich. Otherwise, I can not sleep peacefully in the nine springs." Ji Hongchang agreed with tears.

Ji Hongchang's father died, he put the "officials are not allowed to get rich" six words written on the bowl, to ceramic factory to copy the batch firing, the bowl was distributed to all officers and soldiers. In the distribution of ceramic bowls on the General Assembly, said: "Although I am a governor, but never oppress the people, plundering the people's money, I have to remember my father's teachings, not to get rich as an official, for the world's poor people to do a good job, please brothers to supervise."

Ji Hongchang words and deeds, a life of innocence and modesty, everywhere for the people. When the Japanese imperialists invaded China, the people are in deep water, he opposed Chiang Kai-shek's surrender policy, rise up against the Japanese. Killed by the Kuomintang reactionaries, sacrificed at the age of 39.

3. Lu Xun taught his son to go with the flow

Lu Xun and Xu Guangping had only one son, Zhou Haiying. When his son was born, Xu Guangping showed signs of difficulty in labor, and when the doctor asked Lu Xun for advice on whether to keep the adult or the child, he answered decisively: "Keep the adult." As a result, the mother and child were safe.

In the process of his son's growth, Lu Xun basically in accordance with the idea of "how we are now a father" to implement, so that he "complete liberation", which also said: "I now think of it in my heart, it is only love."

According to Zhou Haiying's "70 Years of Lu Xun and Me", Lu Xun's educational style is "to let nature take its course, trying not to give him too much of a blow, or even not wanting to go against his favorites, except in the very intolerable, extremely unreasonable to a certain extent".

One day, Zhou Haiying refused to go to school, and Lu Xun hit him with a newspaper ***. Later, Lu Xun wrote a letter to his mother explaining, "When you hit, the sound is loud, but it doesn't hurt."

4, Qian Kibo son of extremely strict discipline

Qian Kibo is a generation of masters of national science, is a scholar, writer Qian Zhongshu's father. Qian Kibo on his son's discipline is extremely strict, Qian Zhongshu sixteen years old, but also a beating. 1926 fall to the following summer, Qian Kibo went north to teach at Tsinghua, the winter holidays did not return to Wuxi.

At this time, Qian Zhongshu is in middle school, did not study textbooks, but headlong into the world of fiction. When his father came back to ask him about his homework, Qian Zhongshu couldn't pass the test, so he was beaten.

In 1929, after Qian Zhongshu was admitted to the Department of Foreign Languages at Tsinghua University, Qian Jiabo still wrote to him from time to time. One letter said, "Being a benevolent gentleman is especially more important than being a famous scholar."

Then a letter said: "Now outside the material theory, that your article wins me, learning over me, I am happy; but not as good as people say you are more realistic than me, I'm especially pleased to be able to do so." I hope that Qian Zhongshu can be "calm and serene, tranquility. I hope you for Zhuge Gong, Tao Yuanming; do not like you for Hu Shizhi, Xu Zhimo".

Qian Ji Bo kept a distance from the new cultural movement at the time, buried in the national science, he admonished Qian Zhongshu, but out of the cultural position of a Confucian.

5, Liang Qichao all-round love children

Liang Qichao has nine children, in his education, guidance, each become an expert in a certain field, and even produced a "three academicians" story. This "three academicians" are architect Liang Sicheng, archaeologist Liang Siyong, rocket control system expert Liang Sili. In addition, the fourth son Liang Sida is an economist, the second daughter Liang Sizhuang is a librarian, the third daughter Liang Siyi is a social activist.

Liang Qichao's love for his children is all-encompassing, unfolding in a calm and equal manner not only in their studies, but also in their dealings with the world, and even in their financial management and current affairs, among many other aspects. Read Leung Chi-chiu's Letters, you will understand that in the letters written to the children Leung Chi-chiu's performance in educating his children is exemplary.

When writing letters, Liang Qichao did not hide his love. 1927 June letter, he wrote: "You know your father is the most affectionate person, for your love, twelve points warm. You no matter how busy you are, at least every few months, always come to a letter, just a few words to report the peace or not."

In this regard, Liang Qichao study, Liang Qichao does not value the diploma, but emphasizes a good foundation, grasp the "fire". He said to Liang Sizhuang: "failed to enter the university, it does not matter, 'learning is not seeking a diploma', always build the foundation of the wall the thicker the better." And teach the children to seek learning, the method of learning - "always 'fierce fire stew' and 'slow fire stew' two kinds of work cycle interacting with go! ".

At the same time, Liang Qichao emphasized the importance of responsibility. 1923, he wrote to his eldest daughter, Liang Sishun, said: "the world's business does not matter how big or small, as long as their own responsibility, do their own strength to do, is the first-class characters." Of course, while writing to teach his children, Liang Ren Gong did not forget to praise his son-in-law and daughter-in-law.

② Ancient short family motto

1, "Do not learn 'poetry', no words; do not learn 'rituals', no standing."

One day, Confucius stood in the courtyard, and his son Kong Carp, with his head bowed, quickly walked past. Confucius stopped him and asked, "Have you learned poetry?" Kong Li replied, "No." Confucius said, "How can you speak without learning poetry?" Kong Li then went back to study poetry. The next day, Kong Li ran into Confucius again, who was standing in the courtyard. Confucius asked, "Have you learned the rites?" Kong Li replied, "No."

Confucius said, "How can you be a human being if you don't learn the rites." This story is called "The Tingxun", and later the ancients called the father's reprimand of his son "The Tingxun".

2. Filial piety begins with serving one's parents, ends with serving one's ruler, and ends with establishing oneself.

Sima Tan believes that in the four hundred years since Confucius died, there have been many mergers of lords and vassals, and the history of the world has been cut short, but now there is unity in the world, and there have been many deeds of wise rulers, and of loyal ministers and righteous men. However, he was so disturbed by the fact that he could not fulfill his duty as a historian that he asked his son, Sima Qian, while weeping on his deathbed, not to forget to write the history books.

Sima Qian was able to fulfill his father's wish, and eventually wrote The Records of the Grand Historian (史记), which has been described as "the greatest song of the historians, and the unhymed "Li Sao" (离骚)", or "The Book of History".

3. A gentleman's behavior is to be quiet and frugal. The first thing you need to do is to be calm, and then you need to be quiet, and then you need to be far away. The study, want to quiet also; talent, must learn also. If you don't learn, you can't learn, and if you don't have the will, you can't learn. If you're slow, you can't study, and if you're impatient, you can't be rational.

This is Zhuge Liang in his old age wrote to his eight-year-old son of a letter. In this letter, Zhuge Liang asked his son to study hard to motivate, from the calm and quiet self-cultivation efforts. Do not be impetuous and behave ridiculously.

At the end of the text, he also advised: "Young and strong do not work hard, the old man is sad." Zhuge Liang in order to the state of Shu Han day and night, no time to take care of his son's education, so wrote this letter to warn his son.

4. Jade is not cut, not a tool; people do not learn, do not know. However, the jade is a thing, there is the constant virtue of unchanging, although not faceted as a tool, but also not harmful to the jade. People's nature, because of things are moving, do not learn, then give up the gentleman for the villain, can not be thought of?

Ouyang Xiu exhorted his children and grandchildren to study hard and improve their own cultivation. He warned his descendants: people have to be carved and honed in order to make a difference, and human habits are most vulnerable to the influence of the outside material environment, if you can't always sharpen yourself to improve your knowledge and character connotation, you will be a gentleman and a villain.

5, the gentleman does not give his relatives, not make the ministers complain about not to. The old man is not abandoned without a great cause, and he does not seek to be prepared for a man. The gentleman's strength is like the ox, not competing with the ox for strength; he walks like the horse, not competing with the horse for walking; he is like the scholar, not competing with the scholar for wisdom.

The man of virtue and honor is honored; the man of land and danger is at peace; the man of honor and dignity is noble; the man of strength and fear is victorious; the man of intelligence and wisdom is foolish; the man of knowledge and memory is shallow; the man of breadth and depth.

A virtuous man does not neglect his relatives, and does not let his ministers complain of not being appointed. If an old minister has not committed a serious fault, he should not abandon him, and he should not seek to criticize a particular person. Even if he is as strong as an ox, he will not compete with the ox in size; even if he is as fast as a horse, he will not compete with the horse in speed; and even if he is as wise as a scholar, he will not compete with the scholar in wisdom.

He who is vast in virtue and conducts himself with humility is honored. If the land is vast and rich, and you live in a frugal way, you will always be safe; if you have a high official position and you discipline yourself in a humble way, you will be more honorable; if you have many soldiers and you hold on to them with a timid mentality, you will surely be victorious; if you are wise and intelligent and you deal with the world with a foolish attitude, you will be benefited; if you are learned and knowledgeable and you humbly humble yourself with a superficial attitude, you will have a broader view of the world.

③ What are the examples of good family training in ancient history

I. Sima Guang "family model"

1, for the mother, not suffering from not kind, suffering from the knowledge of love and do not know to teach. As the old saying goes, "A loving mother loses her son". Love and do not teach, so that the fall in the unworthy, trapped in the great evil, into the criminal, to the chaos, not others defeated, mother defeat, since ancient times and now, if so much more, can not be counted.

2, translation: when the human mother is not worried about her not kind, worried about is too spoiled and do not know to teach them. For mothers, Sima Guang believes that: the reason why loving mothers lose their children, the key is to love but not teach, just overly pampered and spoiled. Small is to make the children only know meals to mouth, clothes to hand, do not know the difficulty of harvest, do not know the difficulties of livelihood; large is to make the children arbitrary and solitary, regardless of discipline, lawlessness, so as to make the unfaithful and unfilial, the loss of conscience of God, and in the end behind bars, the head of the body, and become the dregs of the community and the sinner.

3. Sima Guang himself said that the Family Model is more important than the Ziji Tongjian. He said; those who want to rule the country must first align their families. As far as the study of standing in the world and dealing with the complexity of the conflicts around us is concerned, the Family Model is indeed important and practical. Modern people need to learn from the wisdom of ancient teachings, to be a "worldly" people.

④ Celebrity family rules and family training stories

1, Hu Shih advocated "independence, togetherness, emphasis on learning"

In the family education, Hu Shih advocated "independence, togetherness, emphasis on learning", but he himself did not know how to love children. In 1929, Hu Shih wrote a letter to Hu Zuwang, hoping to train him to lead an independent, sociable and diligent life, in which he said: "Passing the homework is nothing. In a class, you have to catch up with the top row of the class, and in a school, you have to catch up with the top row of the school. To be the best in schoolwork, to be the best in behavior, to be the best in human beings, this is the ambitious child.

2, Ji Hongchang did not forget his father's training

Ji Hongchang, the word Shi Wu, Henan Fugou people. Chasui anti-Japanese allied army leaders. 1920, 25-year-old Ji Hongchang, then serving as a battalion commander, his father Ji Gyunting seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang, who came to visit him: "When an official should be innocent and modest, more for the sake of the world's poor, as an official, you are not allowed to get rich. Otherwise, I can not sleep peacefully in the nine springs." Ji Hongchang agreed with tears.

Ji Hongchang's father died, he put the "officials are not allowed to get rich" six words written on the bowl, to ceramic factory to copy the batch firing, the bowl was distributed to all officers and soldiers. In the distribution of ceramic bowls on the General Assembly, said: "Although I Ji Hongchang for the governor, but never oppress the people, plundering the people's money, I want to remember my father's teachings, do not do the official to get rich, for the world's poor to do good things, please brothers to supervise."

3. Confucius' family motto: Poetry and rituals

Confucius' education for his son started from being a human being, and did not require his children to memorize how many words and how many questions they could do correctly, but started from Poetry and Rituals. The first thing I want to do is to learn how to make the most of the time. Poetry is born from the heart, can express the most real and sincere feelings of people, beautiful words, can say the words better; why learn the ritual, is to teach children to have morals, know how to be courteous, do not fight, do not rob, and get along with people in harmony, in order to be better in the world.

4, Lao She family motto: diligence is the root of being a man

Lao She's way of educating his children is still an example for people to learn. Mr. Lao She said in a letter to his wife: "I think they can read a few words, a bit of addition and subtraction, know a bit of history, it is enough, as long as the body is strong, the future can learn a trade, you can make a living, do not have to enter the university. If I see my daughters dancing and making speeches, with the hope of becoming stars, and my boys as fit as oxen, able to endure hardships and sufferings, I shall rejoice very much! I would that my sons and daughters could earn their bread by blood and sweat."

This is what Mr. Lao She said and did. Once, Mr. Lao She's daughter for their own math only 60 points some unhappy, but Lao She comforted his daughter, said: "60 points is also very high! You're better than dad, I failed math when I was a kid!" When his daughter asked Mr. Lao She how to do if she could not get into college, Mr. Lao She replied: "If you can't get into college, you can stay at home and I will teach you English.

5, Li Shimin's family motto: every meal, the idea of plowman

Li Shimin, the second emperor of the Tang Dynasty, he set a family motto, that is, "every meal, the idea of plowman," that is to say, every meal, we can not forget the hard work of farmers. Li Shimin, as a generation of emperors, never extravagant and wasteful, modest to treat people, and from the advice, accepting talent, become a generation of Mingjun, realize the history of the famous "rule of Zhenguan.

⑤ Celebrities family rules and discipline short story

Zeng Guofan had to come 3 sons and 5 daughters, the youngest daughter Zeng Jifen the longest life since, lived to 91 years old. 1875, Zeng Jifen married into the Hunan Nie family. Zeng Guofan stipulated that each daughter married, the dowry shall not exceed 200 taels of silver, and at the same time the dowry also has the father's handwritten list of homework. Zeng Guofan wanted to train his daughter to be a thrifty housewife, and she actually did better than her father expected.

Qian Kibo son of extremely strict discipline, Qian Zhongshu sixteen years old, but also a beating. 1926 fall to the following summer, Qian Kibo north to teach at Tsinghua, the winter holidays did not return to Wuxi. At this time Qian Zhongshu was in middle school, did not study textbooks, but headlong into the world of fiction. When his father came back to ask about his homework, Qian Zhongshu couldn't pass the test, so he was beaten.

In life, Feng Zikai called going out to do things for "boredom", and with the children is full of joy, hugging the children, feeding the children to eat, singing songs to amuse the children, painting to attract the children to laugh, and the children are particularly close. Once, the eldest son of Zhanzhan to Feng Zikai to carry him to the station to buy bananas, "full of tackles two hands back", to the home, but sleeping on his father's shoulder, hands of bananas have long been unknown. Feng Zikai in the article "to my children" exclaimed: "This is how admirable frankness, naturalness and enthusiasm! The so-called virtues of 'silence', 'subtlety' and 'profundity' of the great people are all unnatural, sick and pseudo compared to you!"

⑥ Ancient family training short story 50 words

Father and son clear to clean

The Three Kingdoms, Hu quality in the source of Wei County governor for nearly three years, after his death, the family has no money, only the court rewarded clothes and several boxes of books only. Everyone praised him for his honesty and integrity. When Hu Zhi was the governor of Jingzhou, his family was in Kyoto. Once his son Hu Wei visited him at his residence, and when he returned home, Hu Qi took out a piece of silk and gave it to him as a traveling allowance. Hu Wei knelt down in front of his father and said, "Father has always been a clean official, I don't know where this silk came from?" Hu Qi said, "My son, there is no need to doubt, this silk is the balance of my salary." Hu Wei thanked his father for the reward and rode a donkey on the road. Along the way, he herded his own donkey and chopped his own wood for cooking when he was hitting the tip and staying at the store.

Later, Hu Wei also served as an assassin, and his political achievements were outstanding. After entering the Jin Dynasty, Emperor Wu of Jin Dynasty received him. The emperor marveled at Hu Qi's life story and said to Hu Wei, "How does your honesty compare to your father's?" Hu Wei replied, "Not as good as my father." Emperor Wu of Jin asked, "Why?" Hu Wei said: "My father is clean and honest but afraid that people know, I am clean and honest but afraid that people do not know, so I and my father are far from each other."

⑦ Famous people's family rules

1. Sima Guang taught his son well

Sima Guang, the character Junshi, was known as Mr. Blossom. He was a politician and historian of the Northern Song Dynasty.

Although he was a powerful official, Sima Guang was a strict disciplinarian, emphasizing the importance of fostering self-discipline and self-reliance in his children. He wrote a book that is still being read to this day, The Discipline of Thrift and the Discipline of Kang. Summarizing the history of many sons of prominent officials and noblemen, who had fallen into decay and decline because they were not able to strengthen themselves and stand on their own feet due to their ancestry, Sima Guang warned his sons: ''All virtuous people come from frugality,'' he said. Thrift to establish a name, lavish to self defeating'.

As a result of the teaching of children, Sima Guang's son, all humble and courteous, do not rely on the father's power, not rely on the rich, life has been accomplished. So that the world has 'the way people see Rongzhi, although they do not know all know Sima's son also'.

2, Ji Hongchang not forgetting his father's training

Ji Hongchang, the word Shifu, Henan Fugou people. One of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Allied Army. In his early years, he was a soldier in Feng Yuxiang's army, and was promoted to battalion commander and division commander for his bravery, and later became the commander of the Kuomintang army and the chairman of Ningxia Province ***.

In 1920, at the age of 25, Ji Hongchang, then a battalion commander, his father, Ji Gyanting, was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang, who came to visit him: 'When you are an official, you have to be clean and modest, and think more about the world's poor, and you are not allowed to get rich when you are an official. Otherwise, I can not sleep peacefully in the nine springs.' Ji Hongchang agreed with tears.

Ji Hongchang's father died, he put 'do not get rich' six words written on the porcelain bowl, to ceramic factory to copy the batch firing, the porcelain bowl distributed to all officers and soldiers. In the distribution of ceramic bowls on the General Assembly said: 'I Ji Hongchang, although for the governor, but never oppress the people, plundering the people's money, I want to remember my father's teachings, not to get rich as a government official, for the world's poor to do good, please brothers to supervise.

Ji Hongchang words and deeds, a life of innocence and modesty, everywhere for the people. When the Japanese imperialists invaded China, the people are in deep water, he opposed Chiang Kai-shek's surrender policy, rise up against the Japanese. Killed by the Kuomintang reactionaries, sacrificed at the age of 39.

3, the president taught his children to be self-reliant

Reagan, who had served as President of the United States, not only prestigious and rich. But he strictly required his children to be self-reliant and never let them rely on their parents. After his son lost his job, he looked for a job while living on the dole.

4. Lu Xun taught his children to go with the flow

Lu Xun and Xu Guangping had only one son, Zhou Haiying. At the birth of his son, Xu Guangping showed signs of difficulty in labor. When the doctor asked Lu Xun for advice on whether to keep the adult or the child, he answered decisively: "Keep the adult." As a result, the mother and child were safe.

During his son's growth, Lu Xun basically followed the idea of "How We Are Fathers Now" to implement the idea of "complete liberation", which also said: "What I think is true now is just love." According to Zhou Haiying's book "Lu Xun and my seventy years", Lu Xun's way of education is to "let nature take its course, trying not to give him too much of a blow, or even unwilling to go against his favorites, except in the extremely intolerable, extremely unreasonable to a certain extent. One day, when Zhou Haiying refused to go to school, Lu Xun beat him with a newspaper. Later, Lu Xun wrote to his mother to explain: "beat up, although the sound is loud, but not painful."

⑧ The story of family customs and family training

1, flawless jade, can be a national weapon; filial piety and fraternal duty to the son, can be the country Rui.

2, support for parents is a traditional Chinese virtue, starting from me from generation to generation.

3, we do have the advantages of such as this, but also to hide a few points, this is called connotation.

4, I only keep reading, you do not lightly donate young and strong.

5, home, the guardian of the heart; home, the warmth of the harbor; only the most beautiful place in the world!

6. Think of filial piety, think of respect; pour yourself into hard work, in order to fulfill the virtue and righteousness.

7, filial piety and respect for the elderly, strict teaching of children and grandchildren; respect for the elderly and love for children, pro-Mu heart.

8. Yin and Yang, everything grows, parents are safe, the family is prosperous.

9, people have celebrated, do not have jealousy; people have trouble, do not have happy heart.

10, to do more good deeds, extensive accumulation of virtue, to ensure the prosperity of a family.