What is the educational method of China family?

Corporal punishment of children seems to be an indispensable way for parents to educate their children in every country. Such as common spanking, beating, kneeling, flogging and so on.

Especially for parents with bad temper, whenever their children find it difficult to control their emotions and calm down, they will scold first and vent their anger first. This rude way of education will not only make children truly realize their mistakes, but also cause physical harm and psychological defects to children.

A survey shows that children who have been physically punished by their parents are more likely to be impulsive and hit people when they encounter problems and contradictions in the process of getting along with their children.

2. Pure learning education

China's parents' biggest mistake is clinging to their children's academic achievements. Most parents pay too much attention to their children's learning and ignore their own interests and physical and mental development. Parents insist that only by studying well can they become excellent children.

This kind of parents habitually stifle children's interest in daily life. As we all know, what modern society needs is not learning machines, but creative, physically and mentally sound and all-round talents. If children really can't learn, parents might as well save the country, vigorously develop their interests and give them timely encouragement and help. Maybe this will become their future livelihood skills.

3. Overprotective education

Compared with liberal education abroad, parents in China always care too much about their children. Most parents don't understand why they have to go to great lengths to raise a rebellious and old-fashioned child. In fact, when children habitually grow up under the protection of their parents' wings, most of them are helpless. When they are dissatisfied with the status quo, they can only transfer their anger and incompetence to their parents. Children who are arranged to grow up always choose extremely irrational ways to avoid problems.

4. Burning money education

Nowadays, in order to improve their children's academic performance, parents turn education into a game of burning money under the influence of comparison psychology and vanity, and at the same time deprive their children of freedom and happiness. Children often feel great pressure when their parents are impatient and utilitarian.

In order not to let their children lose at the starting line, most parents do not hesitate to spend a lot of money on education, because their anxiety makes their children have to leave in a hurry, which is against the law of education. This will only make them financially stressed and make their children breathless in the high-paced study and life.

5. laissez-faire education

Some parents seldom ask about their children's study, life and personality because of their busy work, and let them develop. They always think that their children will be sensible when they grow up. As everyone knows, this will only educate a child who is irresponsible, sensitive and lacking in love.

6. Affect education

The purpose of percussion education is to make children more motivated after stress, but there are also many hidden dangers. This kind of education brings children psychological trauma that is difficult to heal, such as inferiority, insecurity, self-doubt, self-denial, and extreme desire for affirmation.

7. spoil education

This kind of education seems to love children, but in fact it will destroy the cover-up and connivance of children's parents, and will only make children more and more lawless, develop selfish and self-centered nature, and be arrogant and willful and lack independence under the excessive connivance of parents.